TravisChambers

Hey all! I have an upcoming cruise and was wondering how other providers go about letting people know they’re/you’re available to hire? I can set RM travel location to Miami or Fort Lauderdale before and after the trip, but how can I signal that I’ll be on the actual cruise? I know some clients often do want to hire during these, but I don’t necessarily want to broadcast to the entire Atlantis Telegram or Facebook groups. On the Istanbul to Athens cruise, I had a door decoration with a left-side Kelly green hankey, but it was unfortunately too subtle, which I mostly expected. (Although it did win me a first place ribbon and a bottle of Moet!) Suggestions? https://rentmen.re/TravisChambers

I’ve never blocked anyone on any platform. It just feels kind of dramatic when I have the option to not engage. If I see someone has viewed my profile dozens of times I may think “that’s a bit obsessive”, but it doesn’t bother me. That said, I have a much higher threshold for tolerating bullshit than the average person. As far as Client A talking to Client B… good! I know the type of experience I provide consistently, and I want people talking—tell everybody!

Try not to make assumptions about what others find attractive. Before I learned RentMen was even an option I used the app Daddy Hunt, and my filters were frequently set to >50. You may be accepted not in spite of your age or body but because of it!

Good question! I can only speak for myself of course, but there are a few answers here. The first thing is I genuinely love meeting new people as well as sex and physical connection; that’s what drew me to the work in the first place. It’s a great learning experience to be meeting guys of many different backgrounds and lifestyles rather than just living in the bubble in which I might otherwise find myself. In terms of initiating contact, it helps that I’m an empath and within a few minutes can generally discern the type of person he is inside. Everyone in this world has beautiful and interesting parts to his character, so I look for that and connect with it. Most people despite their flaws are good people who mean well and are trying their best. We’re never the villains in our own stories. Once I figure out the lense through which someone views the world, I can understand his behavior, even when we’re very different people. I also think about the fact he likely works really hard for the money he’s spending and how everyone deserves to feel seen, understood, and appreciated—especially those of who reach out to me. They deserve connection and compassion much more than the rest of you who have not, obviously. In terms of physical performance, just the act of being tuned in to someone mentally usually gets me aroused, but of course there are a variety of pharmacologic tools from pills to injectables as fall backs. During the encounter, I can say that it’s very easy to enjoy myself with clients. Hooking up from some dating app can have me deep in my head and focused on my insecurities and what the other guy is thinking, etc, which can make it hard to relax and be present; however, when I’m with a client, there’s something very validating and liberating in the knowledge that he finds value in my company and selected me from a catalog of gorgeous men, and that sense of being chosen usually makes me feel even more connected and appreciative of what we’re able to provide each other. I don’t mean financial or physical but the mutual feeling of acceptance and validation. I can’t think of times I’ve actually been appalled by a client except for when related to certain behaviors. For example very early on when I started, I had a client ask for a lower rate to simply use some toys on me with no sex, which seemed reasonable at the time; however, without kissing or foreplay he began penetrating me with a dildo in such a rough and dispassionate way, I eventually told him I was uncomfortable, and he didn’t have to pay me anything if we could please stop. He replied “you know we have the ability to rate you on RentMen, right?” I let the session continue to preserve my five-star rating, but that was the moment I stopped considering discounts or other variables and basing the rate strictly on my time. Aside from threatening comments like that or refusal to pay agreed rates after a long session, it would be hard for me to find a client appalling, especially based solely on appearance. We’re all much more similar than we are different. Anyway, this is only my experience, but hopefully it gives some insight into how we try to quickly connect with a new client and still create a meaningful encounter.

Feel free to shoot me a message (same name on RM: TravisChambers). I’ve worked with many other Chicago providers and can answer any questions you have. I also have a sling! Not sure if that’s part of your fantasy, but they pair well with gangbangs—like oysters and Chablis. (Steak and Bordeaux if you don’t do seafood. Fava beans and Chianti if you’re…vegetarian.) Full disclosure: I’m cut and not very hairy, which seems to be a double minus off the bat. Cheers!

I’ll do what I can to fill this information void; I’ve spent A LOT of time with Travis over the years. Hands down one of the most interesting and genuine guys you’ll ever meet. Indeed, it’s a known fact that MGM Studios once joined with HRC to forbid Travis from calling himself a “friend of Dorothy” because he has such an abundance of heart, brains, and courage that the euphemism simply didn’t fit. (Also they couldn’t picture Dorothy befriending a hooker in the woods singing “If I only had more money.”) In case you haven’t noticed my user name I’ll admit that I’m exquisitely biased; however, I’m very self aware and honest, so feel free to ask me anything. Alternatively, I can double the time for the first two gentleman who mention this forum when they book time with me and agree to post an honest review here, whether positive or negative, to help advise others. (My only stipulation is you have to have been a somewhat active member of the forum since before this topic was started, so everyone knows it’s a reliable review.) Cheers!