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Maybe they say 'happy holidays' because they don't know if you are jewish, christian, muslim, atheist - and they just want to be kind and encompassing of everyone. Your theory is weak- if you don't like people saying happy holidays XXX just say that!

It's not weird. I think most people- providers or not- would be grateful of receiving a gift.

I have- but he had a different name. Ginger Beard or some such name.

I have seen him when I was in LA last year- genuine guy, was super friendly, performed AMAZINGLY, and 10/10 recommend.

I agree with @BuffaloKyle-this is something you should pre-warn or bring up prior to a session. I'm not a provider -but can imagine having a flavor I don't particularly like shot into my mouth without warning would be hard to smile about! I consider it rude when someone cums in my mouth without warning me - I would say the same if you shoot a lot of precum.

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Bozo: It's the US govt that is doing this, not the Canadian.

Its been known for a while now-DHS has scrapped all RM profiles and with facial recognition tech- it pings when they get to the border. They then check RM for travel dates listed as confirmation- and reject entry as the tourist is intending to work. DHS is doing this under the guise of stopping sex trafficking. it reeks of homophobia. I know two providers this has happened to. Its happened to some Only Fans guys too. I would encourage all to put face photos as private, and perhaps fudge the travel dates they list before visiting. Sex Workers Are Being Detained at the US Border | Novara Media NOVARAMEDIA.COM Vague and discriminatory laws can bar sex workers from entering the US, but they’re inconsistently applied...

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I think Rentmen's new money grab will make it lose its place as the market leader - they charge the providers to post profiles, and now charge us to view them! taking it from both ends (literally) A provider told me he has been less busy since the new paid membership to view pics and he was looking for an alternative.

i can access the site but the message section is not working - on phone and laptop.

I'm curious - do you not think college-educated guys would be providers? seems to be a bit of an asinine comment tbh. I think he looks great, I love me some short kings. Uncut white boy! yum! Ticks a lot of my boxes. He has great content too. Hopefully, he is in LA when I am there later this year. I've put him straight on my 'buddy list'.

i see no concrete bookings in the pics you have shown as 'evidence' - just inital enquiires. this is the nature of the business, no matter what city you are in. consider this - and i mean this in the nicest way - perhaps the energy you are putting out there is the problem. For someone who only sees one client a month - you sure do have a LOT to say on these boards.

Dude - if you are only getting one booking this month (and it's the 22nd already) it may be time to hang your hat up a retire.

this is a circumstance when you should tip. This is what tipping is for.

I'm interested to hear if anyone has had experience with this handsome guy. His profile says it was created in jun2021 but no reviews yet. CenkX - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - CenkX: New York

my trip has been pushed back- hopefully in the new year

Russian Baths | United States | Russian and Turkish Baths WWW.RUSSIANTURKISHBATHS.COM Nyc Baths | Baths | United States | Russian and Turkish Baths I'm curious about this place - the reviews are somewhat mismatched. I note they have men-only days on Thursdays and sundays - has anyone been? Any action happen there?

if you are nervous about a provider that has 53 reviews with a 5-star average...... you will always be nervous. In case you don't know- You can click on the profiles of the reviewers- see the other reviews they have posted, as well as contact them to ask further questions. You literally have 53 people who can VERIFY that they have seen the guy - but you feel better asking anonymous people on a random forum? Just take the plunge man and enjoy yourself.

Any recomendations of clincs?

YES - which is why in my original post I write : "What I am asking for here is advice on how I can do it as safely as possible, not a lecture. So - advice about non-judgemental doctors, personal trainers, etc " How do you know where I want to be in 3 months? I haven't mentioned anything but my goals. You are making huge amount of assumptions here! 😃 Thanks for the advice - I will just search up the clinics and try my luck rather than have recommendations. ( i was hoping for a DM for a referral rather than a post on the pulic forum)

You are there - that's what I am asking for - " advice about non-judgemental doctors, personal trainers, etc " Do you have anyone in New York that you can put me in the direction of? WHat labs work should i ask my doctor to monitor? I don't have unrealistic expectations. I just want to test the waters in the safest way possible.

my main concerns are gynecomastia amongst other things - i guess i am just looking of advice that is not too overwhelming or simplified for a beginner in this area who wants to start slowly what do you suggest?

what I am asking for here is advice on how I can do it as safely as possible, not a lecture. So - advice about non-judgemental doctors, personal trainers, etc

maybe you didn't read where I said " I just want to spend a few months committed to eating right and working out " I don't know where it was implied that I was asking for you to understand my desire - but thanks for the input.