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  1. Precious few are blessed with sizable areolas. I was excited to see a chest of perfection - musculature AND nips, on a guy in Las Vegas on Rent Men, Zodd Blakk. ZOD_BLAKK - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Las Vegas, NV | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Las Vegas, NV - ZOD_BLAKK: ZODxBLAKK
  2. After the person's nasty "Can't take rejection" comment, it would've been best to completely cut off any further contact with him. You clearly knew by that point he was wasting your time, and that wasn't changing. It's truly horrible that you seem to get a far larger percentage of jerkwads than other traveling providers.
  3. What you described looks standard to me. You're known to be a very generous tipper, and the person you see appreciates you for that, and is comfortable to be doing more with you as a client. However, understand that you are at a place of massage, and are fortunate that you're getting a nice bonus with your experience, so if out of the blue you just get a massage only, don't get angry, just find somewhere else to go!
  4. It's a small world. All of us see people from realms in our past out and about. In a case of seeing a provider, leave them be UNLESS they engage first. Their obligation to you is over until you see them "on the clock" again, so be respectful of their "off the clock" time. Last year I had an embarrassing instance of seeing someone I used to work with in a neighboring grocery line. I said to the person I was with that if I fast-forwarded in time 20 years from now, that lady over there presently looks like one of my former co-workers. She unfortunately overheard me and angrily said a brief hello. She had aged that badly in such a short time frame, and I wished I kept my comment to myself!
  5. This thread is so long, it's gotten far too past the "girl, please" stage. It is up to the people making the initial offer, and nobody else, to determine in their mind what good looking and in shape is. It's not going to be the same from person to person, so it's best as a client to expect to donate as if you're not, and perhaps be pleasantly surprised at the end. Many work like Hell to look great from the neck down, and kudos to them. There's others that look dashing as all get out and never lift a weight in their life. Ideally, neither would qualify for this offer. I personally pity the ones who are both handsome and ripped, but are disqualified solely due to age.
  6. Generally, the ones I see passing through town are in high demand, which is what brings them back. I'm making the presumption I'm not in consideration on their end when my request by either massage website private message or e-mail goes ignored. I appreciate the ones that spell it out - "don't try to contact me here - I don't respond to private messages", and take their advice to not do so. It's more and more dwindling meeting people without texting, and that's my issue to accept. After all, there were staunch radio holdouts who didn't want TV in the 50s!
  7. Consistently, whenever someone I hire who I have a great time with reaches out on a return trip to my area and I say no, I'm put on the "no re-hire" list. This to me seems extreme. I'm not made of money, so when a return is a month later, it's too soon for me to financially do so. It doesn't mean that I don't want to. I do appreciate that I was liked enough to warrant a repeat encounter, and I DO convey that in my rejection reply. Am I better off ignoring rather than responding that I can't? I'm batting zero with re-attempting to see anyone who I said no to for a potential second encounter. Flipping the coin and responding to my own post, who would I rather spend time with, a wealthy man who tips extremely generously and money is no object and will see me any time I reach out, or a paycheck to paycheck person who leaves a standard gratuity?
  8. The ones who politely complain that the height range doesn't allow them to show their actual vertical-ness, and that they're actually shorter than what's shown. Mario_X in Chicago is fantastic - we align so well. I liked a guy in Cathedral City who is no longer there. One of the finest backsides of anyone I'd seen.
  9. It's a terrific question to ask. It seems like for U.S. travelers, they're at a horrid disadvantage, as the World over is well aware that tipping is simply done for almost anything in this country (selling me a candy bar, tearing my movie ticket), while it's understood that Europeans do not have that (which I so badly envy - working in a low wage job getting stiffed countless times, even for near 2-month stretches at a time catering to overseas visitors really, really sucked). They take their culture with them, but want (not expect, want) gratuities to be given since it's standard procedure in the States, taking our culture with us. I avoid "all-inclusive" travel tours and vacation resorts because it really isn't. Those who slip under the table dough to workers are the ones having the best time.
  10. Theories with a couple of these wacky results. Perhaps the people of Libya are so happy because Gaddafi has been dead for over a decade. Perhaps the people of Dominican Republic are so sad because there's a lopsided shortage of men compared to women due to all of them being professional baseball infielders elsewhere all over the globe. (Moderators : please don't relocate to the sports section). 🤣
  11. It's unclear whether you're referring to messages publicly, like this is, a private message on here, or messages between you and an attempted encounter. One comment I see occasionally that couldn't be less helpful is "I met the guy on Grindr. I don't need to worry about donations." Gee, thanks.
  12. I've walked out of anything when it was still going on just once, and that was stand-up comedian Barry Diamond. He was offensive to only me, and I expressed my displeasure by leaving. Worse, many many years later, I attended a comedy show with "regional funny talent", no names on the bill. Who comes out? A much older, grayer Barry Diamond.
  13. A person or two already mentioned this, but a terrible listener is maddening. I personally can't stand having my back massaged when I'm on my back, reaching in with the sheet scraping sounds. I speak up. He keeps doing it. Up-selling but then not delivering is awful. I asked the guy when he was done why on Earth I had to give 50 more when the texted amount was agreed to. He said that the higher rate was for MY nudity, not his. Cancelling on me at the last minute to me is worse than no-showing my appointment, which of course is also terrible. Honestly it isn't possible for a masseur to be too talkative with me - I don't let them get a word in edgewise. 😆
  14. It'll be no hard feelings on the guy reaching out to you if you don't respond. You're likely not the only person he's re-connecting with, and isn't going to notice who isn't getting back with him - just those who are. The great ones don't need to reach out for repeats. Their texts blow up wherever they go, and are able to pick and choose who to get back to. Keep exploring to find one who IS great. For the majority of us, the search is continuous, and that's not a bad thing!
  15. I would say that approximately 80% of the time, my back is the first spot that masseurs begin, and presume this is normal for nearly all providers. I've had but just one reach for my glutes at the very start, and honestly, because of this, he because my out-of-town regular for years. I forever long ago gave up traditional therapeutic office massages due to laws in place prohibiting touch there completely. My now retired "hard sensual" regular would spend a significant amount of time on my rump - I deliberately initially hired him because he only advertised in a gay-friendly business newspaper, and was incredibly handsome (and came to discover in time he was big in multiple places).
  16. I feel horrible for the ladies who had this outrageous level of violence happen to them. I tend to find Canadians from personal experience to be largely wonderful people, and many will offer help to these women if they can. If this were to happen in the States, Phillipe would set up a fund page for himself for his legal fees, and sickeningly, would likely have more people help him than the victims of his abuse.
  17. There could be a multitude of explanations that one takes that off the menu of options. What I've found to be the most common reason is that they have a live-in boyfriend and save that level of intimacy for their partner. When I'm looking, seeing erotic listed is vital for my choice, but I'm at a loss as to what to do when that is no longer listed, but I know that it used to be. For some, it's a matter of private discussion for a larger pre-determined amount than a standard massage. Being teased and denied a sensual experience, at a minimum, when that's the whole reason that you've chosen the guy you're seeing over others, is flustering. It makes me personally second guess what I did wrong, not what they did.
  18. If a provider is going to waste their own time to contact you with criticism, you can know that you were much better off not seeing them at all, or to ever try to in the future. I've followed through only one time with a provider who was being flat out rude with texts prior to meeting him - it went about as bad as I feared.
  19. Has anyone been able to confirm if he is or is not the same Damien Wolfe from adult movies' past, and if he's joining the gang for the forum weekend? Seemingly, providers are "block-heavy" lately with novice inquiring minds.
  20. What I got a kick out of when this story broke is "Ohtani is not available for comment". His interpreter is gone. We know!
  21. As of today, every single person who I've previously seen has raised their rate by a minimum of 20% from 4 years ago. I don't ever have an issue with seeing a higher rate, but I do have an issue with those who up-charge once I've arrived when an agreed time frame and amount has already been confirmed. If I book someone a few weeks in advance, and their rate increases in the in-between time, should I be subject to the increased amount? I've had a couple of men insist I take the gratuity I left them back, once because I was celebrating my 50th birthday, and the other because I was celebrating a job promotion, although neither of them has been willing to see me again!
  22. Seeing a bunch out of nowhere in a concentrated period of time is an obvious red flag, but what about reviewers who leave but one review, and never log in to review anyone else again? It should be considered more of a curse than a blessing to be the top reviewed anything - I feel whether it's a person, restaurant, or hotel, the bar is being set far too high for me to have an actual pleasant experience. The amusing ones are those that clearly are being written by the provider themselves. "Two steps into the room feeling the crisp, refreshing ventilation, I knew that bliss was to be an understatement to describe the touch that was to come".
  23. He has arms the size of many men's legs, and can't possibly really be 5 feet 10 inches tall barefoot. Any massage experience from anyone yet? Mario_X now has some Chicago competition.
  24. What became of it, and did anyone experience them when they were open? I loved how they went against the norm and actually encouraged shirtless workouts, and had a reasonable visitation fee. There's only one fitness studio in the Palm Springs area that permits entirely nude workouts that I'm aware of, currently, but providing a link isn't permitted per the forum rules.
  25. In 2024, are 5's the new 1's, or is tipping a couple of singles outlandish? I may be stuck in the 80s, but I still tip a buck per bed per night of a hotel stay.
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