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Exactly, as a client we are paying the escort (service provider) to serve us. Being an escort definitely isn't for everyone so these service providers should consider before advertising if this is something for them. Beyond having the ability to service anyone who hires you (some that might not be as attractive as you'd like), they also need to be comfortable being a basically being a sex object.

Agreed here, does an accountant, waiter/waitress or barber get to see a picture of their potential clients or pick and choose who they see? They are getting paid so they work with their clientele. Money changes the dynamic. In personal life an escort can pick and choose who they want to see if they aren't getting paid but money changes the dynamic. If they want to make money they should be non-judgemental and see whoever wants to hire them. If they can't handle that then they should find something different.

Hiring an escort definitely isn't the same as going to a barber or even getting a massage. We are hiring them to "act" out a fantasy for us, meaning most times we want or expect them to get undressed and sexually engage with us in one way or another. While I understand that some want to get a sense of the person they'll be meeting we are hiring them. If they are getting into this industry they need to understand the territory that comes with it including being able to service anyone who hires them if they want the money. If they aren't interested in that then they should find a different industry in my opinion.

Here is my take. The escort is the one we are hiring. We need to see what the product looks like. Many of us though hire wanting anonymity so having our photo out there defeats the purpose. If an escort were to ask me for photos I'd pass. They need to be willing to see whoever is willing to hire them.

I like to keep chatting with the escort to a minimum. I see the chatting for before the appointment or if after the appointment, off the clock. When the escort arrives I get them undressed as soon as I can. The escort is there to provide a service in my opininion and I want to make sure I get the service I am paying for. Any chatting cuts into that time.

I always pay after. Additionally I require that the escort is the first to be nude. When they arrive we may talk a little and then I start helping undress them. First I want to make sure they are what I hired and second once they are undressed and their clothing is to the side it's harder for them to leave at that point. It's also nice to have a nude boy sucking me while I stand there almost fully dressed and to be able to play with their body. I want the escort to know if they are going to be paid they need to provide me with what I want.

By "We" I mean clients, we can't control what each other do. When I hire an escort they trust that I'm not going to do anything to harm them. Other clients can't control what I may or may not do.

On what bases do you make these conjectures/conclusions? 1)Money talks, even if an escort uses condoms most of the time either in their private life or with a client there most likely will be a time they forgo the condom. 2)As I mentioned clients will try to get away with things trying to go bare on the escort. We can't control what a client might try to pull on an escort. 3)While a condom might provide a certain level of protection they do break or tear. The only 100% safe escort is one who abstains from sex.

Honestly I doubt there is an escort that is 100% safe. Even if they advertise 100% safe as others have said you can't be sure what they are doing during each appointment or what clients might do. While no client should do it some clients have and will find a way to circumvent safe sex even if the escort requires it such as discretely removing the condom while topping the escort. If you are concerned you should always take precautions. Escorts are a commodity we should treat well and respect.

These escorts have a place, if all you want is to get off and go then they are providing that outlet. With that said I wouldn't pay them as much as an escort wlling to engage in conversation and some reciprocation. I see these escorts more as a "living sex doll". Many of them are also high volume.

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A question for other clients, do you expect bareback from your escorts knowing the potential risks. I know these days PrEP is available but it's not 100% and there are other STIs out there. Knowing this community I'd think all escorts should be on PrEP and ready to offer bare services.

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While it hasn't been mentioned yet some of these providers have "managers" that will "brainwash" them in effect changing their personality.

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So as far as affordability, those providers working on the streets typically will charge less than online. Also a lot more instanteous. Yes it comes with risks for both. My regular was telling me rather than wait around for calls at times when things slow down he will go out on the streets and get two or three clients in an evening. Albeit they are a lot shorter and more of the to the point type appointments but they are also cheaper than the typical appointments. The hard part for providers that are working out on the streets though as I have learned is advertising, they have to "dress" the part to attract and be seductive leaving little to the imagination.

Hiring is definitely expensive these days. If I stick with my regular @Keenan then I know I can afford the time with him. In fact in return for some sessions I've done some photo and video sessions with him and have helped him with costs for his ads.

It is porn, "live porn" that is. On the internet they are baring all or close to it and then when you see them typically there is engagement in some sort of sexual activity, whether they just strip for your enjoyment and you give them a handjob or more takes place.

Definitely couldn't do this job, beyond having to really perform I couldn't put myself through the risks they take. Beyond the sexual risks such as STDs there is also the risk of crazy clients. Also the fact that in their advertising they are typically leaving little to the imagination. I wouldn't want to put myself out there like that.

I am guessing we all take our providers for granted the ones we see regularly. Though when we aren't with them we don't always know what they are dealing with. How can we as clients help insure their safety? My regular escort says he's been in some precarious situations where he has feared for his life.

One of the providers I see works out of a house/location where the owner allows providers to use that as their base of operations. The finished basement there is setup as the office. When coming in you call when arriving and you are the only one seen in the entry and the provider immediately takes you to your room. For those that know the owner he does offer the option to allow you to come by and see which providers are available that day. He'll bring them up dressed in knee high socks and thongs so you can inspect them prior to the choosing. If you want you can touch and take a peek to see if you like the goods or ask certain providers to show how they make out with each other. That's allowed me to have a 3some in the past. You pay the owner the room fee and the provider his fee. The provider I see there the most says it's allowed him to do in-call which he can't do where he lives but he did mention that a percentage of what he makes goes to the owner of the space.

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For me when hiring looks of the guy definitely do matter. Am I hiring because of the conversation they can have or their personality. No. While personality can add to me an escort is equivalent to a living blow up doll. They fulfil my fantasy and sexual desires and then move on.