EastbayMike

How can one claim to not be racist while defining their "preferences" by race? Own it.

My first encounter with a man was at the local rest stop off the interstate when I was 17. It was my first time kissing a man. I still remember how much I was shaking and the incredible feeling of his whiskers on my face.

I know I'm late to the party but does anyone know who Bold and Bald is from the first post? Does he escort?

He looks like he'd be great fun! Just added him to my next-time-I'm-in-LA list.

"I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race." I truly feel for you and am really sorry you've been subject to slights because of who you are. I'm not sure if it helps but keep in mind most of us on this site probably hire because we want to connect with men who would otherwise ignore us due to many factors including and outside of race. That being said, I usually let an escort know my basic stats and what I'm into followed by "do you think we'd have a fun time?" Or something similar.

My, my, isn't he pretty Ads like his make me crazy. Nothing about training or technique, just "look how hot I am! give me some money and I'll give you a passable rub down and a hand job while you get to look at me." Hire a trained masseur or an escort; not someone who appears to be neither. (Sorry, woke up in a bad mood and I haven't had my coffee yet. )

Cher's "Believe"

Bono, Bruce Springsreen, Eddie Vedder, Dave Grohl, Sergei Rachmaninoff, Al Green, Sturgill Simpson, Juanes

I once contacted a masseur via phone for info about a massage. I mentioned I liked the photo of him in the cowboy hat and jokingly asked if he wore it during the session. He replied in all seriousness that that would be a kink session and his fee would increase $50. To put on a hat.... That told me all I needed to know and I never scheduled with him.

Look like your pics.

If I'm looking for a hand job and don't feel like paying escort prices I search rentmasseur. If I want a real massage from someone with training (and only the potential for a handjob) I search masseurfinder. Generalities of course.

I'm EXTREMELY penis-centric in what turns me on about men. So many of my sex stories with friends who question my choices end with "yeah, but he had a really nice dick!"

The first time I was is Paris I met a Parisian and ended up spending about 2 weeks with him sharing an intense romance. He was uncut and was surprised I was cut (claimed I was his first Amercan). He also told me his mom taught him how to pull back the foreskin when he bathed so as not to offend his girl friends. I'm sure his boy friends also appreciate the effort.

I recently had a conversation with my mom about circumcision and told her I wished I wasn't cut. She was surprised when I told her my husband is intact (he was born in Mexico) and even more surprised when I told her that besides the US and Moslem countries, circumcision is rare.

I love uncut dick. More to play with and the foreskin keeps the head silky smooth. It wasn't until my early 30s that I had an encounter with really stinky smegma. I met a cute Brazilian kid with a beautiful smile and a nice tight body one night at a bar in Frisco. We went to his place and started making out and ripping off each other's clothes. He got down to a pair of loose chonies when the entire room filled up with the most wretched smell. I didn't handle it well at all. I just made a lame excuse and left as soon as I could. I still remember how bad it was and the disappointed look on his face as I left.

I love uncut dick. More to play with and the foreskin keeps the head silky smooth. It wasn't until my early 30s that I had an encounter with really stinky smegma. I met a cute Brazilian kid with a beautiful smile and a nice tight body one night at a bar in Frisco. We went to his place and started making out and ripping off each other's clothes. He got down to a pair of loose chonies when the entire room filled up with the most wretched smell. I didn't handle it well at all. I just made a lame excuse and left as soon as I could. I still remember how bad it was and the disappointed look on his face as I left.

Based on his ad copy, just think how miserable it would be to meet him irl.

I hired him about 18 months ago. Really nice guy, nice trained massage on a table, many extras. Definitely would repeat.

As I acknowledged in my reply.

I think you meant the Watergarden in San Jose. While temporarily shut down due to covid, Steamworks has not to the best of my knowledge closed permanently. ["Steamworks," a bathhouse of long-standing in the Bay Area recently closed.]

Great news, not so great timing. I'd be surprised if we see any new venues opening for at least a year or more. Even then it would likely be more along the lines of 442 rather than a traditional bath house like the old 8th/Howard or Ritch Street.

One is not glued to the table for the whole session. But if I want full service I hire an escort. My goal with a massage is a professional session on a table by a trained provider; not on a bed by a pretty boy whose only apparent qualifications are a gym membership and the ability to buy baby oil. Doesn't mean sessions haven't progressed beyond a massage. That's just not among the criteria I use in choosing a masseur.

Table!

When it comes to autos I'm an extremely late adopter. I bought my car in 1976 when I was 15. Every car since then was a stick until 2 months ago when I finally brought my first automatic. It's a great car but damn I miss rowing my own gears! And no, paddle shifters don't count.

Talking Heads - Take Me to the River (See also: Al Green)