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Ok, I hope this question isn't too weird. I'm sure most bottoms, myself included, prepare themselves (either BM, enema, and/or shower shot or similar) fairly close to getting topped. So no questions about that. But what about if the bottom does not know what the day/evening might bring. If as a bottom I wanted to get myself ready, and then go out on the town looking for a top to hook up with, how long might the AVERAGE bottom remain ready "down there"? What if it's a couple hours, or more, before getting topped? (Yes, I understand the risks of the random hookup, so I hope this topic doesn't dwell on that.) I'm just trying to get an understanding of how long does the lowest part of the intestine stay empty. Yes, each person is different. But might this conversation yield an average expectation?

Well, he does seem to still have a full head of hair, like a 38yo would. 😉 Though, I'm sure he uses Just For Men to hide the silver beard. 😏

As a fellow Seattle-area resident, I must agree. ☺

Indeed, I enjoy body art ... and body hair. Very nice indeed. Bookmark for sure! Would you mind PM me some more details?

Oops, this probably should be under The Travel Desk? (I thought that was for providers traveling? Admin, please clarify)

So, just found out that I might be traveling to Nashville, TN for a business seminar this fall (Oct 2024). Yea, I like to plan ahead. 😁 I've never been anywhere in the south before (I live in Seattle). Any recommendations for providers (masseur or escort) that do outcalls? I'm older (50s) and a bottom.

Before then, I too was getting frustrated with things happening on xtube. So I ventured over to xvideos awhile ago, and just didn't bother going back until last week.

I just found out today that xtube is gone. 😭 It had a few of my all-time favorite videos, some years old. I've peeked around a couple others (pornhub, xhamster, xvideos) trying to see if I could find some of these old favs. But they all have poor search capabilities, certainly focused on the latest, and pro, etc. Some seem to yield the same 400k+ results, no matter what I enter. One video I'm looking for is B&W. Do ANY sites have a search function with color/b&w as one criteria? I haven't found a search like that... yet. 😥 And, as xtube was failing, was there a preferred site where people were taking their videos to?

At a routine doctor visit just last month, they gave me a booster. They told me it was the latest, but a week later I heard reports from others going in for theirs, that the clinic in fact did NOT have the latest. So, is there any concerns if I get another booster (this time the latest) only 3-4 weeks later?

I would think if a bar has a clothes-check, they'd take necessary precautions to keep things safe. Just a couple instances of theft would give them a bad reputation, and underwear nights would cease to exist.

Is this forum site based in the US? If not, might it be in the best position to create an alternative to rentmen? 🤔

I just saw a clever workaround last week. Don't remember who, or how I even stumbled on their profile (possibly a link from a forum here)... But basically, they created a hashtag with their rate, i.e. #200anhour If providers use their own flavor of this (not sharing the same hashtags) might be harder for such tags to be detected/removed. For example: #200hr, #hr200, #a200hour, even #twohundredhour 😁

Now I'm curious... if an escort's rate is for time, why would 2 clients vs 1 cause a change in rate?

That is already available on sites like xtube, xvideos, etc. Real guys, having real sex. I find it is even better/hotter than the staged stuff from the industry.

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Totally unscientific, 100% baseless opinion here... Perhaps the concept is that a guy that is on PreP / U==U / etc, is doing so many frequent tests that they likely don't have anything to transmit. Meanwhile, a guy that requires condoms may never have been tested for anything (figuring the condoms are all the protection they need) and thus may be carrying something transmissable? Oral, kissing, fingering, even just their jizz getting on you, all could be risky depending what they might have? So yes, condoms give safety for the act of sex, vs going bare. But for the overall encounter, might playing with someone who requires condoms be less safe than playing with someone prepared for bareback?

Uggg... smoker. 😡

But... why is he wearing a shirt? 😏

I suppose that is a valid concern. However, I would think if a provider was going to lie about that, that they would lie saying they are on PrEP. Lying about U==U would probably be counter productive. While educated guys understand HIV can't be transmitted when undetectable, I'm sure there are plenty of potential clients that don't, and would still steer clear of such providers. So IMHO a provider revealing U==U status it likely more truthful than others.

If he's a top, he better show his dick. It's that simple. I'm a bottom, so when I hire, I want to see how big he is... and sometimes more importantly, how not-so-big he is. I prefer the more average sized tops. I don't want a top that hurts, I want a top that will feel good inside. Now, for the rest of the ad ... rates, rates, and rates. I dislike contacting a provider, only to learn the rates are not within my budget. It wastes both our time. Also, I want to know that you DON'T SMOKE, and DON'T DO DRUGS. Finally, tell if you are on PrEP. Or if you are Undetectable. Indeed, I'm leaning more to U==U guys, because they have to monitor themselves so much, I'd be very comfortable with them.

Maybe I should have asked first ... was he at least down to just a thong or similar? He wasn't fully dressed, right?

Wait, that's you?! Impressive! And hot hairy body, too 😍 Now you just need a hole to deposit that in to... 😉

Yes, it is! Even more so, that like myself, the bottom cums while the top is still inside him. My favorite way to bottom. 😉

I guess what I meant was ... how could you not choose the nude option?

Is it wrong of me to see all these hot guys, shooting or having shot such massive loads, and thinking how much I wish that could've been going up my ass instead? This particular clip I quoted... I don't doubt I could've felt that one inside me. 😏😲