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Maybe she manages his appointments.

And as Judge Judy always says - If you are going to give money to someone who is asking for it consider it a gift because very often it is not paid back. If you don't consider it a gift then don't hand it over.

Sign me up!

This is such an easy question to answer: No, never, ain't gonna happen. Even for those providers I have seen several times I will not be "lending" money to help them out with their personal finances. Some may think this is cruel, harsh, not nice but I find it hard to believe that the provider has no friends, solid acquaintance, family members, etc. to ask for money/assistance before asking me. I would respond to the provider and then block him (letting him know that I will be blocking him and why).

I like anything that shows off a nice bulge - jock, speedo, compression shorts, workout shorts, tight jeans, singlet, etc. I get where you are coming from and if you are looking for a fantasy or just some good visual excitement I see no problem in making the request. As others have mentioned make the request upfront rather than at the time of the appointment.

I would do a "sensual" massage for my initial appointment and go from there. Looks like now he is in San Jose.

That's some intense rope work in his RM pics.

Great recap of your session. I will have to look them up the next time I am in Chicago.

Because of the ambiguity around sensual vs erotic I simply state that I am looking for a full service massage and then leave it up to the provider, especially on the initial visit, to interpret it as he seems fit. Depending on how things go overall I will schedule follow-up sessions. For me my primary "want" is a good massage with sensual/erotic as my secondary "want". I once had a provider move very quickly into the sensual/erotic area which actually distracted me a bit because then I was thinking that he may try to wrap this up in a half hour when I really want a good massage. I ended up telling him that I like what's happening but that I really want a good massage too. He told me that he likes to do some massage at the beginning, play and then go back to an even longer massage session knowing that the client is now completely relaxed. It made sense and it did make a difference. Now I don't know if this is how he normally operates (only met with him once since he was visiting the area) or if that's just how he proceeded with the session based on my comment.

Maybe not an endless line but I'd definitely be up for four or five.

Could someone please call 911 for me?

That makes my $3k look like chump change. 😉

What did you guys spend on professional services in 2024. I added mine up and was surprised that it was just shy of $3,000. Am I a desperate perv or just a normal guy with needs.

Sounds like you were happy in the end with his selection. 😉

I'm a fan of a smooth ass and balls but that just me. You can never satisfy everyone so just focus on what you prefer personally.

He mentions roleplay on his ad. Anyone go that route? Just wondering what type of roleplay could be incorporated into a massage session unless he offers extras upon request.

Happy to hear and sorry that I did not pick up on the sarcasm.

Hopefully someone has some deets on this dude. 🤪

I'm a bit confused: you lent him money to go to treatment, which he "of course" stiffed you, now he wants to get back with you and you consider yourself lucky? You should accept the loss of money and walk away from him if you want to be lucky. Otherwise you are going to find yourself always cleaning up his messes at your expense.

Shut the door and get the hell out of there. Stop focusing on the good sex and start focusing on the future potential danger that you may be in.

19 years old, hangs out in front of a 7-11, gets into pretty much anything (experienced at such a young age), can travel anywhere in the world and nine inches.

Sounds like a cockfight to me!

I like the sex charged atmosphere of a bath house/sex club and the thrill of a random anonymous hook-up. My roleplay fantasy is to have a provider meet me at a BH/SC. Quite often guys leave the door to the room slightly open as an invitation or sign to other guys that they are looking. I would get there before him, get the room, provide him with the room number, situated myself and wait for him to stick his head in and show an interest in me and go from there. I think some of the excitement would simply be from the anticipation of his arrival. I haven't approached a provider about this scenario and wonder if this is something most would be into. I guess it all depends on the other guys comfort level.

Providers always say to keep it simple and not over complicate it. I think you did a bang-up job.

I sure do miss the good old days when one hit would give me the biggest head rush and carnal desires.