I went to Workmans lunch and one bear party. It’s not my scene at all. Wasn’t comfortable and my type of guy wasn’t at either. In situations like that I prefer a sauna. I’ve done cruising in parks before that was fun also. But those sex parties feel weird, contrived and un-sexy to me. Not sure why. When we go on vacation I always try saunas in other places. Too bad we can’t have a decent one here