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I've seen people use photos of themselves that were so old they look more different from them than some people who use pics of different people. The degree of the difference is the issue. This field skirts the edge of legality and those who advertise are taking a certain amount of risk, so it's not an absolute dealbreaker unless the picture looks nothing like them.

So just for the hell of it I googled Tony Cummings escort and found this but have no idea if it's legit. Since I don't think I've seen anyone reference this site here I assume it's a scam: http://www.localmaleescorts.com/escorts/profile.php?id=2695

Don't know for sure about Tony Cummings, but I saw him at the Nob Hill Theatre towards the end of his career and as I recall he told me he was going to school and was almost done at the time. Assume he got a "real job" and moved on.

Mirage is nice but not very big. Mandalay Bay is bigger but not quite as nice as it used to be. But it's hopping in terms of people there who seem to be looking for action. But I'm not talking about the therapists there. I have not had anything but a legit massage at those spas, or Qua for that matter. Last time I had any hint of an extra at a Strip spa was 15 years ago at Luxor when I was young and the therapist was young and I don't think he was there much longer after that so I'm guessing he got himself fired. They're pretty ridiculous about heavy draping at most of those places now, covering you in a sheet plus a blanket and only uncovering the precise area they are working on.

Also, dude, you didn't give people a whole lotta time to respond...

I used to get a lot of lapdances from him and got the impression he could possibly be available for outcalls but he probably has some limitations.

I think waiting for Christmas might make more sense as it's after finals, on the off chance they are upset by it. I'm guessing they won't be.

By any chance was the time they stopped pushing women on you about the time they got into theater?

Wait, your boys are into theater? I'm now revising sharply upwards my estimate of P(they've figured out you're gay). We have rocketed past the 50% threshold and will soon be approaching 95% confidence. You simply don't do theater for four years in this day and age without developing some gaydar.

I went late so this may not be representative. but it was an older very ordinary at best looking guy and the massage was not very good at all. Would not repeat.

I'm quite possibly overthinking. When I came out to my younger sister(when I was 35) I assumed she already knew, yet she insists she had no clue. To be fair, I'm almost pathologically shy with new people so me never having a girlfriend wasn't the same red flag it is for others.

Be happy kinda sounds like he might have a clue. The plot thickens... Thank you for sharing your story.

The large number of reviews each with only a couple days between seems a bit unusual.

I went a number of times in 2000/2001 when I was working out that way. I remember the announcer back then had a REALLY sexy voice and he was a good-looking guy too but I suspected he wasn't toned under that denim uniform shirt he wore. Wish I'd had the nerve to ask him out.

When I was a cashier in HS and college and deep deep deep in the closet, oh good lord how I looked forward to giving hot guys their change and ever so briefly touching their hands. It was the closest thing to sex I had until my first kiss at twenty-fucking-seven. Also why I still went to Mass in the school chapel because we would hold hands during the Our Father. I would angle to be sitting next to the cutest boys.

That said, as they got older, probably they had at least one friend who wound up with a stepmother and may have learned be careful what you wish for...

You don't have a giant dildo they may have stumbled upon do you? Kids snoop. EVERYWHERE.

Good Grief - look at it this way - an escort encounter fundamentally involves a lie regardless of the pictures. The "lie" is that they want to have sex with the client. There are levels of deception, one must decide for oneself at what point on the spectrum they draw the line. It's perfectly acceptable to draw it where you do, but I can see drawing it somewhere else.

Some guys use someone else's pics for "plausible deniability" so their friends/family don't get wind of what they are doing. While nobody really likes being lied to, I imagine if the person were the same "type" (e.g. if you were describing them verbally, would you say the same things) and as attractive as the pictures, I wouldn't necessarily mind.

I just looked up Leslie Jordan. He's only 62??? I thought he was 55 or more 20 years ago.

They could do the whole thing as Jack is living in Will's apartment and the four of them meet for brunch every week.

I really think the drinking age should just be 18 or 19 so they aren't incentivized to NOT call 911 when they need to.

There are reasons to still use condoms aside from HIV. But a lot of people are only "really" worried about HIV. Meanwhile due to the spread of HPV, head and neck cancers are increasing. But to the OP, barebacking with multiple partners, especially people who you know themselves have an above average number of partners, makes you exactly the target market for PreP. Even responsible people who have no intention of doing so miss doses sometimes. It's just human nature. My 90-day supplies of cholesterol medication routinely last me 100-110 days because I randomly forget to take it, for example. The case for PreP is statistically somewhat less compelling if you are an exclusive top and also circumcised(i.e. it's riskier bottoming with a condom than topping without one).

Being just about the same age, I kind of view BasketBaller as how my life might had gone had I decided to marry and have kids. Except mine probably would have ended with me losing everything in a nasty divorce after banging the lawn guy.... I gave serious consideration to "just find some nice-enough girl who doesn't like sex and have kids with her" in my early 20s but while my Catholic guilt kept me from acting on my male desires, it also made me thing that was a horrible thing to do to a woman and I wasn't brave enough to be upfront about it. Sometimes I wish I could go back in time knowing what I know now and find a woman to have a "companionate marriage" with. I feel for various reasons I'm too old now for the kids road and would love to have had the experience.

Let's just say stereotypes exist for reason - his speech and mannerisms to me at least, strongly suggest he's gay. Some people, you just know. I think he's one of those people. YMMV.