jackcali

this is freaking hilarious 

He's back in SF.  This provider was on RM once before, maybe a year ago, under a different name that I can't remember.  There may have been a thread on him, but can't find it without his old name.  His old profile was explicit about being into findom and not offering penetration or anything sexual.  (I asked him then if he was serious and he said he was.  I moved on.)  Then he went on X and Instagram to market an OF account, though I don't think there's any sex on that either.
When I saw the new ad, I hoped he had accepted the reality of the escort business.  He still lists findom as a kink but doesn't put it front and center.  He offers the Boyfriend Experience, but I seem to recall penetration being a regular part of the experience with my boyfriends.  From the above response, though, it sounds like it's the same old (non-alcoholic) wine in a new bottle.   Too bad, he's a good-looking guy.   

Never say never, but I think I've never paid a provider other than by handing them cash at the end of the session.  It doesn't feel at all awkward.  I mean, we both know he's there for the money.  Why be so delicate about hiding it? 

I wouldn't even call my own family without texting first. 
If an unknown number called me I would never ever answer it.  Even worse if it was a private number. 
Always text first - it is good manners. 

My voicemail message literally says:  "You've reached [my name]. I don't regularly check voicemail, so if you need me, please send a text, e-mail, or reach out through any one of the 100 more modern communication methods for a response. *BEEP*"

Even people I do know go to voicemail. 

I watched the first two episodes (they drop weekly).  I want to like it but it's sooooooooooo sloooooooooow

Back when CL was THE place to find sweet cock, I had the Chief of the Motorcycle Division of a large city police force contact me.  We made arrangements to meet up (for me to blow him) and he asked if I was OK if he was in uniform.  I told him that I was OK if he was and he said he would be at my home in 15 minutes.  15 minutes later a full on motorcycle cop is at my door!  I looked outside as he pulled up - ON HIS OFFICIAL MOTORCYCLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  He came in and we exchanged pleasantries as he got completely undressed - which was an effort with his knee high boots on!  He settles on my couch and I knelt to begin my expert work on his - are you ready for this? - 8.5inch fat white cut cock.  I go to work and he is absolutely enjoying what I am doing and then I look up and tell him to turn over so I can eat his sweet tight pink love hole out and he does.  I have these huge beautiful milky white mounds in my face and I spread them apart and go in to his sweet hole!!!  Long story short - he tells me he is ready and flips over again and I deep throat hims as he grabs my head and shoves it fully on his man meat as he is SCREAMING!!!!!!!!!!!  I saw him for about 2 years before we lost contact.  He was MAGNIFICENT!!!!!!!!!!!

Another hotel tale. I met a client at an out of town hotel for a 3 hour session. Mid session the client took a phone call from an associate of his. It seemed there had been some kind of attack on one of his properties. He gave instructions to have the perpetrators ‘dealt with’. After he’d finished with the call he phoned his wife to let her know. All the time I lay there naked on the bed. I’d offered to leave but he indicated to me to stay so I heard everything which didn’t seem to bother him. After the calls he told me his wife was a high power city lawyer who knew everything about his business. He seemed to do something in construction or property but he was vague about the details. I asked him what had happened and he told me there was some dispute with a business rival. He said he’d arranged to have them ‘sorted out’. I didn’t like to ask what that meant but I think it involved broken legs. I didn’t doubt him because he seemed like a complete wide boy. Translation for US readers - a ‘wide boy’ in British English is someone involved in criminal activity.
Strangely I never felt unsafe with him. Despite him talking and appearing tough he just loved kissing and cuddling. Much of the session he cuddled me while telling me what was going to happen to the guys who had crossed him, about his work, and letting me know that if I needed anything (me: ‘like what?’ him: ‘anything you like Jamie’) and about how his wife was much posher than he was. Such an interesting client. 
 

Yes, kissing without tongue is a total turn-off, a deal-breaker. To me, no tongue is no kissing, and no kissing is no sex. 

I've helped my regulars or guys I hoped would become regulars with advances for specific needs.  I paid one guy's expenses for a summer study abroad (tuition was paid by a scholarship) which I got back in services in the fall, another was a photographer who got a big job for which he needed some specialty equipment so I paid him for half a dozen sessions in advance, etc.  I don't think I would ever pay in advance an escort who I hadn't met, though.  Too big a chance of being scammed.  

He's certainly not going to make a living escorting with such limited services, but the economics of an RM ad are such that if he finds one client a month he more recoups the cost of his ad.  I'm guessing he figures he's hot enough that he'll get takers for even his limited services.  I'm guessing he's right.  

Symphony of people saying “NEVeR do Deposits!” Coming in 3, 2, 1 ……..

Just confirming what others have noted.  I'm seeing dick pics in profiles, including Simon's, with my basic membership but they are blurred out if I'm not signed in.  

He chose that location because it was cheap, especially compared with Manhattan hotels.  I told him that if he wanted to be serious about escorting he'd have to spring for a better hotel in a much better location.  That's when he told me that he's more focused on being an OF content provider and only escorted occasionally.  I feel honored he met with me, haha.  

Yesterday a client was asking to view my nudes. I get tired of sending everyone pics individually when they are all available online. Assuming he was viewing RentMasseur, I directed him to RentMen, since all but two pics are in my public gallery, including nudes. The other two pics RentMen forced into a premium gallery because they depict kink interests, although they are not nude. The client told me he can’t see the nude pics, and I sent him screenshots showing that they are visible:
 

 
The client said he doesn’t see the photos on his end because he is not a premium member and showed me this:

Soooooo….. RentMen is telling me my photos are public, but they are, in fact, not. At least not to members without the paid membership. Sneaky. 
I HAAATE this! We providers pay premiums to advertise. I even started paying extra to be a “sponsor” and be featured as an interview of the day, among other things, to see how these may boost views. Such a waste when clients can’t view the ad content I am paying extra to promote.
Not letting clients view my photos creates way too much friction. I am losing out on prospective business. RM is charging me to post photos, and then holding them for ransom until clients pay a fee to view them. The clients may be frustrated about it, but they are not losing anything. They sigh and move on to the next ad, or give up. Most of them are not caving to the demand to pay a monthly membership fee. It’s like a retailer instituting a cover charge to browse the merchandise. Nobody wants to shop there. Because RM is essentially a monopoly in the US, they get away with it. 
I’ve had it with RentMen’s exploitation. I won’t let them be my pimp anymore. I’m working on a business website where I can post everything and make it freely available to prospective clients. Once it’s ready, I will remove the photos from RentMen, save for one primary photo, and direct traffic to my own website. 

Maybe the 40 thieves got him? Oh, wait, he's Ali Gator.

Seattle is his home.  I just saw him in NY, where he's currently visiting (until tomorrow, I think).  Very nice guy, looks like his pics, he actually is 6' 3".  I had a great time with him.  He's more focused on his OF work, so doesn't escort full-time.  I'd happily see him again.