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I just get the impression a lot of people seem to think most guys are on PreP, which the stats do not bear out at all. So they're not even having the conversation.

I have five siblings, none of whom is in what I would call great financial shape, so I don't see myself doing it. Also, the ones I would trust not to murder me for the money if they got desperate don't seem to really need it....

Your best bet there is to ask someone you meet at the spa if he sees clients privately.

They probably have a phone plugged in.

I use condoms and it's definitely true for me that it's more difficult to stay erect with them. And there's certainly less sensation.

I made out like a bandit in 2001 when it was the dawn of online ticketing and e-kiosks, and they were giving away bonus miles like candy. I was flying cross-country every other week for work, and it was usually a sub-$300 ticket because I had a Saturday night stay, where I would fly 5000 miles and get 22,000, at a time when an upgrade was 5000 miles and a free ticket was 20000. I racked up 450,000 miles in a year and was using them for upgrades for years afterward. So I sort of feel like I got way more than my money's worth already. I think the new programs just aren't really a factor for people who don't fly that much.

Once Continental merged with United and I never got upgrades, I just started paying for first class(which on the routes I most frequently travel, is often not that much more than coach once you've paid to pick your seat plus extra legroom). Basically, I will save my miles until I have enough to make a trip to Australia or NZ in international first, then blow them on that, then start over.

I still think that as more people feel freer to have sex, the number of DISTINCT partners has gone up. I think stigma kept a decent fraction of gay people away from sex altogether in prior generations. And also more people travel frequently. I'd guess that of, say, 1000 cocks your friend sucked, many of them were repeat customers, so maybe it was 150 different guys, while my friends who do this are sucking 600 different cocks. While to the average person there's no real distinction there in terms of level of activity, I think it makes for wider spread of STIs.

Is it that small, or have people's partner counts gone up now that fear of HIV is greatly reduced, and condomless sex is the norm rather than the exception? I have at least one friend, a young guy, who goes to bookstores to suck multiple cocks EVERY DAY at lunch, and know several others who rack up similar numbers of partners. Most gay people I know either have very few partners or very very many, which given latency periods and some people being asymptomatic, is going to lead to a blowup in non-HIV STD rates. ^The above isn't meant as moral judgment, just that as behavior has changed, results are changing.

Most likely you simply didn't notice it before reaching down became something that required a project plan and a SWOT analysis.

Well as someone who has hemorrhoids that leave my hole not looking like I would like, I'd give it some consideration if I had sex more often. It's also inconvenient for wiping etc.

Is your standard for a partner "totally having the hots for" them? That seems a bit unrealistic as well, frankly. Shouldn't you be thinking, "good enough?" I've had lousy sex with Adonises, and good sex with average-looking people. I mean, does personality count for nothing?

Is your standard for a partner "totally having the hots for" them? That seems a bit unrealistic as well, frankly. Shouldn't you be thinking, "good enough?" I've had lousy sex with Adonises, and good sex with average-looking people. I mean, does personality count for nothing?

Have you considered looked into crossfit? There are a lot of middle-aged guys who look pretty good these days. They're at the gym.

I'm a virgin!

Best bet is probably just get it out of the way first thing in the morning.

That doesn't mean you should just go ahead and do the work for the lazy ones...

There is also the fact that for many it's a part time gig and they don't need coworkers idly googling them.

I'd tread carefully regarding law enforcement. A friend who married a much younger foreign national and then tried to divorce her just shy of the automatic green card got accused if trafficking her. He disproved it but the accusation is still in court records. You don't know what desperate people will do.

Your best bet for ending it quickly might actually be getting the lawyer to draw up an agreement for him to leave for a certain amount of cash. Even though it would sting, it's probably better than the risk of him being in your house another 30/60/90 days and you wondering what else he might do while you're away.

There are tons of people I know from the gym or from taking the same train that I recognize by face but don't actually know their name. Recognizing someone doesn't mean anything, just nod hello and move on.

Sorry to hear about this. Is there any chance he might get violent? You might want to have someone with you when you confront him.

Well regarding the apt number he might have wanted to minimize risk of you knocking on the wrong door.

Studies have shown that odds of boys being gay increase with maternal age and the number of previous male children the mother had. So it's likely a hormones in utero situation as much as an explicitly genetic situation.

That amount seems very excessive and I don't recall ever seeing it that high in the times I've used it. Is this person outside the US?