EastbayMike

I thought this was going to be a thread about Boris Johnson.

What does it matter if they play safe or not? As long as you play safe with them (whatever your definition of "safe" is) what does it matter what they do with other guys?

Yes.

Hate to be the odd man out but I found Karl just average.

Well, at least half of your statement is true. ;-)

He's been on the business for many years with a lot of positive reviews here a on the forum. Use the search function. (He might have been using a different name in the past.)

So basically he completely misrepresented himself in his ad. I would have politely excused myself as soon he opened the door.

It might mean he has two phones....

Yup! It used to appear in Frontiers Magazine at least as far back as in the late 90s.

In my teens - yes. In my twenties - maybe someday. In my early-thirties - not sure. In my mid-thirties - oh fuck no. In my forties/fifties - I thank god multiple times a week that I am child free.

Except a lot of those who died in the 80s (including my own brother and many of my friends) were likely infected before the virus was isolated, before doctors knew what caused AIDS, and how to prevent its spread. I agree with caliguy.

How about the flip side? Shouldn't HIV+ clients stop hiring escorts? If fact taken to the extreme, shouldn't all HIV+ folks just stop having sex all together? "Wouldn't it be proper not to expose others?"

How so? Whether you intend to fuck or not is not the issue. The issue is whether you believe the reply. From your post it appears that the answer would have a bearing (baring?) on what activities you'd include in your encounter and/or the use of condoms. If a stranger tells you they're negative and you believe them and then have unsafe sex you're an idiot to think it means there is no potential exposure to HIV (or any other STDs). Even if the stranger did receive a negative result, the result is only as good as his last sexual encounter prior to being tested. If he's having unsafe sex with you he's also having unsafe sex with other people who are also saying "don't worry, I'm negative." All of us are free to act as we see fit every time we fuck. Just make sure you understand that each encounter has risk and you shouldn't rely on the "don't worry I'm negative" bullshit. Same for "don't worry I'm on PrEP." What he's really saying are two potential falsehoods, "I'm negative AND I'm on PrEP." Again, believe if you want to but understand the risk. If people ask me, I tell them I'm negative and on PrEP but I also tell them they it's a meaningless question and they shouldn't believe me. Carlos45 gives the best advice, assume everyone is positive and act accordingly.

Listening to them have you a raging hardon so why would you consider doing anything else?

You dodged a bullet. Always trust your gut and stay away from the crazies. I meet a guy in LA once (I live in the Bay Area) who was cute and the hookup sex was great. He asked for my phone number and address. (This was back in the early days of email and texting, writing that seems so quait now.) I gave him my address but something told me not to give him my phone number so I changed the last digit. Within three days of my return I had three different letters from him saying he tried to call but the number was wrong. Without time for me to respond, the fourth letter came handwritten in all caps where by he cussed me out for not responding to him, called me a drug addict, insulted my friends and parents for the way I was raised, and said our relationship was over and I was never to contact him again! So glad I never gave that psycho my real phone number.

Effete: adjective - lacking in wholesome vigor; degenerate; decadent: an effete, overrefined society.

Did you really mean to use "effete"?

Maybe he thinks the 7th time will be the charm?

While there are a few dirty bookstores on the peninsula, the Nob Hill Theater in San Francisco is the only gay strip club in the entire 9-county Bay Area. It's a relatively eady walk from the Powell Street BART station. The BART station closest to Burlingame is in Millbrae. Keep in mind BART starts to shut down at midnight. Burlingame used to be known as Boringame. Most of the peninsula is still a bedroom community for SF on the north and the tech industry on the south. You're best bet is SF.

That's what I look for in my sex partners. Men who can multitask rather than being able to fully engage themselves in a single activity.

And enter the entire name of the city. LA, SF, NYC, and airport codes (really? who started that nonsense?) are all unsearchable.

If I was having sex with someone and he left in the middle to answer his phone (especially if I was about to cum) I wouldn't be there when he finished his phone call.

At any time, have you seen this "great friend" outside of his massage studio? Do you two ever hang out together off the clock? It sounds like you need to concentrate on developing relationships with other guys that don't include a financial transaction. I'd stop seeing him.

As Mario Cantone said in Sex and the City: "Ugly sex is hot!"

It's not a public facility. Their wifi, their rules. Happens to me all the time at many, many businesses. Turn off wifi and use cellular, problem solved. I never get bent out of shape by it. When it comes down to it, rentmen is a site that facilitates illegal activity. You really can't fault Disney for blocking access to it and similar sites. And no, I'm not a prude; I do hire. I also sat on a jury once for a prostitution-related case after telling the judge during jury selection that I thought prostitution should be legal.