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It may not be an easy conversation and one he may not want to engage in but I would raise it up to him in a way to hopefully not burn any bridges. However, be prepared to move on. I had somewhat of a similar situation with someone I hired where the initial encounters were fantastic (energetic, enthusiastic, passionate, etc) but like a light switch at one point it changed to less than that. I continued to meet him because I enjoyed his company, it was convenient to meet and the sex was still decent (just not fantastic). We still meet from time to time even though he isn't on RM any longer and as far as I know isn't active as an escort. As we developed some trust and a kind of "friendship" I learned that during the initial meetings he was using ecstasy (molly) when he met clients and for one reason or another stopped after a time. So that pretty much explained the change.

I don't think those two things are necessarily mutually exclusive to one another.

The outstanding guy was very interactive, take charge and met my criteria for being satisfied (except no kissing). The waste of time was passive and just wanted to be serviced. Of course some guys like that but it wasn't what I wanted. I found both on Rentmen. If you do a search and list "straight" in the filter for orientation then you can see the options there.

In the past I've hired two straight guys. One was an outstanding experience while the other was a total waste of time. My success rate with bi and gay guys is much better.

Quick question/point of clarification for the OP regarding the system showing him logged in after you sent your last message. That may or may not mean he opened/read the message you sent. In the message dialogue if he did open your message there should be two check marks next to your last message (at least that is my understanding of that). I would have hoped he would have responded if he did read it but there may be a chance your message got buried in a barrage of messages he may have received and never got to yours. Just a thought but if he did read it and didn't responded then definitely ghosting you (or flaking on you if you prefer that term).

I don't see prices in RM ads that often (am somewhat surprised they allow it). I may be wrong, or maybe confused with RB when it was around, but I thought at one time there was a listing of rates under pornstar info section but that was some time ago. I actually wish it was more common than it is as it certainly saves a step. If I am interested in a guy but see his rate at $500 then I just move on.

My recollection and perception was that he is solid but perhaps not quite as muscular as his pics. His pecs didn't seem as pronounced, if that makes sense but that is a judgement call. I do think the picture in his ad is definitely him.

At one point his prior name was SensualPassion. I met him earlier this year. Feel free to PM for details of our meeting.

For what is worth: The text from the 1 star review: "As mentioned in my chat with you, this escort scammed me out of $500. He got to my hotel room, we chatted for a couple minutes, he asked for payment, then 2 minutes later there was a knock at the door. It was a thug, and the escort left. Very scary, and disappointing that this type of individual is allowed on a reputable site like rentmen." The text from the 4 star review: "Very cute , pics accurate , needs to be clear on what he offers" The texts from the 5 star reviews: "Thank you for your amazing site, good sir. I hope your site is around forever." "everything fine." "He was really nice and a good experience. Was very clean and really a nice person too"

Any first hand experience? https://rentmen.eu/AlexBiXL Lots of RM positive reviews. Search here reveals no threads or mention of him. He checks all the boxes for me but just would like some feedback from any forum members who made contacted and/or had first hand experience.

https://rentmen.eu/Moistpolarbear/ Any first hand experience is appreciated. Anyone see anything that might be a red or yellow flag? His profile name is a bit odd but other than that I don't see any issues in the info supplied. Number of reviews for the time he has been listed is fine, several are premium members, he isn't listing everything under the sun for things he is into, took the time to fill in the interview section and is willing to do a facetime/zoom before meeting. For the type I am into, he checks all the boxes. Initial contact to set something up has been just ok (short answers, not answering all questions and having to ask again to get all the info to set something up). Rates are a bit on the high side but not out of this world. I'd feel so much better if anyone here has met him and could give some feedback on how things went and if he met expectations (feel free to PM if you wish). Thanks in advance...

I decided to meet him and had an appointment with him very recently, within the last day. Handsome and personable young man. Mostly met my expectations and probably would do a repeat at some point. DM me with any specific questions or wanting more details of the meeting.

Awesome...I didn't realize something was planned for Hooboy as well and am thrilled about that. Neither should be soon forgotten. Thanks for everything you do.

For those of us who have been around long enough to remember the origins of this site I would love to see this forum renamed Remembering Daddy and Hooboy. It gives some acknowledgement to the person who started it all and without him it would ever have existed in the first place. Just my opinion. Cheers to both these gentlemen who made it all possible.

I am not sure this has been discussed before or if this is the right place to post but I'll post it anyway here. Seems that Rentmen is now requiring a premium membership in order to post a review of an escort that is advertising on their site. This seems to be something relatively new. Personally I think it is a good thing. Wondering what others think about this change in their policy/procedure for doing reviews on their site.

To each their own, but I find him attractive and have considered hiring him when he was living in Maui and I was planning to visit there pre-pandemic. My recollection is that those rates were pretty much what he quoted me. My belief is that rate might not be too unreasonable for that particular market where there are slim options available and the clientele, living or traveling there, would likely be more open to paying that amount. I don't know how that would translate to San Francisco but my guess is not too well. More power to him if it works for him.

I'll be traveling to F.L. soon and have been exploring various options available for hiring. I am seeing a range being quoted from 300 to 500 per hour (although someone traveling there for a period of time just after posting this quoted me 250).

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today. It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired. Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years. This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).

I do wonder about some of the past escorts I've hired and if they were still alive or not. They weren't big name escorts and I don't know their real names so there is no real way for me to know for sure. Most, I am sure, just retired and didn't want contact any longer (which in itself can be a disappointment), but there are a few who I wonder if they passed away. I think back at some of our encounters and I can see that perhaps there were some signs of a sad life, depression or chemical dependency. The signs were quite subtle and I may be reading too much into them but it does give me pause to think about whatever happened to them. Perhaps not knowing is better than the alternative (if it turned out in a bad way for them).

A long shot for any feedback since very new profile but thought I would ask anyway. https://rentmen.eu/twinkinthecity As a twink lover I am very very intrigued.

I also wish they would be more helpful. I will note that I have made contact with several RM reviewers of other escorts in the past and have had a decent reply rate. It is just odd that for this particular guy that no one responded, however it may be just the luck of the draw. I have sent a PM to @Kufrolasking about his review and will see if he responds (he has recently been on line here so it appears he is active).

I did attempt contact by RM messenger with each of the people who submitted reviews asking to verify their reviews and requesting they provide some additional feedback from their meetings with him. It appears all were received and read. For whatever reason none of them responded. Not 100% sure if that means much but does give one some pause as to if the reviews are legit or not. Just my opinion.

I made contact but his rate was more than I am willing to pay. Very limited communication from his end other than the rate for coming to me. No shade intended against him but just above my top number. I'm just barely coming to terms to accept $350 as my limit and he wanted $450.

Any feedback or firsthand experience would be appreciated. https://rentmen.eu/Tothemaxx

I met him several years ago in Vegas when his look was more "clean cut". Not as thrilled with his new look. I had an ok time and he is a nice guy with a smoking hot bod but I likely would not repeat mostly because of his limits (no kissing) and I don't recall but am not sure he gives oral (perhaps others that have seen him can indicate if they had that experience or not). May not be indicative of what he does with clients but his OnlyFans page only shows him receiving oral and rimming but not giving. From what I can gather from my experience and other posts, he is more likely in his mid 30s now rather than the advertised age of 28 so I speculate that he is trying his best to keep that youthful look with whatever he has had done and the hair styling (if you can call it styling). To each his own and I am sure many like the look and being with a straight guy. Different strokes for different folks.