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Nope. It’s actually a turn off when a provider starts getting frisky too early in the massage. I want a therapeutic experience with a great massage and some sensual teasing throughout. It’s like a sensual form of foreplay that builds up to a climax at the end that is way better for me than a lot of regular sex when done right. And like many others mentioned it can be cheaper than an escort and for a better experience overall, it just works out well for a lot of us. But there’s something different out there for everyone, that’s the beauty of life - sensual massages aren’t for everyone. 

Nope. It’s actually a turn off when a provider starts getting frisky too early in the massage. I want a therapeutic experience with a great massage and some sensual teasing throughout. It’s like a sensual form of foreplay that builds up to a climax at the end that is way better for me than a lot of regular sex when done right. And like many others mentioned it can be cheaper than an escort and for a better experience overall, it just works out well for a lot of us. But there’s something different out there for everyone, that’s the beauty of life - sensual massages aren’t for everyone. 

Nope. It’s actually a turn off when a provider starts getting frisky too early in the massage. I want a therapeutic experience with a great massage and some sensual teasing throughout. It’s like a sensual form of foreplay that builds up to a climax at the end that is way better for me than a lot of regular sex when done right. And like many others mentioned it can be cheaper than an escort and for a better experience overall, it just works out well for a lot of us. But there’s something different out there for everyone, that’s the beauty of life - sensual massages aren’t for everyone. 

I go to a provider regularly and they continue to initiate extra services without prompting and you continue to leave a regular size tip, not a tip that covers them going above and beyond what was paid for. Now, that would indicate to me that the provider doesn’t mind going above and beyond bc they are the one who prompts it every time. So it really just depends for me on how things go from session to session.
 
Now if they initiate it the first time and don’t in the future, that would be a good sign they weren’t happy with the tip. But if I’m a regular and they keep starting it, I’m going to assume they don’t feel the need for a tip that matches what they’re offering.

Maybe I'm in the minority, but I don't go into a massage session with any intention of having sex, even if it's listed as sensual. For me, the massage is the most important thing and I don't wish to sacrifice the quality of a good massage for the possibility of having sex.
I typically book therapeutic over sensual, but will opt for sensual if that means the masseur is also naked. I'm a bit of a nudist, so it's always nice when a masseur will also go naked during a sensual massage session. But getting a sensual massage or us both being naked doesn't mean sex. For me, being naked together is what makes the massage sensual and sensual does not need to end with anyone getting off. I've found having a masseur jerk me off to be a bit awkward and, honestly, I feel I can do a better job of that on my own.

Sure, skin on skin contact, or when a masseur's hand (or other body part) briefly glides across your balls/ass/dick is generally exciting and creates anticipation...but that can also ruin the moment for me, which should be focusing on the massage itself. 

I also understand that masseurs have different interpretations of what's involved with sensual massage or what should be classified as erotic. What I described above may sometimes be considered more erotic (though, I see an erotic massage as the gateway towards more sexual activities), so I may opt to book the erotic if that means the masseur will be naked too - however, I will make it clear up front what my expectations are, just so we're both on the same page. 

Honestly, I am an escort and truthfully, sometimes that does happen. I try to build our experiences together with the client and come to a point where we don’t get to the fireworks too early. However, there are guys that are excited and I’m never going to stop someone from being excited about being with me. If that does happen, I will always offer for us to continue the Massage as most of my services revolve around Massage. Jump in the shower and talk, or cuddle I will never kick someone out or leave before the hour unless the client wants it. 
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While I don't think the posts you copied deserve a response, I think you sound jaded. If someone asks you a specific question in RM, they have a reasonable expectation that you will read it and respond appropriately. You seem to think l should have to pay for the privilege of booking an appointment with you. 
That might have something to do with why you aren't getting bookings. 
You don't need to "keep track of a third party messenger app" because you can set RM to email you when you get a message. It would be nice if they would text you instead, but checking your email periodically is not too much to ask for a business.
Before I pay any sort of provider, whether it be an accountant, a lawyer, or an electrician,  it seems normal that we would have a discussion about if they handle the kind of service I need. 
If I called the number on the ad, and rather than answer the phone or ask me to leave a number, they sent me to yet another website or asked me to call another number, I would move on to the next provider. I would think it was unprofessional or a scam.

I think this topic has run its course. We’ll agree to disagree, just like the long and boring specific tipping thread.
That said, unless you have been elected President of the International Brotherhood of Masseurs, the financial arrangements between a client and a willing, of age therapist is emphatically and without any doubt whatsoever, none of your business at all. You have a right to an opinion. But so do I and every other person on this planet. They generally mean squat. 
Everyone should do their own thing. Therapists can choose to see clients or not. They can offer extras for a stated price, or not. They can choose to not offer any extras at all! Or offer them just to people who appeal for o them. No big deal. It either works for the parties or it does not.

(I am certainly not including any potential human trafficking scenario in Bangkok in my opinion. That is a very different topic altogether. I’m talking about good old USA based grown men, most of whom could probably whip my ass! (Not in a sexual way))
Enjoy. 

Nope. It’s actually a turn off when a provider starts getting frisky too early in the massage. I want a therapeutic experience with a great massage and some sensual teasing throughout. It’s like a sensual form of foreplay that builds up to a climax at the end that is way better for me than a lot of regular sex when done right. And like many others mentioned it can be cheaper than an escort and for a better experience overall, it just works out well for a lot of us. But there’s something different out there for everyone, that’s the beauty of life - sensual massages aren’t for everyone. 

Nope. It’s actually a turn off when a provider starts getting frisky too early in the massage. I want a therapeutic experience with a great massage and some sensual teasing throughout. It’s like a sensual form of foreplay that builds up to a climax at the end that is way better for me than a lot of regular sex when done right. And like many others mentioned it can be cheaper than an escort and for a better experience overall, it just works out well for a lot of us. But there’s something different out there for everyone, that’s the beauty of life - sensual massages aren’t for everyone. 

I think his earliest review on RM mentioned a 4-handed massage with his partner, Bene, but it looks like it was just therapeutic. 
It does seem like he is strictly therapeutic, but his rates also seem to be reasonable taking that into account. 

Massaging you was such a pleasure for him that he decided to pay you for your time instead?
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Wondering if anyone has had any experience with this provider - https://rentmasseur.com/UniqueMasseur
 I love his look but curious if anyone has any insight into his massage skill. He has some good reviews on RM, but I find the reviews on this form to be a bit more honest and aligned to reality - so just curious if anyone has intel. Couldn’t find a singe post about him, so thought I’d get the discussion started. 

Just wanted to add my two cents - the first time I saw him I had a good massage and the fun happened at the halfway mark (and it was a lot of fun) but then he wanted to end it there when there were still at least 20 or so minutes left. I asked if we could continue with massage for the rest of the hour and he agreed, but it felt awkward having to request it of him. In other times I’ve been in that situation with my fav masseurs they have been the one to be say -  get back on your stomach, I’m not done massaging you yet - which made me feel in good hands as their client they were ensuring I got my full hour I paid for.
 
so while I like the massage, his body and the extras - I did leave feeling a bit weird about the time, but it wasn’t such a big deal because I have seen him once since then and didn’t have that issue that time. 

The pics scream AI to me. In fact another LA account came on the site right around the same time and that looked AI too. 

But he already said in the original post they’ve negotiated an escort level of services for the appointment 

But he already said in the original post they’ve negotiated an escort level of services for the appointment 

Geez.  That’s terrible.  Sorry to hear about that experience. 

I had a less than positive experience with Benyou. The massage itself was quite good but I found his demeanor to be abrupt and a bit rude. The thing that was a big turn off was that the massage became a little more erotic than discussed but then after the massage ended and I was paying him he asked for an extra 50 dollars as an up charge. He had never let me know there were any up charges available beforehand and he was the one who initiated the activity so it really rubbed me the wrong way how he handled it. I just wanted to get out of there, so I paid it without arguing, but based on his personality and the payment incident I have no plans to return. And I after I left he texted asking me to leave a positive review lol

I had a less than positive experience with Benyou. The massage itself was quite good but I found his demeanor to be abrupt and a bit rude. The thing that was a big turn off was that the massage became a little more erotic than discussed but then after the massage ended and I was paying him he asked for an extra 50 dollars as an up charge. He had never let me know there were any up charges available beforehand and he was the one who initiated the activity so it really rubbed me the wrong way how he handled it. I just wanted to get out of there, so I paid it without arguing, but based on his personality and the payment incident I have no plans to return. And I after I left he texted asking me to leave a positive review lol

I've seen him once before. Super nice guy and chatty during the massage. He was so kind and sweet during our convo that it was almost a turn-off, it that makes sense. He comes across as a very genuine and caring person, but just not the vibe I'm looking for in an erotic massage.
I was also annoyed with the situation bc the massage was listed as 185 but it was an extra 100 for the erotic option, which was not revealed until I got there. I made the stupid decision of adding on, even though 200 is usually my hard limit for erotic, and all of a sudden I was going way over that limit. It's the only time I've ever gone over and agreed to an add-on like that, and while I regret the momentary lapse in judgment, it is what it is. The main reason I regret it is because while the massage was very good, the erotic portion was somewhat uninspiring for me. While I enjoyed the experience overall, and it ended quite happily, it was def overpriced for what I got and I wouldn't return. If he charged a lower base price for therapeutic, then I might return for that, because I did feel a lot better after the therapeutic portion; it was just overpriced at 185 for therapeutic only, when I can get similar massages for less.

I saw him in Dec of 2023. It was a nice experience. He has a friendly cat at his place too. Didn't converse much, but he was friendly with good massage skills. He took cash only at that time, no digital payment. I would repeat and have been meaning to go back, but haven't gotten around to it yet. Will definitely try to see him again some time this year. Looked just like his pics at the time I saw him, along with some other impressively sizable assets that are not included in his photos. 

I've seen him once before. Super nice guy and chatty during the massage. He was so kind and sweet during our convo that it was almost a turn-off, it that makes sense. He comes across as a very genuine and caring person, but just not the vibe I'm looking for in an erotic massage.
I was also annoyed with the situation bc the massage was listed as 185 but it was an extra 100 for the erotic option, which was not revealed until I got there. I made the stupid decision of adding on, even though 200 is usually my hard limit for erotic, and all of a sudden I was going way over that limit. It's the only time I've ever gone over and agreed to an add-on like that, and while I regret the momentary lapse in judgment, it is what it is. The main reason I regret it is because while the massage was very good, the erotic portion was somewhat uninspiring for me. While I enjoyed the experience overall, and it ended quite happily, it was def overpriced for what I got and I wouldn't return. If he charged a lower base price for therapeutic, then I might return for that, because I did feel a lot better after the therapeutic portion; it was just overpriced at 185 for therapeutic only, when I can get similar massages for less.

I've seen him once before. Super nice guy and chatty during the massage. He was so kind and sweet during our convo that it was almost a turn-off, it that makes sense. He comes across as a very genuine and caring person, but just not the vibe I'm looking for in an erotic massage.
I was also annoyed with the situation bc the massage was listed as 185 but it was an extra 100 for the erotic option, which was not revealed until I got there. I made the stupid decision of adding on, even though 200 is usually my hard limit for erotic, and all of a sudden I was going way over that limit. It's the only time I've ever gone over and agreed to an add-on like that, and while I regret the momentary lapse in judgment, it is what it is. The main reason I regret it is because while the massage was very good, the erotic portion was somewhat uninspiring for me. While I enjoyed the experience overall, and it ended quite happily, it was def overpriced for what I got and I wouldn't return. If he charged a lower base price for therapeutic, then I might return for that, because I did feel a lot better after the therapeutic portion; it was just overpriced at 185 for therapeutic only, when I can get similar massages for less.

I've seen him once before. Super nice guy and chatty during the massage. He was so kind and sweet during our convo that it was almost a turn-off, it that makes sense. He comes across as a very genuine and caring person, but just not the vibe I'm looking for in an erotic massage.
I was also annoyed with the situation bc the massage was listed as 185 but it was an extra 100 for the erotic option, which was not revealed until I got there. I made the stupid decision of adding on, even though 200 is usually my hard limit for erotic, and all of a sudden I was going way over that limit. It's the only time I've ever gone over and agreed to an add-on like that, and while I regret the momentary lapse in judgment, it is what it is. The main reason I regret it is because while the massage was very good, the erotic portion was somewhat uninspiring for me. While I enjoyed the experience overall, and it ended quite happily, it was def overpriced for what I got and I wouldn't return. If he charged a lower base price for therapeutic, then I might return for that, because I did feel a lot better after the therapeutic portion; it was just overpriced at 185 for therapeutic only, when I can get similar massages for less.