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On 2/26/2023 at 12:20 PM, purplekow said:

My orgasm is not necessarily the highlight of every encounter, but it ranks right up there.  Almost equally important to me is my partner's orgasm.  Not only for the pleasure it gives to him, but also for the pleasure I derive from it.  My partners orgasm is a delight for all the senses and appeals deeply for my desires to have a great sexual experience.  I enjoy giving pleasure and to a certain extent, controlling my partners pleasure.  Edging in particular appeals to this aspect of my sexual experience.  Bringing my partner right to the edge and then denying him the ultimate release, knowing that when I do allow it, he will be enjoying it even more than he can imagine.  

But my partner's orgasm itself pleases me greatly.  Watching his muscles tighten, especially with the younger muscular men I see most of the time, watching his biceps, pecs and especially thick quadriceps clenching tightly and making his hips thrust and breathing grow shallow. Watching as his calves contract and his feet move rhythmically and uncontrollably.  It is a vision for the eyes to behold.  Then hearing his breathing get more shallow and more rapid, gutteral grunts rising up from the tightened abdominal muscles and getting louder and louder as he gets closer and closer.  The smell of testosterone and sexual congress filling the air and the taste of the sweat as he thrashes, the redness of his body and facial features and the dramatic contortions  of the face, half agony and then all ecstasy and ultimately the sweet nectar of release spewing forth into the air like a molten lava from a human volcano accompanied, if one has the right partner, by a loud roar of masculine completion.  His hot thick moistness landing on his abdomen and perhaps in my mouth or on my hands.  

Now with my deep appreciation of the result of my sexual ministrations, it is no wonder, that I would want to have my partner and I  to experience it a second time.  And while I usually allow enough time for a second round, most of my partners, even the younger ones, are not very Christ like and  are hesitant to allow a second coming. HE will get hard.  He will attempt to get me off a second time, sometimes, even at my advanced age, with tremendous success.  But he is not likely to come a second time. 

I understand that the cum shot is the escorts trump card often want it saved for future use.  But I am wondering, who else yearns for the second coming?  Do any of you have success in getting this second feature or is the second episode snap, crackle but no pop?  I also realize that not every encounter ends with a partner's orgasm. When this happens with me, no matter how great my own release, I do feel that the session was incomplete.   I used to say we are all responsible for our own orgasm, and while that it is still true, I like being responsible for my parter's orgasm as well.  

 

So nice...  so true...  I boned up reading this, thanks!

Several years ago I went to a Thai Spa for a massage.  I was asked the duration I desired, 30, 60 or 90 minutes and if I wanted a female, male or ladyboy to massage me.  Chose the 60 minute with a male and was led to the room and told to get comfortable.  I undressed and got onto the table, which was a standard massage table with the padded hole for my face at the head of the table.  Soon my masseur came into the room and began the massage.  He oiled my back and I enjoyed his firm hands massaging my back, strong hands.  He worked my back and neck, then my arms and legs and feet.  After my feet he moved to the top of the table and began rubbing my back from my neck down and as his hands moved down he gently allowed his crotch to touch the top of my head.  After doing this for some time (and it was hard to tell if he was hard) he moved to the other end of the table and began rubbing my legs up and down.  He then climbed on the end of the table and began rubbing from my butt to my neck and as he did that he allowed he would rub his crotch against my ass cheeks.  One of my first experiences and my mind is going crazy wondering how far this will go.  He then moved to the side of the table and was rubbing my back and now he was moving his crotch against my hand.  I could feel something, so I moved the position of my hand and began rubbing his growing cock through his pants.  At that point he asked me to turn over.  No hiding the excitement between my legs when I laid face up.  He began rubbing my stomach and thighs and made the JO motion with his hand.  I nodded yes and he began stroking my hard cock.  I was rubbing his cock through his pants and motioned for him to remove his pants.  He did and there stood a beautiful hard cock that was there for my enjoyment.  Excited beyond about what was happening it was over way too soon.  And so began my addiction to erotic massages.

5 hours ago, Silver Spring said:

https://m.boyfriendtv.com/videos/899543/twink-receiving-special-services-from-two-massage-parlors-capy-581/

Great video, shitty blurring...

11 hours ago, newdad said:

Or do masseurs typically say no to this?

If into him, yes

On 2/12/2023 at 2:28 PM, kyleham said:

Has anyone taken the plunge on Ruben? An incredible body. Is he for real?

https://rentmasseur.com/RubenNJ

I'm not typically attracted to muscle guys but something about looking at the pictures of Ruben made my cock go atwitter...

16 hours ago, Whippoorwill said:

I sympathize with Misterhumphries. Training and licensing to become a masseur is difficult and expensive, and those with the skill and credentials deserve the credit and not be confused with sex workers. That being said, in America we are so uptight about anything sexual (damn those Puritans) that we forget...as my wonderful masseur (with a boatload of professional credentials) says, "Every massage I give is therapeutic, sensual, and erotic." He understands that whole body healing includes sexual healing, and that my anus and penis need it as much as my shoulders. He does get irate, and refuses to book, a session for "sex." He only does the full body massage, and "full" is full. 

I see both sides of this and am conflicted.  Totally understand Misterhumphries POV and the stigma.  For me the fantasy/reality of having a massage and it turning into something sexual is exciting.

2 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Oh boy. Where to start. These come to mind. 
 

My personal Grindr success rate is 4 out of 35 in my home area, and maybe 1 out of 6 in New York City.  However, there’s a small network of guys in my county that share boys that they’ve identified as receptive to generosity, so there have been about 12 guys identified on Grindr that I’ve paid for stuff.  
 

At a strip club, namely Adonis, I’ve only ever been turned down twice. One was when brothers propositioned me to participate in a highly regulated, over priced 3 some. But I kinda turned them down I guess. Another was when I asked Beau Montreal to go get a falafel barefoot while 3 guys came in his shoe. He said no, but another dancer said yes.

I have much better success rates in situations where I can develop trust over time rather than pounce in a moment of horny exploration than I do propositioning out of the blue. 
 

My ups guy is gorgeous. I planted the seeds in a joking manner. It took 4 years to get his dick pics (with face) but once I had them, I knew I’d get to suck it, and I did. He invited me to join him and his buddies at a bar when his gf dumped him. I went. He got drunk and asked me to drive him home. At his house, he goes “let’s go. I know you want it.  Don’t tell a fucking soul.”  That’s all that was said. This was after 5 years of dramatically increasing Christmas bonuses tucked in Christmas cards declaring my desires. 
 

I hooked up with my ex husbands straight co worker. He had just had a baby. I had just had a divorce. I congratulated him and said “baby’s are expensive, if you need anything I have some extra cash.”  He got it and took me up on my offer thrice in 19 months so far. 
 

I got a straight single dad to take 6 loads to his face and body at a strip club once because he couldn’t afford Christmas. 
 

Instagram models I’ve only tried 4 times and landed 2. There were stories that they were receptive so that success rate is a bit inflated. 
 

I gave a waiter 100% tip once and wrote if you wanna make REAL money, text me. I was the dude in the blue. He did. 
 

I left a note on the windshield of a guy at the gym’s car that was probably one of the hottest men I’d ever seen. I said I was a guy that long admired his body with my eyes and I’d love to pay for the privilege of using my hands. We texted for nearly 4 months before he caved. I just gave him a massage and touched his dick. 
 

Those are the ones that are fresh but there are more. 

You must be a good looking SOB!  Great tales.

6 hours ago, Silver Spring said:

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/875035/tr-mg015/

I love the video & hate the blurred privates...

Paid a visit to one of my go to ABS with glory holes yesterday.  Poor timing and there wasn't much of a crowd.  Picked a booth, entered my dollars in the slot and selected a movie to enjoy.  Massaging Jr for a bit when I notice a pair of shoes in the next booth.  The setup here is the walls between the booths are waist level; I see a hand come across the wall.  I moved over and the hand grabbed Jr and began a nice stroking motion.  Very nice, but I'd like to have something to play with too.  I place my hand under the wall...  nothing...  I gesture come closer...  nothing...   Oh well some days things don't work out like you'd thought they would.  Pulled up the jeans and headed out.  I'll be back another day.

Always wanted to check this out.  Someone told me Sunday 4-6pm in NYC and I was thinking I may go on 2/22/23; anyone else been/going?

On 1/17/2023 at 6:38 PM, glennnnn said:

I haven't enjoyed a GH yet. In fact I've not even seen one. Have you? I hope to rectify this hole in my cock sucker's resume soon as I can. I do have some etiquette concerns as I am an earnest and polite fellator.

Is it rude to stop sucking before your fellatee has cum?

Is okay to spit instead of swallowing? 

Is it rude to slip a condom on him before sucking the guy?

I'm only half joking. There's something about the anonymity plus the passion and desire that attract me.Is it okay to yell,"Next

 

hat do you think about glory holes

 

🙂

Many still exist at ABS in the NYC area.  One in particular I love to frequent is usually pretty busy.  Something about the anonymous nature of this turns me on and thrills me.

4 hours ago, jsn102 said:

Very new to the board, so apologies if this is in the wrong section - please do tell me where to move it, if that's the case.

NYC-based here. My wife's hit menopause and her sex drive has dropped to zero, but I've been given a hall-pass to explore my bi-side. Was wondering what people think about erotic massages as a way to dip my toe in the water. And, related to that, how does one go about discussing 'extras' with a masseur without causing offense? As you can imagine, I'm very new to this!

Any advice/recommendations would be much appreciated. Thanks!

Enjoy your adventure!  I sent you a PM about mine.

3 hours ago, EVdude said:

Straight Asian couple get partitioned side by sid massages… his is 4-handed.

https://www.yeswegays.com/videos/1115047/a-muscular-guy-who-goes-to-get-a-massage-with-his-girlfriend-and-gets-sex-service-tm-ss022/
 

Has all the makings of a great video, except for the blurred privates.  Enjoyed all the same...

6 hours ago, glennnnn said:

(Or how the mighty have fallen)

My cock used to be 7 1/2 + inches when really aroused at age 16, which was the first time I measured it. I was very chuffed and  a hit in the locker room. Today it's less than 6 inches and never gets real hard.  In 79 years I've carelessly lost (misplaced?) 20 percent of my dick. If this keeps up, When I'm 100 I'll be down to  4 3/4 inches and at 200,..…..!!!😭

It isn't the size that matters anyway.  Although 7 1/2" is surely very impressive!

On 12/20/2022 at 4:01 PM, Lewis0569 said:

Hi all,

 

This is the first forum I try so I don't know if I'm in the right place here, but here it goes: 

 

I've been learning to stimulate my prostate to find that epic orgasm people say it can give.

I started with fingers, slow but steady progress and worked my way up and bought the toy below.

However I can not find answers anywhere to some questions I have, maybe I can find them here.

I think my fingers are just too short in any position I try, I can seem to barely touch my prostate, if it even is that what i touch.

Are there any tips or tricks to be able to reach further? Laying sideways makes me reach further but then my finger is bent the wrong way.

 

About the toy above, is it supposed to go all the way in or just to the middle knuckle? It seems to just 'pop' out every time i try to push it in fully.

If i turn on the toy i dont feel anything getting stimulated outside of i just feel it vibrating between my legs, am I doing something wrong?

I tried turning and changing positions, pushing it in fully, nothing seems to really stimulate.

 

Once it is in, can i lay comfortably or do i need to hold my position to put it in? If no, can I walk around/play with my gf?

 

Thx in advance,

Lewis

I'm not a pro and will be monitoring the answers with interest...

7 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I ask at the beginning “are you happy for me to go anywhere? Head, feet and everything in between?”. The answer is usually “yes”. I’m aware some people specifically don’t like feet massage, or head massage so it’s good to check those. Occasionally clients say nothing internal but mostly they just say “it’s all fine”. So then I’ve the ok to go anywhere, including balls, hole, perineum etc.

You can read cues from how they react if you go somewhere they don’t like. It might be obvious as in touch their hole and their ass cheeks squeeze together implies they don’t want a finger inside! It might be you try something and the reaction is dynamite. I saw a client recently and during the foot massage I kissed his toe…he responded positively so I sucked it…and he went wild (in a nice way!). Great! Now I know what gets him going. 

I think if you pick a good masseur they’ll ask you the right questions and they’ll read your reactions to give you what you want. You shouldn’t need to give him a ‘shopping list’ because that removes any element of surprise. He should just know where you definitely don’t want to be touched because that’s important to respect. I’m guessing you just chose the wrong masseur, he doesn’t sound very professional. 
 

 

The perfect answer!  That's how I prefer the interaction, those little "signs" that you like where it's going, a moan, "I like that", "feels great".

Where do you operate?

12 hours ago, CheckCar said:

https://www.xvideos.com/video70436163/straight_ginger_wrestler_can_t_hide_an_erection_on_a_massage_table_worldstudz

Great video!  I wish the video was more like the title...  I like to watch where there is some reluctance and the lower brain takes over.

On 11/20/2019 at 5:31 PM, thewaiting44 said:

Has anyone had a good experience at Bodywork Station in HK?

Been there 3 times (over a year ago).  One time had an eastern European that struggled with English and was very good (went back twice and he was gone).  Second and third times had Asian with a great body but very mechanical with extras.

19 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

My regular massage buddy told me he is now doing porn. Encouraged me to follow him on Twitter. He was so proud of the fact that he got signed by a professional porn studio. I wanted to be happy for him and celebrate the achievement, but I am not really "enjoying" the experience of seeing him naked on Twitter with random guys in explicit images. I've never really been into porn. That may be at the root of my conflicted feelings over this. The scenes don't seem to be particularly tasteful and he appears to have a wild side I did not know about. Not sure if I am envious about the guys he play with, he also has far less availability at the moment, or perhaps yours truly is just surprised to find how different it is to go from seeing him in person, to seeing him have rather wild sex on screen. I may just mute the channel and go back to "out of sight, out of mind". 🤷‍♂️

 

Have you ever been envious of a partner in this manner...how did you handle.

 

Be happy for him if that is what he wants.

On 12/10/2022 at 12:08 AM, glennnnn said:

Do you ever use one? Do you put it on your shaft? Or behind your balls?

I have a 3 pack that I like.  1 for shaft, 1 for ball sack and 1 for cock and balls.  Also have a ball sack metal clamp that I like too.

https://xhamster.com/videos/the-masseuse-penetrated-my-ass-hole-with-his-big-cock-xhGnDNs

7 hours ago, EVdude said:

Pics belong to a Bangkok based underwear model with a smoking hot IG account.

A shame, very sexy.

4 hours ago, Anthony said:

This thread is so dead. There's absolutely nothing on Long Island and I've been searching for couple of years. It's been months and still no replies 

It's not a spa or masseur but I enjoy going to Showworld sometimes for some action.  Anyone else or am I just wierd?

16 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I'm not gay ..but I am also attracted to men.

I have always found the gay men's obsession with dick hard to understand.

When I look at from a straight man's perspective I don't know of anyone who wants to see a woman's pussy before he sleeps with her. Yet gay men always seem to ask to see my dick before they agree to hook up ( or not ).

I couldn't care less about your dick. I like the body curves ..nice butt and chest same for both men and women .

 

I guess it's each to his/her/their own...  I'm not an ass guy and just love cocks!  Bi not Gay.

Back again this week with Shawn, excellent service.