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Exactly. Lots of sexy gay masseurs out there whose version of sensual or erotic is jacking me off at the very end of a session that lacked any two-way sensual interaction. Not my thing. 

A sexy man trained in massage.
And also (this is the important part because trained masseurs are easy to find) completely at ease sharing his naked self while massaging me. 
A perfect time is when sensuality is integrated seamlessly throughout the entire massage session. 
It’s rare to find that combo in a man. When I do, I’m elated. 

Is there really still nothing for us in Westchester county?
There are at least 25 girl spas, but could one of them not have just one boy that would tag along, just in case a customer is looking for that?
Traveling to Manhattan each time makes the whole thing NOT relaxing, it defeats the purpose. 

I am visiting NYC.  Can someone tell me what I should be tipping with and without  extras. DM me I'd the rules prohibite stating them in the post

This is a topic worth searching. The combo of inflation plus NYC being super-expensive is driving an uptick in prices. For me, I'm rarely willing to pay $500/hour. But I also notice that price point is more typical among young guys (early 20s to maybe early 30s). My preference is late 30s to early 40s. Unless they're a porn star, I find that those guys are charging $300-$350. 

I would like to see a nice clean place open in Danbury Ct. Or anywhere along I-84 within 20 miles of Danbury.   I enjoy a nice table shower before my massage and the opportunity to wash after my massage

Your best choice in that area is HK Men's Spa.