He's definitely not for everyone, especially if you can't be submissive aka you like feeling you are the one in control. I had a good experience with him years ago in a time when he didn't have these restricted-kissing / no-f*cking on 1st-date rules mentioned here but we had a chat over drinks first that allowed both of us to feel more relaxed and the rest was pure chemistry or at least that's what he made me feel. Worth to mention I always try to look my best when I show up, and always with impeccable oral and intimate hygiene.