I don't disagree with you at all and the politicization of wearing masks disgusts me. Just pointing out that i don't think Delta did it for political reasons.
You'll likely get a Jergen's Special with pressure to upgrade to full service. If you decline, expect a hand job and don't be surprised if the session is less than the agreed to time.
How did you come to that conclusion?? Where in any of these posts did anyone say you should have sex with someone you're not attracted to? Nonsense indeed!
I posted this to the wrong thread. It should have gone to PaulTX in SF. I really was having a bad morning. Please disregard. I apologize for disparaging the masseur.
My first encounter with a man was at the local rest stop off the interstate when I was 17. It was my first time kissing a man. I still remember how much I was shaking and the incredible feeling of his whiskers on my face.
"I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race."
I truly feel for you and am really sorry you've been subject to slights because of who you are. I'm not sure if it helps but keep in mind most of us on this site probably hire because we want to connect with men who would otherwise ignore us due to many factors including and outside of race.
That being said, I usually let an escort know my basic stats and what I'm into followed by "do you think we'd have a fun time?" Or something similar.
My, my, isn't he pretty
Ads like his make me crazy. Nothing about training or technique, just "look how hot I am! give me some money and I'll give you a passable rub down and a hand job while you get to look at me."
Hire a trained masseur or an escort; not someone who appears to be neither.
(Sorry, woke up in a bad mood and I haven't had my coffee yet. )
I once contacted a masseur via phone for info about a massage. I mentioned I liked the photo of him in the cowboy hat and jokingly asked if he wore it during the session. He replied in all seriousness that that would be a kink session and his fee would increase $50. To put on a hat.... That told me all I needed to know and I never scheduled with him.
If I'm looking for a hand job and don't feel like paying escort prices I search rentmasseur. If I want a real massage from someone with training (and only the potential for a handjob) I search masseurfinder. Generalities of course.
I'm EXTREMELY penis-centric in what turns me on about men. So many of my sex stories with friends who question my choices end with "yeah, but he had a really nice dick!"