OrdinaryJoe

You all are too nice. People with the OP's mindset should be ostracize from human kind. @Guy Fawkes should create a new forum for shameful threads and move this one over there.

Wow, dude. Harsh. I view the management of Corona/Covid as a shared responsibility. We're all in this together. I absolutely look to other people to their part, just as I hold myself to a high standard to do mine. I wear a facemask when I go out, not for what it does for me which is very little, but because it potentially (if I had Covid and didn't know it) helps others. My own personal view is that anyone who actively works against the spread of Corona, whether they have a dick I want to suck or not, doesn't get my time and certainly doesn't get my dollars. You want to call that stigmatization, go ahead. But the irony of saying that I should be "ostracized from humankind" is, in my opinion, a really horrible comment.

Yet that doesn't justifying and attempt to publicly shame these escorts. Even if what they are doing is wrong and we could speculate the worst motives (greed, irresponsibility, etc) we don't really know if they had to do it for a very critical reason and they didn't have another option. I'm not defending them, I'm trying to be human and impartial. If they did wrong, people have already judged them. Anyone can keep a personal record of who they not hire but don't make a public bonfire to burn them.

Who have I publicly shamed? And please share how one gets publicly shamed without being named?

Curious if any folks have changed their view of any escorts because of their actions during this crisis? I have a couple of guys locally that I had planned to get with. Neither of them stopped seeing clients. When I inquired, I was told they have "stopped kissing." I have lost total respect for them and could never hire them in the future, not out of Covid fear, but because of a lack of respect. Curious if anyone is in the same boat?

He is a former relatively high visibility leader in the gay community who was always incredibly sexy, handsome, very well built, smart and well spoken. He seems to have turned into a bit of a serious muscle head. I can't say I'm super attracted to his new look, but based on how off the charts hot he was, I would be there if I could.

That protection isn't going to keep you safe in a sexual situation unless they just walked out of the remote jungle where they've been for 6 months and you're the first human they've had contact with.

I had a brief exchange with an escort today where he informed me he "isn't kissing right now, and isn't seeing anyone who has traveled." /facepalm

You have to keep yourself safe because others won't.

I've had good conversations with both ScruffMuscle and TysonRyder. Ryder is a personal trainer by day, I believe so you'll definitely get the muscle you want.

Curious about thoughts on how long is appropriate to wait after sending an escort a text and receiving no response, before trying again without stepping into pest/needy territory?

Hallo,

I am in conversations with an escort about getting together next week when I am visiting his city. I enquired about his rates and he responded "$xxx per hour for an outcall to a hotel, plus travel"

I'm not clear on what the plus travel means, and I don't want to seem like a complete idiot by asking him. Does "travel" mean his hourly rate for travelling to my hotel? Is it travel costs (like taxi or uber fees)? And, is it normal to charge "travel" for an outcall in the same city that the escort lives in?

Thanks,

OJ

Of course there are alternatives to latex condoms. Kind of raises the question of how honest and trustworthy he is, since a latex allergy isn't a reason to not use a condom. A handsome guy with a kickin bod and a huge dick. And a deceitful jerk.

I don't get a pop up, more of a re-direct. I right click to open ads I want to look at in a new window. It seems that after opening about 2 ads, it starts to re-direct to the ad site. Happens sometimes and sometimes it doesn't.

He became a manager at a popular retail chain.

Are you asking if they are on Recon advertising as escorts? I have seen many an escort on Recon, but most as a personal profile, not a business/escorting one. Can't say that I've seen anyone advertising as escorts.

I'm shocked that some folks put the responsibility on you. It's pretty clear to me that there was no keeping him to an hour. He was there for a big payday and he was going to get it through any means, up to and including threats. If an escort wants to trick you and be deceptive to get more time out of you, then the breach of the contract was his. As far as going to the ATM, my lord....no telling what would have happened had you done that. You should count your personal safety on the fact that you didn't.

I, personally think that drugs are bad news and the folks that do them are bad news. If you're after learnings from this experience, I would consider reviewing your own standards as far as escorts who use drugs, and/or what your response will be in the future if drugs come up again. But that's me projecting my own concerns. Everyone reacts differently to PnP.

Howdy,

Hope all is well. Wondering if anyone has experiences with ArielBoyWonder in San Fran? Feel free to PM me.

https://rentmen.eu/ArielBoyWonder

Thanks kindly

Tattoos aren't done for you. They are done for the person with the tattoo. Some have incredibly deep meaning to the recipient, and others are just for appearance purposes. I, personally, see lots of tattoos that I like and lot's that I don't like. But I also recognize and respect that my opinion on someones tattoos, just like my opinion on their hairstyle, shoes, or choice of boyfriend, wasn't solicited nor likely welcome.

A few years ago, I was in San Francisco on a pleasure trip and saw him on a hook up website (an actual website - not an app). I reached out to him and said something that included some self-deprecating humour. That's part of my thing, and I'm Canadian so it's in my DNA. He responded so harshly but in such an egocentric way that it shocked me. Something along the lines of - what a complete turnoff it was that I have so little self-confidence and he has no interest in me whatsoever because of that. Like, 1) it was just some humour, dude. Chill out. Trust me, my self-confidence is healthy, thanks, and 2) way to make it all about you. That it was a turn off for him and he had no interest and clearly me and my perceived lack of self-confidence have really put a boner killer in his day. I thought he was a class A jerk.

I'm pleased that others have had really positive experiences with him. But I think it's clear on many fronts that he does not suffer from any lack of ego. I suppose to be a porn star at all, ego is in healthy quantity.

My own personal feeling with FF escorts is that you want someone legitimately into it, not only when $300 passes hands. Brad Hunt is a good choice (https://rentmen.eu/BradHunt ) or Nate Grimes travels to Chicago occasionally (https://rentmen.eu/NateGrimes )

Good luck!

I would look at Washington DC. Late March is about right for the Cherry Blossoms, which are very worth seeing. I believe the cherry trees blossom anywhere from mid-March to mid-April. On March 1, the National Parks Service will issue their blossom forecast. The festival is fun and very busy! DC, of course, offers a lot, including some very hot escorts.

Is "dom" a code word for 420?

https://ma.seancody.com/movie/375/ajay

 

Don't want to be a jerk and not sure how to make it a hyperlink but the first scene was a solo June 1 2006. then he comes back in December of 2013, they even mention that it has been 7 years. He was hot in 06, 13 and probably now. So this post is kind of silly but I wanted to make sure I didn't make a mistake in the 06 number.

Not being a jerk, and the link adds clarity. The original post is about Graham from Sean Cody and that's who I thought your comment was about. Ajay came up in the thread, and obviously were referring to him.

Amazing, he was 25 when he started at SC in 2006. Eleven years have passed and he is only 30. I need to go into his line of work.

Not that it matters, but from what I can see, his first SC scene was released in 2014. Not sure where you get 2006 from.

Just to follow up, I ended up seeing Nate and had a great time. Would definitely repeat. Thanks for all the recommendations.

Thanks for following up. So he's as good as topping as he is a bottoming?

He scares the fuck out of me. And turns me on something fierce.

My own personal feelings are that with FF, experience counts...a LOT! I recommend Nate Grimes. He's a very talented FF bottom but lists himself as versatile. And he's frickin cute!

https://rentmen.com/NateGrimes

In my opinion, no one has hotter nips than Joseph Rough.

https://rentmen.com/JosephRough