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Great links and good point about cell phones and social media. I'll hire them to spend time with me at the hotel instead of a booth.

I recently came across on another site a place in Mexico called Cabinas Funny. Their social media posts have video clips of what goes on there. I wish they'd have full-length versions because these clips are hot but too short!
Very similar to the Campus theater if not hotter: Strippers having sex in front of a small audience, guys in audience taking turns blowing the strippers and sometimes more, other guys in audience sometimes stroking as they watch... and some really getting involved in the action. 
https://x.com/MaleStripperXXX/status/18857547740432
https://x.com/ILozz3696210/status/1881004956154790050
https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1867421697974186094
https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1947496328277229984
https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1726813729809977670
Cutie in audience: https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1947129715161964908
Special finale for one guy in audience (reminds me of those sausageparty porn scenes): https://x.com/MaleStripperXXX/status/1897374889537102102
Looks like they still know how to have fun in Mexico!
Sadly, everyone is shooting this stuff on their phones... which makes it kinda hard for those of us who need discretion. 
 

I recently came across on another site a place in Mexico called Cabinas Funny. Their social media posts have video clips of what goes on there. I wish they'd have full-length versions because these clips are hot but too short!
Very similar to the Campus theater if not hotter: Strippers having sex in front of a small audience, guys in audience taking turns blowing the strippers and sometimes more, other guys in audience sometimes stroking as they watch... and some really getting involved in the action. 
https://x.com/MaleStripperXXX/status/18857547740432
https://x.com/ILozz3696210/status/1881004956154790050
https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1867421697974186094
https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1947496328277229984
https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1726813729809977670
Cutie in audience: https://x.com/Rp_IsraelFunny/status/1947129715161964908
Special finale for one guy in audience (reminds me of those sausageparty porn scenes): https://x.com/MaleStripperXXX/status/1897374889537102102
Looks like they still know how to have fun in Mexico!
Sadly, everyone is shooting this stuff on their phones... which makes it kinda hard for those of us who need discretion. 
 

My first time at the The Nob Hill Theatre was in 2010. Full male nudity on the stage, lap dances in the audience, and hot action in the booths. I fondly recall a stripper that exposed himself to me in the hallway. I was hooked and we quickly moved to the booth for a great time.

I remember my first visit when I was young and questioning my sexuality. Having no idea what to expect, I sat in the theater as the announcer introduced a very hot Asian stripper was about to come out, specifically inviting, "If you like what you see, feel free to whip it out." That got my heart beating with excitement the second he said that... "what, we can whip it out right here?!" Wow.

And the rest was history.
Even better were some of the group shows later on (as well as at the sleazier but sometimes more fun Campus Theater, with its 20-man strip shows).
Wish there were places like this around today.... Those were fun times.

Hello, I'm a newbie who has spent more time than I care to admit browsing and searching this forum over the past several months. First of all, let me say that the advices, reviews and experiences shared by everyone here were a huge help in taking the leap with my first hire. I'm a closeted bisexual man who tends to read obsessively on topics I'm anxious about, so thank you all for maintaining this open and supportive community. 
A few weeks ago I hired someone from RentMen and I figured I'd share this first experience now that I've had some time to process it. Who knows, maybe it will help someone down the line, just as previous posters have unknowingly helped me. So, here we go. 
 
I hired a different provider than I had originally in mind, someone of a similar age and with good reviews on this forum. The booking process went quite smoothly thanks to the numerous threads about first-contact etiquette. When I contacted him I stated that I saw his profile on RentMen, I was looking for a 3-hour outcall in a hotel in my city, offered a few options of dates and times, and sent him basic informations about myself. I also mentioned that this would be my very first experience with a man, which made me quite nervous, and I wanted to make sure he was OK with it. He was very reassuring, we discussed what I wanted to try, my goal for the session, my limits, etc. We confirmed the rate and time, and it was all set in less than two hours. 
I was so nervous the day of the appointment, I felt like a teenager on his first date. I had put his rate in an unmarked envelope very visibly on a table, I offered him something to drink and we talked for a while. The conversation was easy, he asked questions about me and my expectations, told me about himself, his life, how happy he was to help me go through with this, etc. 
Mutual oral was the only specific thing I requested when we texted initially, since I knew that I'd feel comfortable trying, so it felt natural to start there. He took the lead, asked me to help him get undressed, he guided me to touch him and he taught me how to blow him (never realized a dick would feels so smooth in my mouth when it was like a steel rod in his boxers 😅). It was absolutely awesome and I was ecstatic when he came in my mouth. We continued fooling around and having some fun, talked for a bit and then he was on his way. 
Was it everything I was hoping for? Probably not. While I thoroughly enjoyed going to town on this stud and I'm glad I got to explore this side of myself, there were moments where I felt somewhat self-conscious and out of place. It still felt like a hookup, which I guess it was, but at the time it made me wonder if this hobby was really meant for me. 
Not at all the provider's fault however, he was lovely, patient and kind. I usually enjoy sex the most when I have developed some trust/intimacy with the person I'm with, so I'm guessing having a regular provider is probably what I'm looking for. I think I was trying to get it to live up to years of built-up expectations, which was unrealistic.
Instead, I'm now trying to focus on the positive aspects of the experience, since I still loved it. Recently, I was thinking about which country to visit this fall, and I realized that I was also looking up the providers available in those countries. I usually travel to explore food and culture, but I guess Men can be another form of cultural exploration. It confirmed what many of you have said — this hobby can indeed be quite addictive. 😉

Is “AA” Asian American or Alcoholics Anonymous? Both good! 

I was going to meet up with him, but he was leaving town for a couple of weeks and our schedules didn’t work. 
I plan to see him now that he’s back. 

In San Diego 

I saw Tommy a few weeks ago and thought he gave a really good massage. Therapeutically, he was able to work out some knots and sore muscles. Sensually, it was great, I left feeling very happy. 

Not at all
this place is stellar with mostly stellar masseurs

Usually these places are full of tiny, lanky, Asian men who just rub your back softly. Is this not the case for this place?

He is very muscular and taut. His body is perfect. And he’s so sweet. 

A stunner 

Any experiences to report with this handsome gentleman?
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So I contacted him. His first response was automated pointing me to his OF. Then his next response was:  "👋🏻 hey im got here to find a money to cover my rent expenses. I need 1k"

In fairness, that one appears to have been for a 4-hand massage.... still quite high though!

The warm slippery concoction, which makes body to body massage more like a slippery body gliding sensation, is what makes it nuru (which means “slippery” in Japanese).

I recently hired a masseur to come over for an erotic massage at my place. I also knew he escorts (he’s on RentMen) but contacted him for a massage on a different website hence it was a different rate also. Things flowed naturally - we ended up making out, grinding, and connecting beyond the massage itself. He was even down to top me (though it didn’t end up happening), and we ended up lying together, talking, and just being. It felt real. Comfortable. Honestly, it was the most “seen” I’ve felt by someone in NYC in a long time - definitely non-platonically.
At one point, while we were just lying together, he asked: “Why do you need to pay?”
I brushed it off. I wasn’t ready to unpack the reality of my dating life with him. The truth is: dating here has been non-existent for me. Literally zero dates. Hookups? Sure, but mostly disappointing - disconnected, drugged-out, disinterested, transactional. I’m more of a 1:1, slow, sensual kind of guy, and NYC’s scene feels like a conveyor belt of fast, flaky sex. Honestly, it’s been some of the worst sex of my life.
Instead of explaining all that, I just said: “It’s hard to find someone who can handle me.” He looked confused and said: “Someone tall, built, with a big dick like you? You’ll be fine.” But I don’t feel fine. That comment sat with me.
He also did go down on me, even though he identifies as straight. I didn’t overthink it in the moment, but it left me wondering.
I followed up a week later, and he was receptive. He messaged back quickly (again, rare in NYC), and was down to meet again. But then he said:
“No rush bro. But if I looked like you, I wouldn’t pay.”
That comment threw me. Not because I’m against paying as money isn’t the issue. What messed with my head is: what does it mean if the only way I’ve ever felt this kind of presence, softness, and intimacy is through a paid experience?
Was it him?
Was it just my starvation for connection finally getting fed?
Am I overthinking all of it?
I’ve never hired an escort before (just spa massages with HE's usually, although I have been topped there too sometimes lol) so I don’t know what’s “normal.” I do wonder if I should book someone else, maybe try a “boyfriend experience,” since I’ve never even come close to having a real relationship. Maybe I just need to get it out of my system.
Because here’s the thing:
In that space, with him, I melted.
I was soft, present, sensual, alive.
I liked who I was in that moment.
And that version of me doesn’t come out on Grindr, Feeld, Scruff, Hinge, Tinder or even at gay dancing or sex parties. Not even close. It was WAY better (in terms of that satisfaction and 'whole' feeling) than any therapy I've ever had also.
So I guess my question is:
Is it worth continuing down this road?
Will I be paying for intimacy forever?
And why did a paid interaction feel more real than all the “free” ones I’ve had?
Would appreciate any perspectives, especially from those who’ve navigated this before.

It's usually done with a slippery warm substance (made of seaweed, I think) that the masseur pours on top of the client, who's usually on some kind of plastic covering atop a mattress given all the liquid. Then the masseur uses his whole body on top of the client's to slide back and forth with this substance, giving the client a "slip and slide" feeling with his body on top. It's a super-hot fun way to get a great rub.
 

It's usually done with a slippery warm substance (made of seaweed, I think) that the masseur pours on top of the client, who's usually on some kind of plastic covering atop a mattress given all the liquid. Then the masseur uses his whole body on top of the client's to slide back and forth with this substance, giving the client a "slip and slide" feeling with his body on top. It's a super-hot fun way to get a great rub.
 

The warm slippery concoction, which makes body to body massage more like a slippery body gliding sensation, is what makes it nuru (which means “slippery” in Japanese).

Gorgeous guys!

Has anybody by any chance seen these two hotties separately or together? (Yes, I know a few have seen them separately in other locations via this forum, but don't think I've seen any responses about the 4-hander in particular....)
They're both beautiful. Seem like really nice guys if the reviews on Rentmasseur are accurate, but I trust you guys here on this site the most! Hope someone may have experienced these two beauties.
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