robberbaron4u

The kiss in "Kiss and Tell" autobiographies is more often than not the proverbial "kiss of death" for the author....

Jamie Lee, the fabulous "East Coast Boy". . .

AMEN.

Not at all. His were mutually exploitive relationships by mutual consent; he "liked the lifestyle" that was afforded him by reason of his association with his "significant others", and, of course, access to their exchequers. His "others" had access to "it" on demand. On the other hand, I have known any number of long lasting " homosexual" relationships that were based on genuine love and affection.

Art dealer, actor, architect....the art dealer and architect were prominent in their respective professions; the actor was "semi-famous". All deceased. What he did not understand, as you stated, was that he was "incidental" to these men's lives; their friends tolerated him as such and nothing more.

Now, now...for a young man, a mature "significant other" afflicted with chronic or catastrophic health issues requiring constant care and attention would be, doubtlessly, an aggravating impediment to his daily regiment of playing 18 holes of golf with the boys. And, too, elderly gentlemen of means, compromised in their health and lingering, perhaps, too long at death's door, frequently decease from broken necks resultant from a fall in an ill-considered attempt at walking unaided or, say, falling over a deck railing into a ravine following an overdose of insulin, a tumble down a flight of stairs...so many unfortunate scenarios to consider. That they have signed over "everything" in fee semple to their youthful partner in the months preceding taking leave of life evidences their love and affection for the partner. Being grateful for your concern, I will pm you on this one.

Not at all as walking is my sport...

Certainly, he evidences your observation. His first "relationship" as the kept lover of a prominent art dealer was a financial disaster for both of them. As he admitted to me, he stayed in the relationship because he "liked the lifestyle" which, plainly put, was "livin' high off the hog". By the time of the dealer's death, the money was gone, the art gallery operation was jn bankruptcy, the house was in foreclosure, and, he was compelled to pursue escorting full-time to put food on the table and keep a roof over his head. With the succeeding " husband", he was astute in the management of their finances, and, he walked away from that game with "all the marbles", just over a million of them. Of course, there was some unsavory business with regard to his having " appropriated" the inventory of the art gallery, and allegations that the elderly "husband" deceased from benign neglect after a fall and subsequent stroke, issues of little consequence by his lights.

Indeed.

Having considered the consequences of pursuing public acknowledgement of his as "intimate relationship" with the gentlemen of reference, that is, full exposure of his "past", he has determined to retire to live his dream of a life given to golfing and gambling in south Florida; that he walked from his last relationship, as " husband" with a man some many years older, financially secure assures him independence of sorts. And relocation from the west coast, and, anonymity in his private life removes him from the ire of the late spouse's son and daughter in his having walked away from the game with "all the marbles'.

I had responsibility for managing the lives and fortunes of my extended family, aunts, uncles, cousins. Early on, I realized that, given, that responsibility, any "significant other" that I admitted to my life would suffer, emotionally, from that commitment. And, I turned to "escorts" for sexual gratification. At least, in my honesty, that was my excuse in not pursuing a long term relationship with any one person although I do enjoy long, affectionate friendships of almost sixty years standing in some instances.

Ah, "this disease they call life". Whilst, I do not appreciate the infirmities of " advanced maturation" I work with "old age" rather deftly I think, and, although I have shed my ash blonde locks of hair as an old parrot molts feathers, I yet give good value as a guest at table.

Be mindful of the old adage, "Discretion is the better part of valor" and, in your situation, keeping your job.

And there. succinctly stated, you have it. . .move on. And be grateful that by your association with these men, you have the wherewithall to "living the dream" with money in the bank. .

If he is accepting clients, Liam V is highly recommended at Indianapolis.

For the purpose of "clarification and amplification", the person of reference and I have no "relationship" other than that I offer a "sympathetic ear" from time to time. His "plight", if you will, being that he is "ignored" in the celebration of the lives of the two "significant others' in his life, and, too, that, he is no longer young and beautiful and desirable.

In the course of the weekend, I had the company of a now "mature" escort with whom I have a long acquaintance. In the course of his life, he had two "LTR", one as a lover, the other as "husband", with two older gentlemen of some means, both prominent in their professions. To be sure, the "prime directive" in his life is "Everything is for sale", and, being in a LTR did preclude him from being "available" to generous "patrons"; between relationships, finding himself in financial distress, he was a full-time "provider" with a rentboy.com ad. At this point in life, he finds that his former significant others" are being celebrated, in print, for their professional accomplishments, but, he, himself, has been expunged from any mention. Now that he has money by reason of the demise of his husband, he wants to employ a publicist to "get his name out there" to the end of being afforded that which he considers his just due in being the "man behind the man". He is, of course, a textbook sociopath with the complication of malignant narcisism, and, going into his sixth decade, his physical beauty is a faded memory, and, whilst he once commanded high fees in having the pleasure of his company, there is the humiliation that he, himself, now has to "pay for it". I have advised him that this would be an ill-considered undertaking. What say you?

I recommended him to an acquaintance who, regretfully, suffered bodily harm and theft in the hire by a ill-considered "party" situation with the provider. Having ascertained that the allegations were true, I reported the provider to rentmen.eu, and, by notice this morning, having investigated the matter, his profile has been deleted from their service.

If this is the photograph I posted to the thread titled "411?Bastiann" by Kevin Here, yes, it is him. He is seeking an exclusive "LTR" with a gentleman of means which, in my opinion, is a "smart strategy" on his part. The wear and tear, physically and emotionally, of doing business as an escort must be "somethin' awful".

Retired. He is now a sixty year old "son" seeking a financially secure "dad" on silverdaddies.com; unfortunately, for him, he doesn't comprehend that he, himself, he now a "dad". With exception of pecs headed toward the sidewalk, chassis is yet good but age and excessive exposure to the sun have taken a toll on his countenance.

May we be hopeful that is not given to false modesty.

LiamV out of Indianapolis

He was the best I have ever had. I know it to be true as he, himself, told me so. . .

Gentlemen, The proverbial pig has taken flight...