HaremOfBoys

You’ve described yourself as bi, a former wrestler, good-looking, with thousands of partners. If that’s true, then this isn’t coming from someone who’s been excluded—it’s coming from someone who’s had access and power in the sexual world. Which makes this all the more disappointing.
Because what you’re doing here isn’t realism. It’s fear disguised as wisdom. It’s the voice of someone terrified of losing the privilege they once had, trying to rationalize their decline by projecting shame onto everyone else.
And let’s be clear: telling people to “stay in their lane” based on their looks is cruel. Reducing attraction to a merit-based economy where age and weight disqualify you from even hoping for chemistry with someone hotter? That’s not honest. That’s just bitter.
What strikes me most—especially since this isn’t the first time you’ve posted something like this—is how obsessed you are with whether providers would consider sex with larger men. It’s oddly clinical, like you’re trying to quantify desire. But this isn’t economics or evolutionary theory—it’s projection. You’re not describing a system. You’re describing your own fear of becoming unwanted and trying to universalize it so you’re not alone in that fear.
You’re not just naming your own insecurity—you’re codifying it into a worldview. One where people who already feel undesirable are told they should be. That their standards are delusional. That they don’t deserve what they want. It’s elitism with a self-pity twist.
What’s saddest to watch is that instead of meeting rejection with empathy—for yourself or for others—you’re passing it forward. You could offer understanding. Instead, you close the door on others behind you.

These guys are certainly a gang, but how serious the threat is, not sure! I did forward all these details to an FBI friend just in case. Two other guys here rmessaged me of similar threats. 

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And because I posted this thread, I got this message and similar ones lol..
 
 

I can't begin to understand why you might think it isn't as bad to say something behind someone's back as it is to say it to their face.  😞 

You’re free to have preferences, but when you start labeling parts of someone’s body as gross or saying they’d make you throw up, it stops being a preference—it becomes dehumanizing. Bodies come in all shapes, sizes, and configurations. If someone’s anatomy makes you uncomfortable, move along—but don’t use your discomfort as an excuse to shame others. We’re all just trying to feel seen and safe in our skin. Try not to make that harder.

Talked to him, says only massage no extras. Skipped. 

200$ for standard deep tissue sports massage
50$ extra for both nude and mutual touch
50$ extra for release
The guy was way older than in pics, absolutely not erotic and waste of time and money. 

Sweet guy, tries to do well - BUT pictures are terribly outdated, has difficulty getting hard, so unless you plan to top, don't recommend. 

Hello. On “RMass” he now goes by “CoastalCody”. On “RM” he is “CodyWilson”. I have to agree with @HaremOfBoys that he is a waste of time. (I wish I had read that before I booked.) I base this upon an appointment I had yesterday (May 25). I am willing to share more; PM me as needed. 

GabeBrasz showed up with a local friend who did nothing though they charged for 2 guys. Gabe charged 400 bucks and claimed to be a passionate kisser and talented orally, but he just wanted to receive oral and not much else. He was constantly on text booking other customers. They were out in 20 minutes. 
 
I checked later with a guy who wrote a bad review and he had the exact same experience. 100% not recommended. Save your money and spend on someone worth it. 

Good information here. I was contemplating a massage with him this weekend.

Claims to be 26, lol just saw him on Tinder and his age is 37! 
11 years age shaving? Lolz

EricXLee is a nice guy. He does not offer more than a massage, just some touching, and is a smooth talker who will make you feel happy even without doing anything naughty lol
 
Good for one time massage. 

extremely underwhelming..rub and tug is not sensual or erotic. Highly avoidable

extremely underwhelming..rub and tug is not sensual or erotic. Highly avoidable

extremely underwhelming..rub and tug is not sensual or erotic. Highly avoidable

Met him last year. 
- Nice guy
- Body is great
- Massage is decent
Cons:
- Face pics are heavily edited. Way older than he says he is
- Kissed him, stale garlic breath, damn wash your mouth man
- Kept farting loudly, complete turn-off.
Not going to repeat. 
 

- Pictures are outdated - like severely outdated
- Was not very friendly, was initially rude and then softened but not a nice guy
- Charged 350 but massage was below average 
- Erotic? More like "rot"ic
I would give a negative score. 

- Pictures are outdated - like severely outdated
- Was not very friendly, was initially rude and then softened but not a nice guy
- Charged 350 but massage was below average 
- Erotic? More like "rot"ic
I would give a negative score. 

Holy moly
Worst masseur ever. Pictures are super outdated, he is wrinkly and old. Like REAL Old. Worse massage ever. I did not want HE because I was turned off so bad - the smell, the shitty smell from him and his room, would rate this guy as one of my worst ever experience. 

Holy moly
Worst masseur ever. Pictures are super outdated, he is wrinkly and old. Like REAL Old. Worse massage ever. I did not want HE because I was turned off so bad - the smell, the shitty smell from him and his room, would rate this guy as one of my worst ever experience. 

Holy moly
Worst masseur ever. Pictures are super outdated, he is wrinkly and old. Like REAL Old. Worse massage ever. I did not want HE because I was turned off so bad - the smell, the shitty smell from him and his room, would rate this guy as one of my worst ever experience. 

Holy moly
Worst masseur ever. Pictures are super outdated, he is wrinkly and old. Like REAL Old. Worse massage ever. I did not want HE because I was turned off so bad - the smell, the shitty smell from him and his room, would rate this guy as one of my worst ever experience. 

Holy moly
Worst masseur ever. Pictures are super outdated, he is wrinkly and old. Like REAL Old. Worse massage ever. I did not want HE because I was turned off so bad - the smell, the shitty smell from him and his room, would rate this guy as one of my worst ever experience. 

- Terrible massage
- Lame duck escort that just lays dead
- Tweaker on shit
- Weird rashes in genital area
1/10. Terrible guy.