a repeat of what I wrote in your MarkParker inquiry:
a much-discussed quandary here on the forum......some here will claim they will only meet with providers who choose "gay" in that field on the RM form.....others prefer straight......still others don't care......and still others claim that designation on the RM form is bogus, anyway........
it might be best to entirely ignore that field in the stats list and discreetly/politely ask him if he's comfortable with x, y, and z......whether he's gay/bi/straight or a little of each shouldn't matter if he'll do what you like......yeah, I'm sometimes curious myself because I wonder if he's secretly grossed out by what's going on........but I persevere, don't take it too seriously, and remind myself this is just a business transaction with each of us receiving benefit of some kind