BasketBaller
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BasketBaller got a reaction from TruHart1 in Would you rather be the twink on the bed or the jock standing next to him?
I'd rather look like the jock, but I'd rather get what the twink's about to get!
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BasketBaller got a reaction from JTtorretto in Pecs & Nips & More
When I was in college, there was a guy I used to see at the gym with a chest that made it tough for me to pretend I was straight. I struck up a friendship with him and we worked out together for a while, but what I really wanted was to see his chest when he took his shirt off in the locker room! Still a good memory.
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BasketBaller reacted to MikeBiDude in Game of Thrones
While his character was abominable, I though the guy was cute
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BasketBaller reacted to body2body in Game of Thrones
In Los Angeles the local PBS station showed the series finale of Vicious at 8pm, and then I watched GoT at 9pm. It was a great contrast and showed off the range of Iwan Rheon as an actor.
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BasketBaller got a reaction from Walker1 in 19 Reasons Middle-Age Gay Men Need to Get Over Their Midlife Crises
I was deeply closeted and in fevered denial of my gayness as a young man. Married with kids and pretending I was happy. But it probably did save my life, since I didn't do the anonymous, promiscuous thing. My wife and I had gay friends who died so young. One of my sons' godfathers died at 26. This essay hit me hard. Since I became a widower and single father I've been more honest and I am sometimes wistful about having been so inhibited when I was young. But again, that may have saved me. So I try to live in the here and now. As both a dad and (I think) a DILF. But I never want to forget those we lost.
