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Even more from Gutierrez:
 

 

Gee, forgive me for pointing out that your comment makes you sound...ummm...a bit full of yourself. Those of us who have been burned in the past have legitimate grounds to request some form of verification. That you will not deign to address the concerns of potential customers in an industry full of scammers, hucksters, and frauds says a great deal. So by all means, please put me on your blacklist now.

Caleb, I think you need to remember that every instance and potential client is different, as are the reasons they may want to hire you and fly you to visit them. Many just have the funds available to hire those who interest them most, regardless of the cost involved in the meeting. Others may live in areas where escorts are few and far between and find themselves in a position of either flying men to them, flying to the men, or not hiring. And it goes on and on....I think the most important thing you can do is communicate more than you would otherwise so that you can develop your own feel for the potential client, his respect level, his sincerity, and the reason he called on you. While this communication won't necessary eliminate the "flake" consideration, it will go a long way toward your developing a feel for whether the meet would have a probability of going well or not. I respect Tarte's comment that he would never hire for a weekend without having had several shorter encounters. In many instances, your potential client may not have that luxury. Bottom line, be careful, communicate, follow your gut feeling....and maybe feel a bit honored that of all the men your potential meet could have called and wanted to meet...he called you. Yes, you will probably have to provide your real name, your birthdate, and maybe even an address....to someone who obviously does not live in your neighborhood. If that's not for you to start with, then I think you have your answer all ready.
 
As for asking for a "deposit".....maybe the price of an airline ticket should be an indication of the level of interest?

Caleb, I think you need to remember that every instance and potential client is different, as are the reasons they may want to hire you and fly you to visit them. Many just have the funds available to hire those who interest them most, regardless of the cost involved in the meeting. Others may live in areas where escorts are few and far between and find themselves in a position of either flying men to them, flying to the men, or not hiring. And it goes on and on....I think the most important thing you can do is communicate more than you would otherwise so that you can develop your own feel for the potential client, his respect level, his sincerity, and the reason he called on you. While this communication won't necessary eliminate the "flake" consideration, it will go a long way toward your developing a feel for whether the meet would have a probability of going well or not. I respect Tarte's comment that he would never hire for a weekend without having had several shorter encounters. In many instances, your potential client may not have that luxury. Bottom line, be careful, communicate, follow your gut feeling....and maybe feel a bit honored that of all the men your potential meet could have called and wanted to meet...he called you. Yes, you will probably have to provide your real name, your birthdate, and maybe even an address....to someone who obviously does not live in your neighborhood. If that's not for you to start with, then I think you have your answer all ready.
 
As for asking for a "deposit".....maybe the price of an airline ticket should be an indication of the level of interest?

Love mornings before the rest of the world gets up and around. Quiet, relaxed, ....and feels like it's all mine. Up just before sunrise pretty much every day. If I miss it a little, the dog reminds me.

Love mornings before the rest of the world gets up and around. Quiet, relaxed, ....and feels like it's all mine. Up just before sunrise pretty much every day. If I miss it a little, the dog reminds me.