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I am very sorry to report that Guy Fawkes/daddy passed away this evening of heart failure. For over a month he remained in the hospital unconscious and on life support.
 
His passing touches us all. He was a man who dedicated his life to providing a Forum where men would feel free and comfortable talking about all sorts of topics that covered our life style.
 
Having worked with daddy since he started this site I got to see first hand how much he cared about people and viewed us as his family. He was a very bright man with a love for life. He will be missed.
 
RIP Daddy/Guy Fawkes
 
With sympathy,
Cooper

WOW, who knew there was a word for this?! 
 

@LookingAround  @PileDriver
Hey guys!  I listed all the recs on the first page of this thread, but this thread is now three pages deep!  Ha ha.  Here it is with a couple updates:

W Man Spa on 30th
Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn
East Men Spa 
Yeah Man Spa (LES)
27 Men Spa 
Time's Square Men's Massage
Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic.  
Renew on 8th Ave and 48th St  
Rainbow Spa on 49th St between 8th & 9th
Tai Chi spa in East Village
Keep in mind that there are explicit M4M massage-type places (like Men Spa, W Man Spa, etc.), but I have to say after living in New York my entire life, it never occurred to me that there are only about 10 of those in the city and there are SO MANY "regular" parlors, so it made me realize... I think the best route is just to keep this conversation going AND just call around and ask for "older masseurs."  I've done that with all the parlors listed above and it's honestly less awkward than I thought it'd be.  I think I felt a little weird calling especially since women work at those parlors as well, but every one of them (except W Man on 30th) was answered by a woman and they were always very direct and nice about it.  
Thanks to all the guys who have messaged me privately for sharing their recs and experiences.  I'm going to see Peter at Renew next!

I did
 Oh yes! Few times in my life. It is really amazing. Last time was two months ago with a fuck buddy I have. And there is a masseur named Carlos on Union Square NYC I experienced it 3 times with...It feels amazing, the only thing is that I always love cumming together with my top, and most of the times cumming hand free is a sudden unexpected event that the top can't "pair" with.
Not sure what anal orgasm feels like, I don't think I ever experienced it, but if it would be an addendum to cumming hand free while being fucked it must be super amazing!

Yes. I’ve managed that a few times.
 
One of my favourite positions for topping is missionary. I like to interlace my fingers with those of the bottom, and then pin his arms down above his head as I pump his butt. It’s a great visual when the bottom has no control and reaches orgasm and cums all over his abs. 
 
Once I had a weekend date with a guy from LA. He’s the most prolific hands-free ‘cummer’ I’ve ever seen. One morning, I was topping him before breakfast and I hadn’t pounded him for long when he started to orgasm like a fountain. 
 
My favourite bottom tho is an English muscleboy. Blond and with a perfect body, he was my ‘friend with benefits’ for some years (I put him through his university studies and professional qualification). He not only came hands-free when being topped, but he also came hands-free when he was sucking me off. As my load hit the back of his throat, he would orgasm without even touching himself! When I saw this the first time and asked him about it, he said he couldn’t control himself; he loved sucking cock and he loved the taste of my cum. I think that’s when I fell in love with him. 

I have cum three times in my life, hands free, while I am getting fucked. It cums suddenly, with no warning, with great pressure, and leaves a feeling of tremendous contentment that lasts for hours. Has been decades since this happened, but I keep trying

As much as having the previous thread removed sucks, if it’s a matter of having that come down VS having this forum removed completely due to violations, I’d much rather prefer the former.
 
We are all supremely lucky that this place is here and we should appreciate and respect the decisions made by the moderators.
 
And I also agree with that previous thread was becoming littered with random posts and confusing responses - I, myself, am guilty of that too.
 
We have a chance to start fresh.
I say we use this opportunity to be careful what we say and share. Quote the posts we are referring to. And if you make a comment or share recommendations about anything, then we should state clearly which spa it is and which masseur we’re referring to so to avoid confusion.
 
Clean slate! I’m all about it. And again, rather have this than the whole forum gone!
 
So who has had a new experience to share?

Frank took care of me in Tai Chi.  Great attitude: playful, happy, good pressure.  He whispered that he loved me in my ear at one point.  $55 with a $40 tip.

Great story.  Thanks for sharing.

I was at a NYC massage parlor recently that I have been to many times before. The masseur knows me and knows what I like.
We don’t even bother with the massage at first, he just strips down and let’s me suck his uncut cock until he is hard and then he fucks me until I cum. It always starts with me face down sucking his cock until he is rock hard. He quietly asks, “You want me to fuck you?”
When I say yes, he gets a condom and some lube, fingers me for a bit and the slides that beautiful thick cock in my ass. We fuck like that for a bit and then we stand up and I mean over the massage table so he can puns me. God I can still hear the slap of his body against mine as his cock slams into me.
Then he lies down, I climb on and ride him until I cum on his chest.
Then a hot towel cleanup and a nice massage. If I am lucky and it’s not busy? When the massage is done and I am lying on my back relaxed? He climbs on top of me and we suck each other until we both cum and swallow each other’s loads.
I love the sounds he makes as he gets close to cumming and how he always tries to pull out of my mouth but I hold his ass and slip a finger inside him. His cum is always sweet.