glad you didn't even meet him....
https://rent.men/LucasWeston
http://daddysreviews.com/review/lucas_weston_nashville
when I meet with somebody new and who I don't fully trust yet, I mention in pre-meet communication that I will pay at the end, that I don't want to talk about money during the meet, and then ask if that's ok and if they have any questions
the pay request even before the meeting is, of course, a huge and well-established no-no, but many probably fall for it......I'm afraid there are many who don't know of this forum and the many discussions we've had here about this "pay upfront" racket.......