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It really has to do with the skill of the top. I generally prefer smaller, but recently I got fucked by the biggest cock I have ever taken, and it was bliss. We played awhile and got us both ready. He knew the right angle. He went in ever so gradually. And then, wham, bam, I screamed for more. On the other hand, I have had small cocks be very uncomfortable because he hadn't prepared me, the angle was wrong, and the entry was to fast. Try and pick them for their skill, not their size, but learn to enjoy all sizes and shapes. It's the greatest feeling on earth.

I have two boys I regularly see for services. Before and after appointments we always send "really looking forward to it" and "that was really great" texts. We always send each other holiday greetings, give occasional token gifts, discuss real-life issues. While the relationships are at the most basic level transactional, there is an additional level that makes our time together personal experiences.

I have been in Bangkok...it was like RentMen or RentMasseur except you are choosing the real thing in the flesh, just not a photo that may or may not be accurate or recent. And I picked the fuck of my dreams and spent a week together. I'd go in a flash if it were available here.

I also want to say it's the skill more than the size. I have had small diameter cocks really hurt because the angle was wrong and jam into the sides of rectal canal. Cadence is also important...a little at a time, relax, the ring opens, go in more. I recently took the biggest cock (length and diameter) I've ever taken in fifty years of getting fucked and it was fantastic...a skilled escort who knew exactly what he was doing, went slow, and had me begging for more.

Yes same problem. You have to ESTABLISH A RENTMASSEUR ACCOUNT and after it has been accepted, LOG IN to RentMasseur site AND ALSO then use the email function on the RentMasseur site. If you just email them through the RentMasseur site without going through your account, you get the "no record of communication" rejection. They have told me that there has to be a record of communication through their site BEFORE the massage occurs, and not just after to tell the masseur you have reviewed him. It is a huge hassle but I know good masseurs appreciate a good review and the next time you get a massage they will remember and treat you accordingly.

My assumption is that if you’re advertising your feet, you are appealing to foot fetishists, just as if half your photos have your bare ass winking at the camera, you are appealing to tops.

One of the reasons I like Asian boys is that there is a good chance they’re not massive. No guarantees of course…every group has individuals who defy the stereotypes.

I have been to masseurs who do massage on a bed, which is fine as long as they have a head cradle, that fastens between the mattress and the box spring. The width of a massage table is more conducive to fondling the masseur. The bed is more conducive to, well, what one does in bed.

Adam, I love your lips. Love, love, love. I see those beautiful luscious lips and I just know they are made for kissing and sucking my cock. I can almost cum just looking at them. Enjoy them. Lots of other guys will.

Dinoseur is my go-to boy. Certified, licensed talented masseur. And as he says, every massage is theraputic, sensual, and erotic. Treat him well.

First it was emails. Now it is texting. These are mediums made to be succinct and fast. And very often they end up rude. A successful customer-facing business understands this and tries to train its employees accordingly. Masseurs and escorts tend to be young, tend not to have been trained in business etiquette, tend not to have an adult in the room supervising their customer communications. Like much in the modern world, courtesy is a casualty of rapid change and the pace of work. Providers take note. Your long term business prospects will be affected by how you treat your clients...and vice-versa. We are after all, human beings, not machines.

Bought a dozen eggs lately? Looked at your gas & electric bill? My Mani-Pedi has gone from $21 to $45 pre-Covid to today. Since pre-Covid, my favorite boys have about doubled for new clients, a little less for regulars. We were spoiled. From 2012 to 2021 the rate of inflation hovered between o% and 2%+. The US inflation rate in January 2023 was 6.5%. Those of us who are old enough remember when the US inflation rate was 13.55% in 1980. Be glad you're not in Turkey, where the January 2023 rate of inflation was 84.4%. It is just economics. Like everything else, cock finds its market clearing price.

I figure, you die with a million dollars in the bank, you lose. You die owing a million dollars, you win. I am happily but prudently spending down my portfolio. The one thing in life I am sure of is that I’m not going to take it with me. While I spend more on travel and boys than I did when I was younger and working, there are many expenses that are less…new suits, freshly laundered shirts every day, downtown lunches daily, commuting costs, etc. And while the stock market was in the long bull market I had more money at the end of the year than the beginning. Those days are over, but a young plaything now and then is nickels and dimes.

Gee I would have said countertenors are increasingly popular. Sorry you must live in the wrong city Unicorn. Come to the San Francisco Opera...in the 23/24 season Carlo Vistoli will be singing in The Revolution of Steve Jobs. Last year Albert Montenez did an online program on countertenors, and we heard Jakub Orlinski in La Traviata and in Orfeo and Euridice. In recent years we have heard a lot of Arieh Nussbaum Cohen (Orlando, and many other programs with other companies). I can also remember Logan Tanner, and back a few years, Roth Costanzo in Partentope. Arieh, for one, I wouldn't mind inspecting his balls.

Having visited Rochester many times, the story is mixed. Rochester is noted for its openness and and Universities that have been at the forefront of gay acceptance. That being said, it ain't Castro Street. I have found the baths mixed, the bookstores even less so, and the parks sometimes pretty good. Check Grindr and Sniffies. Rentmasseur and Rentmen look uninspiring. There is or was a Rochester Jacks that was great, although I have not looked for it in years. Toronto is not so far away, and so much more cosmopolitan in every way. Let us know how you do.

I sympathize with Misterhumphries. Training and licensing to become a masseur is difficult and expensive, and those with the skill and credentials deserve the credit and not be confused with sex workers. That being said, in America we are so uptight about anything sexual (damn those Puritans) that we forget...as my wonderful masseur (with a boatload of professional credentials) says, "Every massage I give is therapeutic, sensual, and erotic." He understands that whole body healing includes sexual healing, and that my anus and penis need it as much as my shoulders. He does get irate, and refuses to book, a session for "sex." He only does the full body massage, and "full" is full.

When visiting Honolulu I have found the only sure thing is hiring a provider, and just hope the man of your dreams is visiting the same time you are. Otherwise I always find some satisfaction at Velvet Video, although the management pushes you to stay in a booth and keep the videos playing.

Dinoseur in my man. Never fails to please in every possible way. Check the RentMasseur reviews. He doesn't always check in on RentMasseur, and occasionally has let his ad lapse. But here is around and working.

Reading some of these hot stories reminds me, some years ago my then-current fuck buddy and I were in "Mr. S Leathers" in San Francisco shopping for a new harness with cockring for him. He got naked in the dressing room, curtain open, while the clerk and I "fitted" him and made sure the cockring was the right size when he was fully hard and ready to shoot. Funny thing, the other clerks and numerous customers hardly batted an eye. Gotta love San Francisco!

When I came out I just expected that everyone did everything. Why would I turn down anything? In bed, sometimes I would top, sometimes I would bottom, often we would flip. In T-rooms and bookstores it is mostly jerk off and oral. Occasionally at the baths or in the bedroom someone would say "no" to something...mostly bottoming. I was probably 35 before I heard of the concept of "tops" and "bottoms". While I had nights I really wanted to get fucked and nights I wanted to be the top, it was mostly fluid and depended on my need at the moment or the cock/asshole I was presented with. Over time I really embraced by bottomness. Although, every once in a while I still want to top. Over time I learned that some people don't fuck or get fucked, something that I suspect increased in the age of AIDS. Just recently my toppy husband told me about the term "sides"...something he learned on one of the sleaze sites he is on. To each his own.

I am sure you're going to get loads of answers for this question, from A to Z. Me? The best preparation is a regular good diet with lots of fibre, so the stool is solid. Period. The last four times I've been fucked have been when I didn't expect it at all, and had done no special preparation. And no complaints. A little history. When I was 20something, my first boyfriend demanded I become a better bottom and not be squeamish about pain, by stretching myself out. He was much more experienced than I, but in those days neither of us knew about dildos or enemas. He took me to the neighborhood greengrocer, we picked out two cucumbers, medium and large, and he spread newspapers out on the kitchen floor, gave me a bottle of cooking oil, and left for a couple of hours. When he came back, I was ready to be fucked silly. No enema, no shit. Over the years, both topping and bottoming, there has seldom been an issue. Sometimes a little brown on the cock, but hey, that's just part of being gay. Twice in my lifetime there have been disasters of massive diarrhea during the deed (once when I was topping, once when I was bottoming). Definitely ended the session and in both cases we were too embarrassed to see each other again. That kind of diarrhea I think is mostly caused by emotional not physical reasons, at least for me. (I used to have a boyfriend with whom I would have rows, and invariably I would end up on the toilet with massive diarrhea.) It is only in the last decade or so that I see a lot of talk about enemas and I have become apprehensive and started doing an enema when I have a date where I expect to get fucked. I have a "Du" brand enema bulb. It uniquely has a long tip inside the bulb that draws water from the bottom of the bulb, rather than also filling you with air from the top of the bulb (leading to ongoing farts). So today, I of course always watch my diet. Shit first. Get in the tub, fill the Du with warm water, go into the doggy style bottom position, squirt in as much water as I can, wait a few minutes. Evacuate into the tub drain. Repeat all. Stick your fingers in and be sure they and the water comes out clean. Good to go. All this being said, a good diet is the best way to have a solid stool and a clean fuck. I suspect what happened to you with the Fleets enema disaster was that you squirted water in beyond the rectum and into the sigmoid colon. That then liquifies the contents of the colon, which then flow into the rectum, and disaster. Been there, done that, but fortunately when I was alone.

Hey, I am old, saggy, and not physically attractive to any young muscleboy, which is my type. But I do pretty well. It's trying to be a nice person, treating them with courtesy, dignity, and respect; showing interest in them and their pleasure, learning what gets and keeps them hard. Young men can bring beauty, energy, new ideas techniques, and sexual prowess. An old coot like me has none of these anymore, but I can bring maturity, experience, patience, judgement, and financial resources. We need them and they need us. Don't sell yourself short.

In both cases I mentioned, I had booked a massage through RentMasseur with a masseur who advertised "Therapeutic, Sensual, Erotic" with no discussion of what it actually entailed or extras. In one the case, the masseur started to ask for a tip as I was counting out his money, and said "Oh OK" when he saw I added a 20% tip, and he was happy. So yes he expected a tip. I was a little irritated only because he wasn't that considerate a top. With the Hawaii boy, I think it just evolved out of what we were both into, fucking was the natural next step, and neither of us expected there would be a tip. We were both happy enough with the sex.

I rarely tip, almost always write a good review, and cum back again and again. This allows a more tailored experience to develop. I only go to sole practitioners who are free to set their rates and keep 100% of it. And the service just keeps getting better and better, until it doesn't. When I used to go to a spa where the masseurs were employees, I tipped the recommended amount.

I ordinarily select certified masseurs on RentMasseur who have provocative photos and advertise Therapeutic, Sensual and Erotic massages, and have a posted rate from around $160 to $200. That has 90% of the time resulted in a good to great massage and lots of mutual play, a hand job, and orgasm. Many will let me suck them. Mutual sucking has only come with repeated visits, and sometimes not at all. I have one boy who cums but only for the last customer of the day. I have sometimes been fucked by the masseur. One was a masseur who advertises on both RentMasseur and Rent.Men. I paid the RentMasseur rate. Another who advertised only on RentMasseur asked for a tip as I was paying...I was going to tip anyway for the fucking. He subsequently advertises both on RentMasseur and Rent.Men. BTW, if the RentMasseur ad quotes the rate is "Ask" I figure that is for a la carte escort services.