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are we really reduced to this?......gushing over a provider who simply shows up without a deposit?......
 
(yes, I realize he's a decent guy, despite his ad now announcing his location will only be given to select clients)

LOL

Exactly. It's kinda funny and basically absurd.
 
But then again, some guys invite the abuse when they go down certain roads.
 
One group of guys is chastised when they ask for a deposit. Another is celebrated.
 
Go figure.

Next year's White Party will be in Charlotte. 
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2020_Republican_National_Convention

i noticed i have never even heard anyone in that demographic discussed. They are in the midwest and down south but rarely on the coasts. I know Black men tend to be private because of culture but i know they are out there. Anyone here like straight black guys?

Everyone can do what they want. Its their freedom of choice to do so. I'm scratching my head though at other threads where an escort came out as a conservative or was known to say the "n" word. Oh my lord how people would cut him up, claim to never see him again etc. Yet when a muscle monkey says to one gay, he says to ALL gays, "go get aids and die" because he has a big cock he will still have his faithful followers.
 
If one of my faves EVER was proven to do such I would drop them in a nano-second. Difference I guess of each of our feeling of self worth here. I have no need of muscle to ever be in my life to be or feel validated. Plenty of other people or things to fulfill me in life.
 
This is how the text would go.. "so and so, I saw your horrible proven remarks on m4m today. While I enjoyed our time immensely I cannot continue to see you. I just wouldn't be comfortable knowing this is how you felt about me as well. That was a very horrible decision on your part. I wish you well and hope you grow as a person. Good luck".
 
And that would be it!

I am sorry to be contrarian, but seeing them with someone else turns me OFF.

Try asking an escort for a "loan"...."Look I want to see you so bad. I am so horny!! But I am short on cash this week. I promise I will send you the cash at the end of next week. PROMISE----PLEASE!!"

Amen. The coy shit is really annoying. As I grow older I find myself really losing patience with those games. Establish your limits and your price up front, then put aside the calculator and have fun.

My issue with faceless profiles is that a person can be handsome, but not attractive to me. I can recognize why someone would be attracted to them, but I won’t be. For instance, I would agree that Gerard Butler is a handsome guy. But he does nothing for me. But what do I know, I’m attracted to Jesse Eisenberg:p

during my one and only visit to Montreal in January, 2016, homeless people were immediately outside my hotel (Governeur (sp?)) sleeping on the heat grates......and a dude tried to sell me some cocaine on St. Catherine......I'm tolerant and aware of my surroundings and none of this bothered me in the least......fearing Montreal would be the Paris of North America (pretentious and rude), I, instead, found Montreal to be utterly unpretentious, friendly, low-key, fun, and easy to navigate......

who is interested in discussing dancers at the clubs in NYC? There are many guys that I enjoy having a lapdance with and others that are very disappointing when paying for a lapdance. Would be good to have a place to share experiences

Hopefully, one day all the negativity surrounding the gay and bisexual terms will cease and we can all just be sexual.

Dear Abby: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are planning on moving to California together in a few months.
 
I flew to Monterey to job hunt, and he is supposed to be flying in soon. However, last night I found out he and his buddy went to a strip club. My boyfriend knows I’m uncomfortable with him going to strip clubs, and he assured me that they would not be going when we spoke on the phone earlier in the evening.
 
He says I’m controlling and childish for being angry at him. I told him it’s either me or the strip clubs — mostly just to see how he would react. His response was that freedom of choice is very important to him. I even went as far as to say if he feels the need to go to strip clubs, then I would start stripping on the side to spite him.
 
 
I’m tempted to cancel his ticket to California. I don’t want him flying here if we are just going to fight. Is this situation worth the cost of a relationship? How do I deal with someone so stubborn to the point he can’t see when he’s in the wrong? Abby, he is in the wrong, isn’t he? — Choice Is Clear
 
Dear Choice: A wise woman chooses her battles carefully. If your boyfriend spent more than an occasional evening hanging out in strip clubs, I can see why it would be a deal breaker. But unless you left something important out of your letter — like the fact that he did more than look — it doesn’t appear that he does.
 
You escalated the situation and you shouldn’t have. However, if you feel so strongly about strip clubs, perhaps you should consider finding another man to spend your life with because it really isn’t possible to control the actions of another adult.

ok guys. heres the scoop.
 
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Maybe you can give us some actual examples for your dire claim?
 
You know, something other than “She used 80 names, 30 addresses, 15 telephone numbers to collect food stamps, Social Security, veterans’ benefits for four nonexistent deceased veteran husbands, as well as welfare. Her tax-free cash income alone has been running $150,000 a year.” Reagan already cornered the market on Cadillac-driving welfare queens about 40 years ago. Your turn.

most of these breeders that wont touch a guy yet if they had a tranny in front of them they would be all over mister sister! what is it with hot straight bodybuilders and trannys? i dont get it whatsoever!

Adrian is no stranger to scams himself.

Agree with you Goosh69, I'm a single parent and have two boys that go to a very expensive private high school. There are a lot of very attractive women married to these sloppy guys who make a ton of money. If the money went away would these women stay with these guys.....I am thinking not all of them! It's commerce plain and simple. Hookers...trophy wives. Do we really think Melanie lusts after Donald 's body?

I am just trying to stay out of trouble while at the same time remain able to be as useful as everyone else, for example provide links to valid information. If that becomes impossible because I don't understand the rules, then I'll leave and you guys will sure have just as much fun without me.

@MikeyGMin
 
Hmmm, never thought I was playing out a fetish. I'll ponder that.
 
I've been seeing a 99.9% straight guy, no longer advertising, over a year now. Always for weekends, from the start. In his city or traveling together.
 
He could be considered a fitness model and was discussed by many on this Forum.
 
He doesn't fuck (me) which is okay. I've never enjoyed getting fucked. And his dick is too thick. He doesn't get fucked, that's okay too. I fucked my ex-wife for over 20 years, (worn-out.)
 
In the bedroom, I/he enjoy(s) my oral abilities - both cock and ass. I enjoy the closeness (yes he spoons and tangles with me) during sleep and the occasional cock play with him during the night.
 
During the day and prior to bedtime we explore, dine, drink, see attractions in the cities we visit. We both get looks from guys and gals. He has an intensive day-job, asks for input from me, a seasoned fellow. Enjoy the camaraderie.
 
@Gar1eth My idea of sex may not match yours, it's okay. I will say I'm more than satisfied.

BUT, gents, not saying either of you have done this at all.
 
There have been posts on this Forum where guys who've had a session with a non-pic'd (or similar pic'd) gent. Looked sorta like the ad, but not exactly. REALLY?
 
They've had no issue. Horny for dick, I suppose.
 
If it ain't who I was expecting, face, body, dick-wise, he's a goner.

Hello,
 
I wanted to post this message based off of something that @Benjamin_Nicholas posted in another thread about a friend of his. Unfortunately, I cannot go into too much detail, but I wanted to share this with all of you here as a warning to be careful about who you hire.
 
The first thing you should do is go to your doctor and get vaccinated for all STIs. After you start hiring, get a full panel STI test regularly. It is up to YOU to protect your health. This person I spoke with had to learn the hard way that this industry is full of LIARS. There are tons of escorts who may have some infection, but don't tell you because they don't know themselves, don't want to risk their business being harmed, or are quite frankly to stupid to understand how these matters can impact people's lives.
 
To both clients AND escorts on this forum; if you have an STI, regardless of how big or small you perceive it to be, you need to be upfront with your partner about it before you have sex with them. Your partner has a right to know your status so he can make the decision if he wants to be with you or not. To not be upfront with them right from the beginning is dishonest and to me, it is straight-up lying. You have a right to know your partner's status before you have sex with them and if they do not want to be honest with you, then you should not be with that person in the first place.

Do they inform us, we hirers, that the pics ARE SOMEWHAT what they look like? Or that a knock on my door will be SIMILAR to the ad?

I understand the need for discretion but if they are that concerned about being found out maybe they shouldn't be escorting. Even with the fake pics it is still possible for friends or family to find out.