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+ JamesB reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Condomless encounters
I think you stole this phrase from my Sniffies/Grindr profile!
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+ JamesB got a reaction from + Pensant in *Gas Prices Currently
The decline did indeed hit its stride in the 1920s but it wasn't because we were following a European trend. In fact, it was largely due to three American innovations:
1.- The Electric Starter (1912). Before this, gas cars required a dangerous hand-crank to start.
2.- The Assembly Line. Henry Ford’s Model T made gasoline cars significantly cheaper than their electric counterparts. By 1912, an electric roadster cost $1,750, while a gasoline car cost only $650.
3.- The U.S. Highway System. As Americans wanted to travel between cities, the limited range of electric batteries and the lack of rural electricity made gasoline the only viable option.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from jackcali in Which position is your dick in when lying on the table?
Lying facedown directly on my dick has never been comfortable for me, regardless of the type of massage. It feels like trying to nap on a TV remote. I always position things downward between my legs, way more comfortable!
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+ JamesB got a reaction from Wanderoz in Which position is your dick in when lying on the table?
Lying facedown directly on my dick has never been comfortable for me, regardless of the type of massage. It feels like trying to nap on a TV remote. I always position things downward between my legs, way more comfortable!
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+ JamesB got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Which position is your dick in when lying on the table?
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/162281-which-position-is-your-dick-in-when-lying-on-the-table
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+ JamesB reacted to BoyOnABoat in Condomless encounters
I thought BB was default until a recent trip to Europe. I was in Spain and fucking raw still seemed to be not quite the standard with a lot of guys. I learned from someone that it was a little bit harder to get access to PrEP/Doxy there so a lot of guys still played with condoms.
I never used them in any of my encounters there, but I think the BB == default is operating under the assumption that men have easy access to preventative care.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from Jacob_b in What went wrong?
I think the client got cold feet and canceled, something I would expect that often happens with first-time hirers. I prefer to keep things efficient with fewer messages. My initial message states my interest and asks about availability, location, and rates. If that looks good, I direct them to my complete profile and ask if they’re comfortable with it. A positive response closes the deal quickly.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from CheckCar in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?
I think most of us have fallen for a provider at some point or at least I like to think so to feel better about myself, LOL!.
In my case, it happened after a particularly hard breakup from an almost 10 year relationship. I was in a really bad place emotionally and returned to hiring as a coping mechanism to fill that void. Not the smartest decision I've ever made.
This particular provider pushed all the right buttons and really made me feel good. In my defense, he was excellent at manipulating me and played me like a master, but I don't place the blame on him since I should have known better. This went on for a little over a year. Deep down, I knew he was just playing me for money, but I chose to ignore the signs. As expected, I ended up paying for my mistake both financially and emotionally.
The financial loss was significant, but the emotional devastation was even harder to deal with. It took quite some time and professional help to recover but I learned my lesson.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from Medin in What went wrong?
I think the client got cold feet and canceled, something I would expect that often happens with first-time hirers. I prefer to keep things efficient with fewer messages. My initial message states my interest and asks about availability, location, and rates. If that looks good, I direct them to my complete profile and ask if they’re comfortable with it. A positive response closes the deal quickly.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from + azdr0710 in What went wrong?
I think the client got cold feet and canceled, something I would expect that often happens with first-time hirers. I prefer to keep things efficient with fewer messages. My initial message states my interest and asks about availability, location, and rates. If that looks good, I direct them to my complete profile and ask if they’re comfortable with it. A positive response closes the deal quickly.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from SecretProvider in What went wrong?
I think the client got cold feet and canceled, something I would expect that often happens with first-time hirers. I prefer to keep things efficient with fewer messages. My initial message states my interest and asks about availability, location, and rates. If that looks good, I direct them to my complete profile and ask if they’re comfortable with it. A positive response closes the deal quickly.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in What went wrong?
I think the client got cold feet and canceled, something I would expect that often happens with first-time hirers. I prefer to keep things efficient with fewer messages. My initial message states my interest and asks about availability, location, and rates. If that looks good, I direct them to my complete profile and ask if they’re comfortable with it. A positive response closes the deal quickly.
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+ JamesB reacted to Encorejoy69 in ThianP
I've seen him twice in the last June there will be in Florida again next week where we will be seeing each other for the third time. My all-time favorite. My God he is everything you want. Flexible interactive open-minded he initiates and his body is to die for and he speaks just fine and I understand everything he says and he is totally engaging and he comes to you without an extra charge and he doesn't do that bullshit upselling once it gets there. I'm hard thinking about it.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Delays in appointments, when to throw in the towel?
I’ve been dealing with the same thing lately. So far this year, one provider showed up late to two different sessions, 20 minutes late the first time and 40 minutes late the second. Needless to say, there won’t be a third appointment. Another provider confirmed a mid-afternoon session that same morning, only to cancel two hours before. Then there was another who kept changing the meeting time throughout the day until I finally got tired of the back and forth and canceled altogether.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from CheckCar in Why did you quit?
While I’m still actively hiring, I have to agree with @Pensant. The drop in quality lately has been pretty discouraging. Sometimes the amount of time wasted searching and filtering through disappointing experiences honestly makes me feel like giving it up altogether.
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+ JamesB reacted to BuffaloKyle in Providers/Would You Freak Out & Clients/Am I The Only One
If I were in your shoes I'd bring this up during the initial texts with a provider. I'd simply say "I love providing oral but I have full mouth dentures which I usually prefer to remove when giving oral. Would you be ok with that during our encounter?" You never want to spring anything at all on a provider when he is already there and the session has begun. It just makes the whole session a lot more enjoyable and relaxing knowing you have everything squared away beforehand. And if the provider is not ok with that or would make them uncomfortable best to know beforehand and not remove your dentures or move on to another provider.
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+ JamesB got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Expired and frozen RM profiles
Not anymore. They no longer accept cryptocurrency.
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+ JamesB reacted to 56harrisond in Definition of a happy ending?
Paying for a massage and actually getting a good massage.
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+ JamesB reacted to DMonDude in Condomless encounters
I get what you're saying, but the last bit simply isn't true. Two new antibiotic treatments for ghonorrea were just approved this past December for example. https://www.fda.gov/news-events/press-announcements/fda-approves-two-oral-therapies-treat-gonorrhea First new ones in decades.
New treatments may not be being released and widely advertised every day but the medical field isn't just sitting around waiting for a super bug to pop up. They're doing a lot of good work, including the fact that PrEP and DoxyPep require mandatory STI testing every 3 months specifically so they can catch an increase of infections and then act accordingly if resistance and infections increase beyond normal levels. I know it feels nice to feel better than people who are being slightly less cautious than you, but you should fact check and make sure you have correct info before making statements like that.
Yeah as others have said. With PrEP and DoxyPep, people are much more willing to bareback these days. I kind of compare it to wearing a hard hat on a construction site. It's just a new hard hat with roughly the same level of protection if used properly, but one is much more comfortable to wear. The provider absolutely should not have acted the way he did and pressured you to take yours off though, that's super weird of them.
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+ JamesB reacted to + Jamie21 in Definition of a happy ending?
For a few clients I do a happy ‘book end’. They’re extra horny when they turn up, and it’s difficult to restrain themselves for the whole session so I give them a bj at the start, before they get on the table. I get a nice mouthful of cum to give me energy and they get a release so they can properly relax on the table and enjoy the massage. As the intensity builds they can then shoot again at the end. It’s popular for the 2 hour sessions.