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For some reason for me, hideme just keeps showing me the login in page where you chose rentmen.eu or rent.men. It doesn't matter which one i pick it just reloads to the same rentmen/rent.men choice

@Tandy Newton @Coloradoguy @NYC_BTM_321 Be better guys. You're giving the same energy as straight guys who ask a girl out and then insult her and call her fat when she says no. Reading the comments and I was expecting to see an ogre when visiting his profile instead of a very appealing hot young guy. This forum is such a cesspool at times. You don't like his rates - fine. But making comments that he is worthless says a lot more about yourselves rather than him.

Ok so he is a bottom. Good to know.

Boys that use rentmen simply as advertising for their OF accounts and never meet clients.

I have some interest in this guy, but I need to see more XXX pics.

comparing poppers to PNP drugs is a bit of a leap @DrownedBoy and ghosting is a lame way to behave. Much better and adult to explain why you were no longer interested. For the OP @DunwoodyGuy it sounds to me like this guy likes to do drugs when fucking and thats a hard thing to navigate if you are not on the same page. I always encourage people to share these stories and name the providers as it helps keep the community safe. I have once arrived at a provides house and once inside realized they were high and it was frightening how he started to scream and yell and threaten me when I tried to leave after 5 minutes.

This provider has changed his name, but people should be aware about his behavior and drug use. Profile here - https://rent.men/JaelXL See thread here for details -

I am also interested but need to see more pics.

I do find it funny that you mention communication to be the issue (and not basic cleanliness), but also how upset you are by what appears to me to have been a pretty rudimentary and communicative description of every shower I have ever had in my life. Do people not shower this way?

Oh I am certain the provider was stopped. The part that is not true is that he is US citizen. Perhaps he was a green card holder and a US resident, which is a different thing. You are correct to doubt it because with 100% certainty a US citizen will be never be denied entry to the US. The escort is either lying about being detained, or lying about having a US passport.

I was replying to @d.anders comment in which he was discussing this allegedly happening to a US citizen.

This part of his story is not believable. Every country MUST accept their own citizens upon arrival. You can even be accepted if your passport is out of date. Citizenship GUARANTEES entry. If he was traveling to the US and he is a citizen, he should have been carrying his US passport, otherwise he would have needed to show a valid visa.

I was going to post to ask for feedback on experience for this boy. Hopefully more than a OF boy. He looks really great.

Thus proving the point that you created the thread simply to invite mockery, instead of genuine interest in the provider. We can all see that. And rather than admit it, you choose to double down with a very weak come back of 'if you don't like it, move on'. You are better than this, and so are your contributions. This entire thread has in fact made a resolve in me that I will not just 'move on', but instead call out poor behavior. If you do not like being called out, you be better. If anyone needs to be told something 'one more time', I encourage you to read this thread from the start. Good day to you. Be Better.

It's not fooling anyone. It's a shame you are choosing to act this way because I previously thought well of your posts.

@marylander1940 absolutely started that thread in order to watch people ridicule and mock that provider. Pretending otherwise is simply inauthentic.

bump.

It has. But in that it has also been illuminating. For me I guess the question that follows is - if this is a largest batch of clients, and the environment is so toxic that providers chose to stay away rather than engage- what can we do about that? To me at least, this is a sign that should come to moderators, but also us collectively as a community. More than one poster here has pointed at one person in particular. I have been often confused when someone posts a 411 about a provider to then see the posts that follow often just be comments for others as to why they don't find the provider attractive, rather than people commenting on actual experiences with the provider. It seems strange, like if I was showing a group of friends a shirt I wanted to buy, i wouldn't expect them all to tell me why they think it is horrible and they themselves would never wear it. I have called out people for this before 'no one asked if you like him, we asked if you have experience with him', and often a chorus of people telling me to get of my high horse. perhaps the community needs to be more vocal and self policing of these kinds of comments. I would say the line is - criticizing an experience, a behavior = fine. critiquing body/looks/likes/dislikes = not fine. It's not actually that difficult or a stretch of social norms to adhere to. Thanks for everyone that contributed. It is sad to see @Simon Suraci go, and even sadder the behavior that has lead to his exit. When I am on the west coast I am going to do my darnedest to see you.

bump.

The contributions we get from providers here are highly valuable, although the number that do is small. I want more providers to comment and participate on the forums. Having them participate creates less of an echo chamber. When we see a provider comment, often it is to clear up a misconception or defend themselves in a post - they are greeted warmly with "welcome to the fourm!" and then promptly disappear. I see pile ons here and think 'this is why they don't'. So my question to the group is: 1. Why do you think we don't see more providers post, and 2. What can we do to encourage more of them to join in. (I am especially curious to hear from @Simon Suraci @nate_sf @GentJ Why do more of your colleagues not post here?)

@PhileasFogg these are not troll like/negative comments. I feel it's unfair to say he is only negative. I want more providers to post here, not less. I wish they were more active on these forums.

@PhileasFogg

you can never fully trust anything about someones status - that is why you must be responsible for your own health and be taking prep or using condoms. I have had scares when fucking women who assured me they were on the pill, and I trusted that. With prep, I like that I do not have to worry about whether my partner is taking it or being honest about their status - all that matters is that I am taking my prep every day. I can understand why some providers are not honest about their status due to miseducation and the massive fear campaign around HIV that we (rightly) grew up with. Be responsible and use protection when you are with anyone - whether that be condoms or prep.

also only had a rentmen account for 4 weeks.

it has been in my experience.