ShortCutie7

and just above average from others. I have met several men who are drop-dead gorgeous from some angles and just good-looking from others. The problem is, I can never pinpoint what a guy’s good angle is or WHY that is! Does anyone have any examples (friends, celebrities, providers, etc) or stories of people who embody this phenomenon?

Thanks for the responses, guys! I did think of the shame piece, but I figured one has to be on the app in the first place in order to respond to a message…

At the end of the day, there’s no way to guarantee anyone’s status. Someone on PreP could forget to take a dose, as could someone who is taking drugs to remain undetectable. It is in everyone’s best sexual health interest to use condoms. I personally have never barebacked (and don’t plan to) and very very rarely do anal in the first place.

Anyone else ever have this experience? It has happened to me twice and is baffling: 1- a guy on Scruff, after mutually unlocking x pics, seems to be enjoying chatting and interested in meeting for a hookup. The next morning, I message him something along the lines of “I just woke up rock hard; how would you get me off?” And he responds “I wouldn’t” and basically reprimands me for daring to have a sexy chat on a hookup app. Like, dude, one of the pics you unlocked is you with a cock in your mouth… wtf? 2- a guy on Grindr whose main pic is his torso and who sent me two pics- his face pic and his torso from another angle- also seems to be interested and we’re chatting on/off for a few days. I say something like “I still can’t get over how tight your body is” and he responds with “I’m still uncomfortable with you discussing my body”. Huh? You never said you were uncomfortable in the first place and two out of your three pics are of your torso. I just don’t get it- has anyone had similar experiences or at least able to provide an explanation?