click on your avatar/username near upper right, go to Privacy, go to "allow users to.....start conversations with you".......I have mine set to "mermbers only"
Tony Bay is great playing that naive, confused, curious vibe......and those deer-in-the-headlights eyes are fantastic!
here's a good one with some of that uncertain tension.....
https://www.xvideos.com/video46580639/sf06_-_ex-military_scene_1_-tony_bay_and_rodney_steele
subways, buses, and trains (all versions of public transport, actually) are funner than cars......somehow, I just don't quite want to hang out with a prima donna who demands anything so fancy and pretentious as an Uber/Lyft.......
I presume you already did a search.....
https://m4m-forum.org/search/569418/?q=dino+luca&t=post&c[child_nodes]=1&c[nodes][0]=30&o=date
https://m4m-forum.org/search/569415/?q=chris+daniel&t=post&c[child_nodes]=1&c[nodes][0]=30&o=date
I presume you did your due diligence on him??
https://m4m-forum.org/search/569309/?q=financebro&t=post&c[title_only]=1&o=date
by the way, it's now 10:59pm in lower Manhattan.....did he come through??!!....(I realize you may be busy at the moment)
Met Jon a couple times a few years ago......masculine and in great shape......smart and professional......almost certainly therapeutic only........although I had no problems with Jon during both meets, a forum member informed me of his own concerns (I think this is what you are mentioning above in your post)
of course, you can always just politely tell the server how you'd like the meal to be paced....nothing wrong with saying something like, "at the last place we ate, the main course came too quickly and we hadn't finished our salads"........