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I am sorry, I just can't get over all the make-up he puts on. Blush on a guy? To each its own ... but I am taking a PASS on this guy.

Exactly! Thanks for speaking up. Appreciate the honesty in your comment.

And here is 'Beautician', in the PRO section on adam4adam, New York: http://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Beautician Now we are talking, photoshop + botox + make up + teeth whitening. It's an epidemic!

I was definitely thinking 'face lift' as well. But that would have been a mean thing to say. Especially concerning younger guys. But botox and fillers could be possible if these guys are in their late 30s and want to pass as early 20s. Not my 'thing'.

I know. Botox, or excessive photoshop? Or both? It is an epidemic among Asian escorts - check out the face pictures of 'Hunter Lee'. http://rentmen.com/HunterLee

He is a bit too feminine for me. His face makes me nervous. Is it the botox, the make up or something else?

Exactly! I am delighted to hear it working out so well for MrMiniver so far. Before getting into an 'arrangement', a background check is something I would require. To avoid that the expected payoff is something ... you didn't expect. But if you can survive each other being cooped up together for 10 days, chances are that there is something there. Congratulations, and good luck!

Or, response #4 "If you pay twice the fee"

Some impressive 'amateur' pictures of this guy posted today on the muscle service forum. Worth a look ...

Never responded to my request to get the code to his private pics. And I am in NYC ...

I sympathize with you. I went through something similar. But I was not smart enough to end it. He did end it. It was painful.

I loved him. I said it. He said he felt safe and protected with me. We got into a sugardaddy relationship, which lasted for about 10 months. It ended in a break up. Now we are trying to be 'friends' but it is not working too well.

Truereview, I respect your opinion. Thank you for expressing it. I DO find the client stories interesting and valuable though - provided the identity of the client is not disclosed, of course. I find it makes someone's argument more direct and more honest. It gives an excellent perspective into how somebody handles a potentially difficult situation. I am in favor of it.

'warn' implies that it is a negative ... I would rather 'inform' than 'warn'.

Hi - a nicely researched and well presented point. I am not sure I understand the above though, what do you mean? Thanks.

I live in NYC and don't mind paying 250 approximately. There are quite a few really good guys you can find at that price level. If the guy truly is great, I tip well which would bring the compensation in the 300-400 range. But I am reluctant to agree to 300 as the 'base' rate.

Interesting concept, I like it. Did you (or the escort) experience a sense of loss when it ended? I know the ending was built in, but I imagine you get to really like somebody and then it's all over. How did you deal with that?

You are very welcome. What your friend should NOT do, is register at or pay fees to the following website: https://www.sugardaddyforme.com That website is purely a marketing scheme, with most ads either fictitious or entirely outdated. It is a scam.

There are various interpretations but here is how I have seen it. 'Dad' pays for most, if not all living expenses and some extras. The fees could be somewhat at the same level as the 'son' used to make by being an escort. In return, 'son' stops active escorting, takes down his escort ad and is socially available to 'dad'. In some cases, 'son' may move in with 'dad', but I think that is unusual. The benefit for 'son' is more stable income, from a guy that he presumably likes, without the hassle of having to schedule appointments with multiple clients all the time. The benefit for 'dad' is having a relationship with somebody he is attracted to, with some fringe benefits. A variation on this is a situation where an escort stops active escorting, but keeps relationships with say 3-10 clients that he likes.

I have. It was fun when it lasted and it inevitably came to an end. As most of these relationships do. Sugar daddy relationships don't really work because of the inherent conflict of interests. The 'son' always worries that the 'dad' can discard him at any time when somebody hotter shows up. The 'dad' worries that the 'son' is just staying in the relationship because of the money. Exclusivity issues can be problematic. Will 'dad' and 'son' live together, or separately? There will be real heart break when one party sees is as a quasi-marriage and the other party sees it as a short term arrangement. My advice: don't do it. Except if you both know/agree it is a short term thing. Or if you are really in love and are getting married.

I asked the following question to an escort friend of mine (the guy never asks for pictures or stats prior to a first meeting) 'what do you do when a client you see for the first time really turns you OFF?' It could be because of appearance, rude attitude, poor hygiene ... whatever. You are the escort and you are turned OFF. He replied that in his mind he knew it would be an absolutely miserable hour. But he would not send the client away. AND he would not kiss the client. Maybe, not kissing is a defense mechanism? It's a perspective on things. I sort of understand it ... people are not machines.

I am sorry to be so graphic, but do you have hemorrhoids maybe? Has a MD checked you for that? You can have internal hemorrhoids ... I suffered from them, but switching to a high-fiber diet really helped. Now I poop 3x a day, no problems anymore - except that my toilet paper consumption has gone up. Make sure to buy good brands. Again, I am sorry to be explicit

Interesting thread. So I would be a 'younger boomer'. I like the sound of that, actually. I get hit on by women a lot. Not women in their 20s, they ignore me. But women in their mid-30s and up seem to adore me. Especially at the gym. I find it annoying beyond description, but I smile and remain polite. I work out a lot, have an athletic appearance, always dress well and look 'straight'. Here in NYC, I would be considered a 'catch' - by women. They must be truly desperate. I read a fascinating article about the dating prospects for single or divorced women in their 50s in NYC. Their options are (1) have sex with the younger personal trainer or tennis coach, (2) have a relationship with a guy also in his 50s - but those guys are of the 'total loser' type if they can't date younger women or (3) marry a 70-year old and move to Boca Raton. That's IT for them. No wonder they like ME. Younger guys do occasionally hit on me. That happens most often when I am in a business suit. I don't own many business suits but all of them are by Tom Ford or by Gucci. And perfectly tailored. My shoes are always Gucci. I even have 'custom' Gucci shoes. When I wear those, younger men seem to be fascinated - usually black and Latin men. I do sometimes get stares from some of the younger guys in the gym but my straight appearance deters them. Which is just fine. I have male friends in my own age bracket - all of them think I am straight. I am not out. Maybe my life would be better if I was out. Something to think about. In conclusion: it is too bad I am not straight. Women just love me. I would have a ball. But it was not meant to be ...

I think you are probably referring to the 'roid tummy' that so many bodybuilders have. The steroids cause the internal organs to grow, hence the 'basket ball' shaped tummy that so many have. The abs are visible, of course, but the belly is ball-shaped. The internal pressure from the enlarged organs may cause the belly button to revert to an outie.

I did meet Gio this afternoon. He looked quite hot actually. It was easy to set up the appointment with him. The massage, I thought, was quite satisfactory and so was the happy ending. I wouldn't say it was the most amazing massage ever (I have been very spoiled by other guys) but it was quite good overall and I felt that Gio was friendly and engaged. He was very thorough massaging my legs, which is an area that most masseurs overlook. Good value. Just my 2 cents.