Hyattsville

I have not seen him for massage, however we did hook up once. Great body, yes he likes daddies and bears - a lot. 

I have not seen him for massage, however we did hook up once. Great body, yes he likes daddies and bears - a lot. 

You can do a search for Washington DC to see a lot of reviews. My favorites are:
 
 

I had a massage from him today and it was really amazing. He is definitely trained and can give a great therapeutic massage. He looks exactly like his pictures and he seems really nice! I believe that smile is genuine. Nice location, nice studio with attached bathroom. Heated table. He worked plenty of sensual elements into the massage, he gets on the table with you at times, MT, HE, and has no issues with nudity. This was truly one of the best massage experiences I have had. I just wished he was closer to where I live. Parking was fine and the neighborhood seemed safe, just a little difficult to get into and out of when coming from the East. I will still use Charlie in Hyattsville as my primary but Daniel will be my special occasion (change of pace) guy. There was no upselling but I left a hefty tip. He is reasonably priced and DEFINITELY WORTH IT! Just do it! 

You can do a search for Washington DC to see a lot of reviews. My favorites are:
 
 

I had a massage from him today and it was really amazing. He is definitely trained and can give a great therapeutic massage. He looks exactly like his pictures and he seems really nice! I believe that smile is genuine. Nice location, nice studio with attached bathroom. Heated table. He worked plenty of sensual elements into the massage, he gets on the table with you at times, MT, HE, and has no issues with nudity. This was truly one of the best massage experiences I have had. I just wished he was closer to where I live. Parking was fine and the neighborhood seemed safe, just a little difficult to get into and out of when coming from the East. I will still use Charlie in Hyattsville as my primary but Daniel will be my special occasion (change of pace) guy. There was no upselling but I left a hefty tip. He is reasonably priced and DEFINITELY WORTH IT! Just do it! 

Sensual may mean that extra senses are involved, such as the use of aromatherapy and music during the massage.
Erotic may mean that someone might get aroused.
Honestly... Don't put too much weight into the type of massage offered.  I've had penetrative sex during a massage with "Therapeutic only" providers.  On the other hand, I've had "Erotic" massages without any touching of the genitals and the masseur remained clothed.  I still kept going back to that "Erotic" masseur because he gave a damn good therapeutic massage and his rate was reasonable.  When I asked him outright for an "Erotic" massage during a repeat visit, he replied that it was Erotic because I was naked and he worked my glutes and thighs.
So, yeah, I don't really pay attention to those categories.  If I'm looking for guaranteed sex, I just hire an escort.
 

For me, it’s the opposite where the client asks, demands, or begs for more services and I have to say “Yes, I can do xyz for you, but during your next session, let’s discuss details afterward.”
Instead of using that opportunity to upsell or pressure the client, I deflect to keep the client’s best interests in mind. I would much rather the client have an excellent experience and want to return, or become a regular, than try to extract whatever I can in a single visit while they’re in a poor position to make considered decisions. The last thing I want to do to a client is pause the massage to discuss additional services and pricing. That is not a relaxing state of mind to shift to when you’re trying to enjoy a good massage.
Also, just from a practical standpoint, if the client wants more time and/or more services, I may not have availability in the case of a client being booked right afterwards, or there may be prep work required like heating stones beforehand. Or what they need requires notice to offer them good service.
Plus the client may be paying cash and may not be prepared to pay more at that time. Again, not something you want to think about or discuss during your massage.

PSA to clients: please keep in mind this is the most common reason your masseurs do not text you back “immediately”. You can’t have it both ways. Immediate responses 100% of the time AND their full, uninterrupted attention during the session? Usually it’s one or the other. Unless you happen to luck out on your timing, and it’s exactly that: luck.
I’m careful not to detract any attention from my client to my phone during their session. The good masseurs are focused on you for the whole session.
Have grace when inquiring and it takes a while to get a response. It’s not uncommon, for example, for me to have a two hour client appointment, plus time after (still not texting other clients) to wrap up, accept payment, walk the client out, chit chat, etc. There’s no clear agreed-upon standard regarding an acceptable amount of time to return texts. For me, it’s up to 2-3 hours, most often I respond much sooner than that and obviously within minutes if I’m otherwise free. Response times have been discussed on several other forums at length. Same with hours to contact your provider. Here’s one related thread on that topic:
 

Most complaints in this thread concern unprofessional behavior, yet almost no poster is willing to hire professional masseurs.
 

That does seem strange to me. Most of the guys who advertise on the gay massage sites are not professionals. Most of the customers here seem to be looking for a HE, or more versions of sex. I don't understand why anyone would expect professional behavior from a non-professional. It's a fantasy.

Then I guess the question to put out there is if you only tip for above and beyond the expected service, what do you expect the basic service to be? 
Do you think that everyone who advertises on Masseurfinder should at bare minimum offer a free happy ending?
Do you think that everyone who advertises on RentMasseur should at bare minimum offer a free happy ending and mutual touch? 
How do you determine what is/should be included? 
If it is matter of your own finances, then surely there should be less expensive masseurs who you could choose and then tip accordingly? 
Genuinely curious. 

I saw him today. Super nice guy, very good looking. He charges a lot less than he could/should be getting. He is definitely trained in deep tissue and Swedish. He worked in sensual and erotic elements that we had talked about before hand. He is very upfront with what he will do and what he charges (which is $50 to $100 less than others in this area of town). He is located across from Annies on 17th, so convenient. Over all I really liked it and would definitely go back again, though Charlie in Hyattsville will be my more likely choice since he is more convenient for me and charges slightly less and is just a tad more personable if not as young. 

That's an awesome example! I guess you ain't tipping your doctors and nurses for their job well done in saving your life because having a good massage is more important than saving your life. 

No tip. You don't tip people who set their own prices and keep 100% of the money.

@MmM and others who tip at a spa but not for a private masseur… serious question, not trying to attack you or be a hater. I agree each person can do what works for them.
 
My question: Does this mean you would never tip a provider for escort services when it’s an in call? After all, they are self employed as well.
 
In my mind a tip means “thanks, that was good,” full stop. I don’t really understand the rationale of not tipping based on where the service happens. Not that your approach is wrong of course, since tipping is optional anyway. 
A masseur who has a private business out of their place has gone to more trouble than a spa employee: setting up a website or online booking service, dedicating a space in their home to the activity, having a table, having to deal with the dirty towels, etc. Sure, they don’t have to give a cut to the house but that’s because they went to some extra effort. Don’t they deserve a tip if the experience itself was good, just like a spa employee? 


 

So earlier today I asked my favorite self employed masseur the percentage of people who tip him. He claims 98% (and yes, he told me he keeps track of each client and how much they tip or don't). He also sent me a link to a blog for helpful information. No idea how old this is, but it was definitely interesting... 
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Ha. Exactly.  When I buy bread I don’t think, gee, I should pay more because they had to build an oven. That implicit in the price. 

My doctor must rent an office and pay a staff. Should I tip him?  No: He charges for that in his fee. And so does your masseur. 
But, again, it’s your money. Give as much of it away as you like.   

And one last thought: You big tippers produce price pressures that will eventually bring about hyperinflation and destroy world order. So stop it!  

I believe that if you want continued great service (or increasingly better) service, tipping is a wise choice. I was chatting about tips with a local masseur who was honest that while everyone gets a great base massage, those who tip regularly get better service with scheduling preference and "extras" on the table. Just keep that in mind. 
Also with masseurs who work for themselves, know that they are probably paying at least 5% if you us a credit card or other electronic payments. 
I would think that it is important to tip when you are late, early, shower at their place, rescheduled your appointment or have any special requests like "keep the room hot" or "wear x clothing" or "I need to remain anonymous" or "no oils or scents" or music requests etc. I remember reading a bad review years ago from a client who apparently showed up 30 mins late (due to traffic and parking) showered at the masseur's home before the massage and was offended that he only got 75 mins on the table instead of 90 mins (even though he had now taken up two hours of the masseur's time). All I could think when I read that was it was the masseur who should be writing the bad review about the client and you know the guy would not have tipped either. 

I believe that if you want continued great service (or increasingly better) service, tipping is a wise choice. I was chatting about tips with a local masseur who was honest that while everyone gets a great base massage, those who tip regularly get better service with scheduling preference and "extras" on the table. Just keep that in mind. 
Also with masseurs who work for themselves, know that they are probably paying at least 5% if you us a credit card or other electronic payments. 
I would think that it is important to tip when you are late, early, shower at their place, rescheduled your appointment or have any special requests like "keep the room hot" or "wear x clothing" or "I need to remain anonymous" or "no oils or scents" or music requests etc. I remember reading a bad review years ago from a client who apparently showed up 30 mins late (due to traffic and parking) showered at the masseur's home before the massage and was offended that he only got 75 mins on the table instead of 90 mins (even though he had now taken up two hours of the masseur's time). All I could think when I read that was it was the masseur who should be writing the bad review about the client and you know the guy would not have tipped either. 

So earlier today I asked my favorite self employed masseur the percentage of people who tip him. He claims 98% (and yes, he told me he keeps track of each client and how much they tip or don't). He also sent me a link to a blog for helpful information. No idea how old this is, but it was definitely interesting... 
ADVICE FOR A GOOD EXPERIENCE
BEFOREYOUCOME.BLOGSPOT.COM  

I believe that if you want continued great service (or increasingly better) service, tipping is a wise choice. I was chatting about tips with a local masseur who was honest that while everyone gets a great base massage, those who tip regularly get better service with scheduling preference and "extras" on the table. Just keep that in mind. 
Also with masseurs who work for themselves, know that they are probably paying at least 5% if you us a credit card or other electronic payments. 
I would think that it is important to tip when you are late, early, shower at their place, rescheduled your appointment or have any special requests like "keep the room hot" or "wear x clothing" or "I need to remain anonymous" or "no oils or scents" or music requests etc. I remember reading a bad review years ago from a client who apparently showed up 30 mins late (due to traffic and parking) showered at the masseur's home before the massage and was offended that he only got 75 mins on the table instead of 90 mins (even though he had now taken up two hours of the masseur's time). All I could think when I read that was it was the masseur who should be writing the bad review about the client and you know the guy would not have tipped either. 

I think the use of the word tip is confusing the point for some people.  A tip is "to insure proper service."  If you would like to ensure or see "service" increase on a future visit then a tip would be a good indicator to the provider.  Did they squeeze you in or take you as a last minute request... a tip is appropriate.
If you don't think most providers keep a record or payment,, services rendered and gifted amount, I believe you would be wrong.  Now... does it need to be 20%... not necessarily, but a little cash is much more memorable than a verbal gratuity and a hug.  Yes. the provider is keeping much more of the fee for the service visit (so it is not like you are paying someone that is working on tipped hourly wages) but I think a base $15 to $20 tip is expected.
 

Who said anything about bad service? No one. If you get bad service, don't tip - don't go back. What I said is that he was willing to do more for those who tip consistently. It only makes sense, if you have a choice between two clients wanting the same appointment time, I think everyone would choose the one who tips regularly. If a client asks for a prostate massage but never tips, why bother? But if they tip regularly the odds will go way up that the masseur says "Sure." Do you need to tip masseurs who run their own business? I guess not, but I appreciate good service and will gladly pay a few extra bucks to ensure it. I think it is reasonable to expect a good massage when you don't tip, but I also think it is reasonable to expect better service when I do tip regularly.