It won't win any awards for writing or acting, but it sure as heck is entertaining. Great chemistry between the two leads and oh yes, the multiple sex scenes are very well done.
With one exception, any discussion I have had has been with attendees at Oliver's Palm Spring Gathering. If asked I would be open and honest, but it is not a topic of conversation that I would initiate.
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