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1)Gay or Bi preferably. If "straight" then they are willing to engage with what I want. 2)Willing to go bare 3)Tight hole 4)A bottom preferably or vers. 5)Some good reviews 6)Kinky, willing to get tied up or at least be submissive 7)Fit to Average range 8)Age 20-50, maybe even older as long as they can perform 9)Clean shaven 10)Good personality, even more important than looks. 11)Willing to be photographed or filmed 12)Potentially available for overnights or longer.

Counting there are 21 boys in Baltimore not including those that travel. I've seen one of them Keenan. He is great, not what I would call a twink, more of the guy next door but a great guy that makes sure he focuses on the client. I would say at his rate a great regular since he is afforable. He is verse but primarily bottoms and will bottom bare for those looking. With that said does anyone have reviews on the other boys in Baltimore. If not maybe we can get them together (including Keenan) for those in the area with the promise of reviewing them. Maybe setup a private show where we can watch the boys play with each other and then they play with us. Keenan_Smith - Male Escort, Gay massage - Baltimore | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Keenan_Smith Gay Escort in Baltimore, Maryland, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

I asked a provider this once and the response I got was that while he works in the industry and films he doesn't watch. He said he felt by watching he is helping support the industry which he didn't want to do. He is in porn as an actor for the money but doesn't support the behind the scene practices of the studios. He said for a lot of the younger performers even those that apply online the studios rely on the naivety about the reality of performing in porn.

I feel if escorts didn't allow bareback as a bottom they would be limiting what they can make. Whether or not they are on prep is their choice but the job of the escort is to offer the client a "fantasy". For many clients that might mean an escort that is willing to bareback as part of the experience. I also feel that escorts should set their rate and shouldn't charge extra. Is there a risk the escort faces barebacking? Yes, but they have it in their control to help minimize the risk.

I'd suggest Keenan Smith, while he isn't located in NY he does travel there so you could work something out with him that way. Keenan Smith

Exactly, as a client we are paying the escort (service provider) to serve us. Being an escort definitely isn't for everyone so these service providers should consider before advertising if this is something for them. Beyond having the ability to service anyone who hires you (some that might not be as attractive as you'd like), they also need to be comfortable being a basically being a sex object.

Agreed here, does an accountant, waiter/waitress or barber get to see a picture of their potential clients or pick and choose who they see? They are getting paid so they work with their clientele. Money changes the dynamic. In personal life an escort can pick and choose who they want to see if they aren't getting paid but money changes the dynamic. If they want to make money they should be non-judgemental and see whoever wants to hire them. If they can't handle that then they should find something different.

Hiring an escort definitely isn't the same as going to a barber or even getting a massage. We are hiring them to "act" out a fantasy for us, meaning most times we want or expect them to get undressed and sexually engage with us in one way or another. While I understand that some want to get a sense of the person they'll be meeting we are hiring them. If they are getting into this industry they need to understand the territory that comes with it including being able to service anyone who hires them if they want the money. If they aren't interested in that then they should find a different industry in my opinion.

Here is my take. The escort is the one we are hiring. We need to see what the product looks like. Many of us though hire wanting anonymity so having our photo out there defeats the purpose. If an escort were to ask me for photos I'd pass. They need to be willing to see whoever is willing to hire them.

I like to keep chatting with the escort to a minimum. I see the chatting for before the appointment or if after the appointment, off the clock. When the escort arrives I get them undressed as soon as I can. The escort is there to provide a service in my opininion and I want to make sure I get the service I am paying for. Any chatting cuts into that time.

I always pay after. Additionally I require that the escort is the first to be nude. When they arrive we may talk a little and then I start helping undress them. First I want to make sure they are what I hired and second once they are undressed and their clothing is to the side it's harder for them to leave at that point. It's also nice to have a nude boy sucking me while I stand there almost fully dressed and to be able to play with their body. I want the escort to know if they are going to be paid they need to provide me with what I want.

By "We" I mean clients, we can't control what each other do. When I hire an escort they trust that I'm not going to do anything to harm them. Other clients can't control what I may or may not do.

On what bases do you make these conjectures/conclusions? 1)Money talks, even if an escort uses condoms most of the time either in their private life or with a client there most likely will be a time they forgo the condom. 2)As I mentioned clients will try to get away with things trying to go bare on the escort. We can't control what a client might try to pull on an escort. 3)While a condom might provide a certain level of protection they do break or tear. The only 100% safe escort is one who abstains from sex.

Honestly I doubt there is an escort that is 100% safe. Even if they advertise 100% safe as others have said you can't be sure what they are doing during each appointment or what clients might do. While no client should do it some clients have and will find a way to circumvent safe sex even if the escort requires it such as discretely removing the condom while topping the escort. If you are concerned you should always take precautions. Escorts are a commodity we should treat well and respect.

These escorts have a place, if all you want is to get off and go then they are providing that outlet. With that said I wouldn't pay them as much as an escort wlling to engage in conversation and some reciprocation. I see these escorts more as a "living sex doll". Many of them are also high volume.

First this Monday is International Sexworkers Day and I'd like to recognize and thank all the sexworkers we have here. You provide us cients a service many times putting your health and safety secondary to allow us as clients to enjoy your beauty and to fulfill a need. I'd personally like to recognize my favorite escort, Keenan Smith. He goes out of the way to make sure I always have a great time and is truely a provider if you haven't had a chance to experience to setup a session with. With that said which provider would you like to thank and recognize. Keenan_Smith - Male Escort, Gay massage - Washington | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Keenan_Smith Gay Escort in Washington, District of Columbia, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

A question for other clients, do you expect bareback from your escorts knowing the potential risks. I know these days PrEP is available but it's not 100% and there are other STIs out there. Knowing this community I'd think all escorts should be on PrEP and ready to offer bare services.

I'm going to suggest Keenan Smith. I've had a great time with him whenever I've spent time with him. He is also very affordable. Keenan_Smith - Male Escort, Gay massage - Washington | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Keenan_Smith Gay Escort in Washington, District of Columbia, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

While it hasn't been mentioned yet some of these providers have "managers" that will "brainwash" them in effect changing their personality.

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So as far as affordability, those providers working on the streets typically will charge less than online. Also a lot more instanteous. Yes it comes with risks for both. My regular was telling me rather than wait around for calls at times when things slow down he will go out on the streets and get two or three clients in an evening. Albeit they are a lot shorter and more of the to the point type appointments but they are also cheaper than the typical appointments. The hard part for providers that are working out on the streets though as I have learned is advertising, they have to "dress" the part to attract and be seductive leaving little to the imagination.

Hiring is definitely expensive these days. If I stick with my regular @Keenan then I know I can afford the time with him. In fact in return for some sessions I've done some photo and video sessions with him and have helped him with costs for his ads.

It is porn, "live porn" that is. On the internet they are baring all or close to it and then when you see them typically there is engagement in some sort of sexual activity, whether they just strip for your enjoyment and you give them a handjob or more takes place.

Definitely couldn't do this job, beyond having to really perform I couldn't put myself through the risks they take. Beyond the sexual risks such as STDs there is also the risk of crazy clients. Also the fact that in their advertising they are typically leaving little to the imagination. I wouldn't want to put myself out there like that.

I am guessing we all take our providers for granted the ones we see regularly. Though when we aren't with them we don't always know what they are dealing with. How can we as clients help insure their safety? My regular escort says he's been in some precarious situations where he has feared for his life.