This is not true. As a top, the experience can range from anything from an anon hookup (which I don't expect any feeling from), to passionate 'love making'. The issue is, in the moment, its okay, but I'm alos not ever seeing the guy again. Nothing is 'clicking' beyond that time spent together. This is what I'm trying to feel. I want to feel like I want to even call them back. So, if there are small changes I can make on my end, to help trigger such an emotion, this is what I'm trying to learn.