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Now I'm curious... if an escort's rate is for time, why would 2 clients vs 1 cause a change in rate?

That is already available on sites like xtube, xvideos, etc. Real guys, having real sex. I find it is even better/hotter than the staged stuff from the industry.

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Uggg... smoker. 😡

But... why is he wearing a shirt? 😏

I suppose that is a valid concern. However, I would think if a provider was going to lie about that, that they would lie saying they are on PrEP. Lying about U==U would probably be counter productive. While educated guys understand HIV can't be transmitted when undetectable, I'm sure there are plenty of potential clients that don't, and would still steer clear of such providers. So IMHO a provider revealing U==U status it likely more truthful than others.

If he's a top, he better show his dick. It's that simple. I'm a bottom, so when I hire, I want to see how big he is... and sometimes more importantly, how not-so-big he is. I prefer the more average sized tops. I don't want a top that hurts, I want a top that will feel good inside. Now, for the rest of the ad ... rates, rates, and rates. I dislike contacting a provider, only to learn the rates are not within my budget. It wastes both our time. Also, I want to know that you DON'T SMOKE, and DON'T DO DRUGS. Finally, tell if you are on PrEP. Or if you are Undetectable. Indeed, I'm leaning more to U==U guys, because they have to monitor themselves so much, I'd be very comfortable with them.

Maybe I should have asked first ... was he at least down to just a thong or similar? He wasn't fully dressed, right?

Wait, that's you?! Impressive! And hot hairy body, too 😍 Now you just need a hole to deposit that in to... 😉

Yes, it is! Even more so, that like myself, the bottom cums while the top is still inside him. My favorite way to bottom. 😉

I guess what I meant was ... how could you not choose the nude option?

Is it wrong of me to see all these hot guys, shooting or having shot such massive loads, and thinking how much I wish that could've been going up my ass instead? This particular clip I quoted... I don't doubt I could've felt that one inside me. 😏😲

If I hire a masseur through RMass (or similar), through their ad or communication, I can determine if the guy will offer Erotic massage or even full escort service, before choosing to hire. What about a spa? In my past travels, I've thought about getting a massage at the hotel spa. But I haven't yet, because I fear getting a hot masseur, then being disappointed/frustrated that I only received a therapeutic massage. If I did go to a hotel spa ... in the United States, and find I'm getting service from a hot guy, is there recommended protocol to find out if more is available? Given the legit aspect of the spa as a business (again, here in the US), would an "employee" masseur even be able to talk about such? Would I be better off keeping silent, but look for opportunities to brush his groin with my hand a couple times, and guage his reaction? Is it even possible for a masseur in a spa setting to give an erotic or escort experience? So I'm looking for advice if this is even something possible that I could explore on my next trip? Have others had experience getting more than therapy in a spa?

Not nude? With a body like his, that just seams wrong. 😥

Wow! Just found this thread, and this massage video has to be a rare find, to actually include cumming inside! More, please.

If your overnight was an incall (or other location from yours), how'd he know where your B&B was?

Getting back on topic... I don't have tattoos, and I would never get any myself. And yet, I find myself enjoying seeing the art on other guys. So much so, that when I'm shopping for a pro, the presence of a few tats can be the tipping point if I can't otherwise decide between two providers. But I agree 100% with others ... none on the face.

Preface to this question: Yes, we all understand that even with all sorts of vaccines and PrEP-arations, bareback does have risks. Thus I'm asking that this thread NOT become JUST a safety discussion. Treat this question as theoretical if that helps. 😏 Ok, here's the question/scenario. Primarily this is aimed at professional Tops who most frequently use protection (but not 100%). Though, others I'm sure will chime in. A bottom client hires you, and expects you to top him. However, when you arrive, you see this guy is [ugly/fat/glasses/very_old/etc... whatever fits for you]. For this case, let's say that he is at least clean (not stinky). You realize that it's going to be tough to get hard, stay aroused, perform because of his appearance. But then, this guy invites you to go bare. Would such an offer help? Would you find it easier to perform with the guy? Or, is there no overcoming unattractiveness?

Too bad you didn't use PayPal Good&Services. Otherwise PayPal would have returned your money.

Late questions: What if a newer provider doesn't yet have a review? So someone posts the typical 411 for them. Later, a review happens. Is it still merged? If so, would the older 411 posts come before the master post review details? Or could you 'fake' the master post's date to be at the beginning of time, thereby ensuring it is always the first post in the merged thread?

Alright, so we all see in the ads "...you are paying for my time only..." So this got me thinking... have you ever been hires for just that ... your time? I'm not talking about the 'date/boyfriend' experience, going out to eat, a movie or play, because that still ends in sex. I'm asking if someone ever hired you for more mundane tasks/time. Maybe to help paint the house? Or help load up the Uhaul? Perhaps sit at a table playing board games? No, not naked. Not leading to sex. Just paying for your time, and that's it. I expect the answers will be ... no, never happens. But stranger things can happen, so why not ask. There might be some surprising tales to tell.

Interesting you mentioned this. I enjoy sometimes just browsing the pros on one of the hookup sites (A4A). Even just a year or two ago, there was a page+ of pros in my area (Seattle). But today, barely 2 or 3. 😥

Oh, one more request, but it might not be allowable except in a members only area -- during the session, did they cum? 😉 There are many providers that won't. It would be nice to know ahead of time.

I was going to request "Tattoos" myself, but just saw it mentioned a couple posts up. Regarding age verification: What if in the Review portion, the submitter put in the Perceived Age? Maybe just a menu of age decades (20s, 30s, 40s, etc). Then some aggregate data shown could become an informal age verification. Naturally, that aggregation would have to compensate for a review 20 years ago that said they looked like they were in their 30s. 😁

Just read this entire topic, and this comment is what I was thinking about for the 300 vs 150 topic. I'm a client. I'm also just a bottom. I've hired a few escorts over the years. I've also had a few random hookups. What gives me pause at paying 300 (or even 200 for that matter) is that with a random hookup with a top, he's going to cum. Hopefully in my ass, but one way or another, he's getting off. As a bottom, that's what I like. Being part of that moment, sharing that orgasm time with him. No, not me simultaneously, just being able to watch and share him in his moment of climax. I may or may not cum after him. When I've hired an escort, I rarely get that experience. Too many are stuck in the mode of just getting the client off. But I would easily trade my climax for his. Instead, I get faked Os. And I can tell ... either with no dick pulses/spasms inside me, or he pulls out with the condom as empty as it was going in. 😥 I'm reminded of the saying "why buy the cow when the milk is free". Because a random hookup is more satisfying than a professional? And that feels backwards. If I could be guaranteed to get an orgasm out of the provider, I'd happily pay up to 300. But of course we can't talk about that ahead of time, because the money is only for his time, etc. And he probably does have to save himself for the next client. So if I'm not going to get that experience, I just as well hire for just a massage, at half the cost. Meaning, I'm paying 150, not 300, for time with a hot guy. Please note: I realize I'm probably in the minority here. Most clients are probably happy to just get off. Certainly client tops are. But maybe providers that advertise as tops, who get a client that is a bottom, might think about who would be expected to cum?? Maybe providers should have different rates if they are taking the role of top, or of bottom?