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adding Unleaxxhed in Philadelphia......let me know if the current list below is incorrect in some way, according to the conventions below.....
 
https://clubxroom.com/ Springfield, MA
https://www.yelp.com/biz/real-luck-cafe-pittsburgh Pittsburgh, PA
https://www.silveradopdx.com/ Portland, OR
https://www.stagportland.com/ Portland, OR
https://www.fuzzynavels.com/   Portland, OR - update: closed, but check for a reopening
 
and on varying days (join email list):
[email protected]    New York, NY, and Philadelphia, PA    (updated)
https://adonislounge.com/nyc/contact/    New York, NY  (use single email line at upper right to subscribe)
https://adonislounge.com/la/contact/     Los Angeles, CA   (use single email line at upper right to subscribe)
https://www.instagram.com/unleaxxhed/  Philadelphia, PA
 
the conventions are full male nudity in the main "public" area of a US "venue" (club, bar, private space) at least once a month....check with the specific spot for days of the week/month and hours......

After I looked at his ad, he sent me an IM and two face pics.  He's veeeerrrrrryyyy cute.

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Hey, I've seen him a few times! He is great and puts you right at ease. And to mention ease--he sure is easy on the eyes. Even more so in person. Never feel like he is checking the clock, or rushing. Incredibly present and intuitive. I also get the sense that he leads a different session with each client. It does not feel mechanical at all. 
 
That being said he does really take his time. And asks a lot of clients. He spends a good amount of time at the beginning asking what youre looking for, hoping for, etc. Of which he is incredibly receptive. And again, put me at ease. He may not be for everyone. He likes to plan ahead of time. And again, takes his time to get to know you. He is open for eroticism, but again--I sound like a broken record--takes his time. So anyone looking for a quick horny one time session, or just looking to get off, you may be disappointed. I left... satisfied but also very relaxed and ... dare I say... holistically empowered! 
 
Seems like the reviews on rent masseur had similar experiences to me. Feel free to PM me if you need any advice 

I took the plunge and booked him.  It was prob the best massage I’ve ever had, he does deliver on what he says in his ad,  yet it may not check off all the boxes of most guys on here.  Can PM me for more details if you want.

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Initially quoted me $600 then asked if I could send photos of myself. Lowered the rate to $250.

Another provider endorsed by several "known and trusted" forum members. 

One of the most delightful encounters with an escort, It was like being with a lover, sensual, passionate, fun and he is beyond sexy and handsome.  To be repeated many times.

I just returned from Cairo and wanted to share an experience I had. I went to get a massage at the hotel I was staying at, really just looking for a therapeutic massage after a long day of sight seeing. I was informed that the massage would be performed by a man, I am guessing because of the local culture.
My masseur was decent looking - not a model by any means, but I do like middle eastern men. Anyhow, i got naked and draped myself on the table. As he started to massage me, I decided to get a bit adventurous and let him know it felt particularly good when he was massaging my thighs and buttocks. I also let out some soft sighs, and then I got even more boldened when he got close to my taint. 
 
Eventually he asked if I liked it, and that he said i could “give a special massage for you, if you pay me extra”. I nodded yes and he started to play with my butt and hole in a very sensual manner. No penetration and he did not stroke my cock, but I was so turned on with the whole experience, because it was so unexpected and forbidden. Anyhow, that was it - I ended up jerking off back in my hotel room. Just thought I would share.

Here are my spa and cruisy park/beach experiences living in Honolulu:
~SPAS~
Island Club is the cruisiest of all the spas. Guys walk around completely naked in the mens locker. There is a sauna, steam room, hot tub, and gentlemen's lounge all within the mens locker. It is socially acceptable and normal to be completely butt ass naked, naked as the day you were born. It's a great place for nudists. It's extremely cruisy. Guys are playing all the time. It's very much like an unofficial bathhouse. Sounds perfect, right? Nothing can be this perfect, right? Right... it's $250/month plus an annual fee, plus other sign-up fees. Residents of the building get a significant discount. There are no day passes but you can request for 1 free week to test it out.
Only go to Herbal Spa if you have made arrangements to meet someone there. Otherwise, you will spend your day alone there. It is completely empty all day long. The facility itself is OK. It's old but everything works. There are lots of places to play discreetly; the issue is finding people to join you in there.
UFC Gym has a sauna in the mens locker. Most guys go in wearing swim trunks, some wear only a towel. It gets cruisy late at night after 10PM. Most guys who train here during the day are serious about fitness and aren't looking, so be careful not to mess with guys who aren't looking. The gym itself has a very straight alpha vibe, so there's plenty of eye candy but not much play except late at night as mentioned. The mens-only sauna in the locker is a very nice amenity that is hard to find these days. It's a nice gym, too. Not crowded. $60 a month. Open 24h. You can ask the front desk for a guest pass.
YMCA Nuuanu has a sauna in the mens locker. Lots of daddies. Lots of guys go naked in there but it's not very cruisy if at all. It's a very friendly, chatty atmosphere. It's almost too wholesome. It can be a nice place if you want to be naked with other guys but there's not very much playing here.
 
~PARKS~
The Banyan Tree
https://maps.app.goo.gl/BfYoj3mJP6dTHeZa9 and tennis courts across the street around 8PM to 10PM. You should leave the area at 10PM as that's when the Honolulu police begin to patrol this area. Kapiolani Park officially closes at 10PM every day so the police kick everyone out at that time.
The Tree is also active in the early mornings while it's still dark out, around 5AM.
This area is extremely active. Tons of tourists and locals congregate here for sex every night. Lots of group play. It's like an outdoor orgy. It has a very anonymous vibe because of how dark it is.
 
~BEACHES~
Polo Beach up in north shore is the most well-known unofficial nude beach. Only go here if you've made arrangements to meet people here, because it can be very hit or miss. It can be completely empty which can be a bummer if you took a day trip and drove 40 minutes out there only to find no action.
Diamond Head Lighthouse beach is another cruisy nude beach. It's conveniently located in Waikiki. Due to its close location to touristy areas, this beach tends to always be populated at all times of the day. The nude area is directly below the lighthouse. It is naturally blocked off by cliffs on either side, making the nude area very private. There are cave-like drawbacks into the cliffs where guys can go play semi-discreetly. Everyone is completely naked at this beach. It's very cruisy. It has somewhat of an outdoor bathhouse vibe but much more chill.
 

Okay, I took the plunge and saw StrongStrokes yesterday. He is everything that his fans have stated. He's very handsome with dark hair and blue eyes. A super-friendly guy, with great technique and well-orchestrated extras. Great body and personality. In a city where 20-something guys with no technique are charging $300 for a rub and tug, SS is the real deal. If you're into handsome, fit, smooth bodied, white guys, I cannot image you wouldn't be into him. 
I will definitely be a repeater despite him living on a fourth floor walk up! 

I don't recommend visiting PDC. It is owned and run by cartels. The police are paid off, the government are paid off and if you are not paid off your life and your families lives are at stake.
The last time I went there, one of the ferries that go between PDC and Cozumel was rigged with explosives which were thankfully discovered by a detective before they were detonated. Disemboweled bodies and severed heads are casually left on the street next to hotels in garbage bags. Shootings occur on the beaches regularly, injuring and killing tourists in the crossfire during turf wars.
I highly recommend avoiding PDC.

I have a story that happened about 6 months ago. This is the kind of thing that you think only happens in fantasies and I probably will never experience anything like this again. I was on a work trip to Charlotte, NC. I went to check in and there was three people in line ahead of me and two desk clerks (whatever they are called). One was a woman and one was a gorgeous guy looking hot in his hotel uniform. Darker skin with light grey eyes, dark curly hair...I mean gorgeous. Of course all I was hoping now was that I would get the guy and not the woman. The stars aligned and I was next in line and the dude was available to check me in. He was extremely nice, friendly, and professional. I definitely was subtly flirting but he just smiled a lot. I went to my room but purposely left my drivers license on the counter. To my surprise my plan worked and the guy phoned my hotel room to let me know I left my license. I told him (which was untrue) that I just undress for the shower and will come down later. To my surprise, He OFFERED to bring it up. So I rush to undress and put the hotel robe on. He knocked on the door and gave me my license. I told him he didn’t have to do that and he said he just got off the clock so just ran up to my room to give me my license. I said thank you and looked at his crotch and definitely was a bulge forming. I got brave and asked him if he wanted to hang out. He said “sure” and closed the door. What happened next was 4 hours of the sweatiest and stickiest and passionate session I ever had with a random dude. We both came 3 times with barely no breaks. I still can’t believe that situation happened. When he left I didn’t see him again until I checked out two days later and he winked at me when I turned in my key card. I’m sure I’ll never be that lucky again with hotel staff.

I've made one Freudian slip which had a surprising ending. Ordered room service at a Marriott in LA late in the evening, literally 5 minutes before they were to close service. I had just checked in, ordered, and then hopped into the shower. I ordered way too much food and a bottle of wine. My computer was up and on the desk, my bottle of lube sitting out on the nightstand in anticipation of a post dinner wank session. My screensaver was of a sexy half naked guy. I had just stepped out of the shower in a bathrobe when food arrived, I open the door, and tell this handsome young latino man to put the tray on the desk, of which my computer with said screensaver is taking up space. He moves the computer out of the way, turns to hand me the bill to sign, and I catch sight of what he saw. I was a tad embarrassed at my foolishness. He comments that I "just got in under the wire for room service, as the kitchen was closing and his shift was over." I decide to give him an additional tip and thanked him for squeezing my order in, mentioning I ordered too much food. He offered to open the bottle of wine which I then offer him a glass of as well as to stay and share in my meal. He was initially hesitant and comments that it looks like I was settling in for the night. In what was a very bold move for me, I told him the company would be welcomed. We shared the meal and the wine with conversation friendly and a bit playful. After we finished he thanks me for saving him from grabbing take out on the way home and helping him "unwind" after a long day. In it to win it at this point, I offered him the chance to take a shower also. He agrees, shyly removes his clothes and hops in while I clean up from dinner. I pop my head in to the bathroom and offer to wash his backside. He grins and tells me he appreciates me being so kind. Well, one long shower led to one long romp in the hay. After two orgasms on my part and working up a sweat requiring another shower for us both, we parted ways just after 3 in the morning. I slept with a smile on my face and missed my morning meeting the next day which was oh so worth it.

Was in Bali.  Apps were best choice. Even met a sexy guy on the boat to Gili Islands.  
Buying Viagra happened, was not cheep, and kinda an experience.  Went into pharmacy without a shirt then asked female pharmacist, "do you have Viagra," and she replied, "50 mg or 100 mg 200,000 IDR for prescription."  Pharmacist was in hijab and there were other Australian tourist in pharmacy, I am not the most gay man so it was a strange request.  Viagra works great. 

His reviews echo my experiences in Bali - but there are plenty of opportunities on the regular apps for money boys - and if you go to the bars the money boys are very evident - pre covid the standard rate was 600 000 Rupiah per night and they expected to stay the night with you and to share breakfast with you too.
 
 

Hi. So through planetromeo, I was able to set up some dates. I also met a guy on romeo who turned out to be some kind of fixer in setting up masseurs for me. Out of the six guys I contacted only one turned out to be goodlooking / better looking in person.
 
 
 
 
Only one masseur had legit skills and with extras . The massage is $20 plus a $5 tip.
i gave the fixer $10
the escort from insta stayed with me for two days and was a great companion and top. I gave him $100 plus 2000 CUP for his fare (rates were agreed upon before the meeting ) since he lived two hours outside of Havana.
King bar havana is a fun gay bar-dance club with plenty of locals/tourists/expats. It’s a good mixed crowd of gays, lesbians and straights.
rylac and pazillo bars are more chill.
there is a luxury rooftop bar on top of Hotel Telegrafo that’s considered the high end gay bar in Havana and from what i heard plenty of gay for pay models and rentboys hang out mainly because the clientele is mostly tourists but from what I gathered the bar only accept credit cards and as you may already know, US issued credit & debit cards  don’t work in Cuba so I didnt even bother to go.
i booked a drag show/art gallery nightout through airbnb experience which was so Much fun. My experience host was Jose and he is the nicest and Most fun guide I had in my entire trip. Being gay and a millennial the company was easy going.
also, as 4/5 star hotels are off limits to US citizens, I stayed in an airbnb where local guests are not allowed in the room. My fixer allowed me to bring guys to his place but since his place is in Diez de Octubre, taxi costs USD 10-15 one way.
there are other room options on planetromeo but most of these places really look modest so be prepared to just use it for the encounters.
mi cayito is decadent but i only spent two hours in the morning on the beach so I didn’t get to have fun at the beach.
overall, the quality of guys I met is below par. The great looking guys hang out in a place off limits to me or as i was told, there were workarounds to not using a credit card but it was just too much of a hassle for me to even try.
Would i go back to cuba? I would, but maybe spend more time in mi cayito  and explore other towns and perhaps lower my expectations.
or I can also go to puerto Vallarta for a relatively same budget and meet better quality guys. A trip to Brazil seems like gay heaven but the fare alone is so impractical unless i plan to spend at least two months in the country.
just shoot me Qs if you have any.

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There are very few of these type saunas remaining with most of them in Brazil.  The Thermas facility is definitely bigger than the new Lagoa.  And it feels bigger than Pointe 202 & 117.  It gets very crowded for sure, but doesn’t feel absolutely packed like the Brazilian saunas mainly due to Thermas larger facility.  There is no such thing as waiting for a room at Thermas because there is always somewhere to go - there are lots of free cabins there that will do for 30 minutes.  
Don’t pay too much attention to going during peak hours - I think that’s a big mistake for most, especially if unfamiliar with the layout and guys.  My best experiences have been off-hours when it’s not crowded.  On my last visit, I went on a Saturday at about noon - the cashier told me there was only one working guy there and 3 other customers.  I didn’t have any other plans, so I thought why not just enjoy the facilities for a while ?  Within 30 minutes I met one of the most beautiful, gifted and kind Brazilian garotos anywhere.  I spent a couple hours with him in sessions and having drinks & chatting (he spoke enough English to get by).  I left the sauna at 3p as the working guys were streaming in. Went to hotel, took a nap and returned for round two at 7p as the crowd was starting to thin-out. The moment I walked through the door on the return, I met one of my all time favorites and spent the rest of the night with him.
Success in the sauna doesn’t require any special expertise - other than an awareness that you are being watched, sized-up & discussed by the boys.  Treat them all with respect and don’t waste their time unless you’re really interested.  The guys I know from there all take pride in their appearance and go the extra mile in personal hygiene - they appreciate it when clients do the same.  A prepared client who is polite, respectful & generous is a popular client who can get whatever they want.  While the base rate is 50, tipping for extraordinary service is appropriate and small tips to the attendants and bartender goes a long way too.  If you can manage some basic Spanish, that’s a game-changer.
I’m a huge fan of Thermas and have so many great memories from there.  Happy to share.

go to Barcelona - pick a hotel within walking distance to Sauna Thermas.  You’ll have the best of both worlds - a sauna venue with plenty of choices & extensive online options.  All in a very safe environment & nice hotels at reasonable price points.  

Oh How I miss driving or walking the square block of 53rd, 54th, 3rd ave and 2nd ave....It was like a freakin supermarket of men for sale.