UncutDad

There are only two traveling massage men that I will go out of my way for to get on their table because of the quality and strength of their bodywork.  Rob is definitely one of them.

you should absolutely wonder about some of the guys that comment on here.  They're toads that are not happy with their own lives and they live to find a new target to tear down..  Truly fucking sad.

I hired HBI earlier this year.  He came to my hotel and provided everything we agreed to and I paid him.  The only issue I had was that he was very slow to leave and I had a commitment that I had to get to.  He was taking forever to get dressed and kept looking at his phone. I literally told him, "dude we gotta go NOW".  I might hire him again to see how it would be for a second time.

There are only two traveling massage men that I will go out of my way for to get on their table because of the quality and strength of their bodywork.  Rob is definitely one of them.

There are only two traveling massage men that I will go out of my way for to get on their table because of the quality and strength of their bodywork.  Rob is definitely one of them.

If you ever met me you'd see that I am definitely not hairy.  Hud and I have chatted and definitely have a mutual bond about being uncut and what that means.   You can accuse me of whatever you want. I don't know you, it doesn't bother me.   But you never answered the question.  
1.) Did you meet Hud and get a massage from him?
2.) Or did you immediately block him as you wrote on here?  
Try not to deflect.  It's #1 or #2.
 
 

Superben - I'm definitely calling you out on here.
I had a massage with Hud last night in DC.  After the session I asked about what happened with you.  He was perplexed that I knew about the situation with you, as he was not aware of this site.  But I showed him your comments on here and we chatted for 30 minutes after the session.
I had to do some pleading with Hud to show me the exchange with you on his phone.  But I've been a client of his for too long and I wanted to verify his side of the story.  This is the convo that I snapped from his phone.
1.) You stated on this site (Company of Men) that the initial response to you from Hud was arrogant because he texted back to you a one word answer of "possibly".  The truthful text that I have from his phone was him texting "Hello. Possibly. What time would you want?"  I possess a photo of this from his phone. 
2.) You texted "would 7pm work for you?"  He texted "yes" and then you asked for his address and he replied "please reconfirm at 6pm and I'll get you the address" and you replied "ok".   This was at a little after 2pm.  And that was the last the text between you two.  You did not reconfirm. You ghosted him and you left a totally fake and viscous review on RentMasseur for an appt. you never showed up for.
So tell COM readers which story is it Superben. You actually saw Hud, (as you posted in your nasty review on RentMassuer), or you immediately blocked him because you were "fuming"??   One of these things is not like the other.  No need to answer me though,  I have a copy of the receipts.
The thing you don't realize is that I rely on the excellent massage that both Hud and RobCMT provide when I get to be on their table.  I'm not looking for the rub and tug you wanted. That's easy to find. Superior body work is not easy to find.  And guys like you "F" it up for me and others when you lie and mistreat legit massage therapists, because it makes them want to leave the profession.  
You "Superben" are not to be trusted.  You are not an honest broker on this website. Anyone that takes your word on here should be aware of your pettiness and your slandering of a very solid and and super skilled massage therapist over your perceived slight in a text conversation.  Not an actual massage - a text exchange.  Seriously dude....grow up.
 
 

Superben - I'm definitely calling you out on here.
I had a massage with Hud last night in DC.  After the session I asked about what happened with you.  He was perplexed that I knew about the situation with you, as he was not aware of this site.  But I showed him your comments on here and we chatted for 30 minutes after the session.
I had to do some pleading with Hud to show me the exchange with you on his phone.  But I've been a client of his for too long and I wanted to verify his side of the story.  This is the convo that I snapped from his phone.
1.) You stated on this site (Company of Men) that the initial response to you from Hud was arrogant because he texted back to you a one word answer of "possibly".  The truthful text that I have from his phone was him texting "Hello. Possibly. What time would you want?"  I possess a photo of this from his phone. 
2.) You texted "would 7pm work for you?"  He texted "yes" and then you asked for his address and he replied "please reconfirm at 6pm and I'll get you the address" and you replied "ok".   This was at a little after 2pm.  And that was the last the text between you two.  You did not reconfirm. You ghosted him and you left a totally fake and viscous review on RentMasseur for an appt. you never showed up for.
So tell COM readers which story is it Superben. You actually saw Hud, (as you posted in your nasty review on RentMassuer), or you immediately blocked him because you were "fuming"??   One of these things is not like the other.  No need to answer me though,  I have a copy of the receipts.
The thing you don't realize is that I rely on the excellent massage that both Hud and RobCMT provide when I get to be on their table.  I'm not looking for the rub and tug you wanted. That's easy to find. Superior body work is not easy to find.  And guys like you "F" it up for me and others when you lie and mistreat legit massage therapists, because it makes them want to leave the profession.  
You "Superben" are not to be trusted.  You are not an honest broker on this website. Anyone that takes your word on here should be aware of your pettiness and your slandering of a very solid and and super skilled massage therapist over your perceived slight in a text conversation.  Not an actual massage - a text exchange.  Seriously dude....grow up.
 
 

Superben - I'm definitely calling you out on here.
I had a massage with Hud last night in DC.  After the session I asked about what happened with you.  He was perplexed that I knew about the situation with you, as he was not aware of this site.  But I showed him your comments on here and we chatted for 30 minutes after the session.
I had to do some pleading with Hud to show me the exchange with you on his phone.  But I've been a client of his for too long and I wanted to verify his side of the story.  This is the convo that I snapped from his phone.
1.) You stated on this site (Company of Men) that the initial response to you from Hud was arrogant because he texted back to you a one word answer of "possibly".  The truthful text that I have from his phone was him texting "Hello. Possibly. What time would you want?"  I possess a photo of this from his phone. 
2.) You texted "would 7pm work for you?"  He texted "yes" and then you asked for his address and he replied "please reconfirm at 6pm and I'll get you the address" and you replied "ok".   This was at a little after 2pm.  And that was the last the text between you two.  You did not reconfirm. You ghosted him and you left a totally fake and viscous review on RentMasseur for an appt. you never showed up for.
So tell COM readers which story is it Superben. You actually saw Hud, (as you posted in your nasty review on RentMassuer), or you immediately blocked him because you were "fuming"??   One of these things is not like the other.  No need to answer me though,  I have a copy of the receipts.
The thing you don't realize is that I rely on the excellent massage that both Hud and RobCMT provide when I get to be on their table.  I'm not looking for the rub and tug you wanted. That's easy to find. Superior body work is not easy to find.  And guys like you "F" it up for me and others when you lie and mistreat legit massage therapists, because it makes them want to leave the profession.  
You "Superben" are not to be trusted.  You are not an honest broker on this website. Anyone that takes your word on here should be aware of your pettiness and your slandering of a very solid and and super skilled massage therapist over your perceived slight in a text conversation.  Not an actual massage - a text exchange.  Seriously dude....grow up.
 
 

you should absolutely wonder about some of the guys that comment on here.  They're toads that are not happy with their own lives and they live to find a new target to tear down..  Truly fucking sad.

you should absolutely wonder about some of the guys that comment on here.  They're toads that are not happy with their own lives and they live to find a new target to tear down..  Truly fucking sad.

you should absolutely wonder about some of the guys that comment on here.  They're toads that are not happy with their own lives and they live to find a new target to tear down..  Truly fucking sad.

Superben - I'm definitely calling you out on here.
I had a massage with Hud last night in DC.  After the session I asked about what happened with you.  He was perplexed that I knew about the situation with you, as he was not aware of this site.  But I showed him your comments on here and we chatted for 30 minutes after the session.
I had to do some pleading with Hud to show me the exchange with you on his phone.  But I've been a client of his for too long and I wanted to verify his side of the story.  This is the convo that I snapped from his phone.
1.) You stated on this site (Company of Men) that the initial response to you from Hud was arrogant because he texted back to you a one word answer of "possibly".  The truthful text that I have from his phone was him texting "Hello. Possibly. What time would you want?"  I possess a photo of this from his phone. 
2.) You texted "would 7pm work for you?"  He texted "yes" and then you asked for his address and he replied "please reconfirm at 6pm and I'll get you the address" and you replied "ok".   This was at a little after 2pm.  And that was the last the text between you two.  You did not reconfirm. You ghosted him and you left a totally fake and viscous review on RentMasseur for an appt. you never showed up for.
So tell COM readers which story is it Superben. You actually saw Hud, (as you posted in your nasty review on RentMassuer), or you immediately blocked him because you were "fuming"??   One of these things is not like the other.  No need to answer me though,  I have a copy of the receipts.
The thing you don't realize is that I rely on the excellent massage that both Hud and RobCMT provide when I get to be on their table.  I'm not looking for the rub and tug you wanted. That's easy to find. Superior body work is not easy to find.  And guys like you "F" it up for me and others when you lie and mistreat legit massage therapists, because it makes them want to leave the profession.  
You "Superben" are not to be trusted.  You are not an honest broker on this website. Anyone that takes your word on here should be aware of your pettiness and your slandering of a very solid and and super skilled massage therapist over your perceived slight in a text conversation.  Not an actual massage - a text exchange.  Seriously dude....grow up.
 
 

Hud is in my hometown this week and I tried to book an appointment, but he was very rude in his text messages. Yesterday at around 4:00 pm, I messaged him saying that I found his ad on rentmasseur, was interested in booking a massage session with him and asked if he was available in the evening. His reply was literally: "Possibly." So I said that I was free any time after 7:00 pm and asked what time would be good for him. His reply was even more arrogant than the previous one, he replied with: "Reach out when you figure out what works for you." So I asked if 7:30 was ok for him. And he said: "Reach out to reconfirm at 6 pm." At that point, I was literally fuming and blocked him. 
He might be a great masseur, but he comes across as extremely arrogant in his communications, which is very unusual for a 60-year-old provider. You'd think that someone of that age would know better. 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36958/
I don't see much representation on here for older guys so i thought I'd toss Hud into the mix.  Easy to book and just an excellent massage therapist.  He only travels to other cities for his massage work, but when he's done with you, you definitely know you've had a massage from a true master.  He's relieved so many body issues I've had that other massage therapists in my city just cannot figure out.  I've literally hired him twice in a 3 day period when he visits. 
This comment has been moved from another thread to an existing one on Hud. As his ad shows he is travelling (and based in Bismarck) we've deleted the location from the title.

Hud is definitely one of the best massage therapists out there.  Very few massage men at his level.  I feel relief for days after being on his table.  

There are only two traveling massage men that I will go out of my way for to get on their table because of the quality and strength of their bodywork.  Rob is definitely one of them.

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh.
1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor?  Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are.
2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance.  And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older.  
3.) To answer the original poster's questions.  There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC.  And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men.  If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them.  Seriously, please forward their names to me.  Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot.
4.)To the original poster.  Ignore the haters.  I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe".  I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's
5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed?  I'm so old. Lol
 

Any extras with Yobany?
 

Any extras with Yobany?
 

I can relate to this problem.  2 months ago, I hired someone that claimed to do deep bodywork and then the classic thing happened of a mediocre massage and then wanting to tug and get paid.  I likely didn't vet enough and was going on reviews.  But it's tough.  I only see three guys now and two of them are only travel masseurs.  It sucks that you have to hire the frogs to get to the prince.  I will say that if someone is just flat out bad enough, I will tell them the session is not working for me and pay them for their pro rated time and leave.  Not the most comfortable situation, but someone has to let them know they shouldn't be advertising as massage therapists.  They should be on the escort sites, but I don't think they want to because they charge more to advertise.
Massage is a bit of a relative experience.  Some guys think a hot guy that does mediocre massage is the best massage ever and will leave a 5 star review.  It's a drag. So please promote the guys that are good because of their skill not because they are hot.  Looks are obvious, but true skill is harder to find.  And when i need deep massage, my body really needs it.

Trent Cougar?  There should be a list (just for the names alone) that some of these dudes come up with. 

I have had several masseurs kiss me.  I've never initiated that type of thing, but when it happens I definitely let it happen.  I did have a long conversation with a MT after a session and I asked him about the requests he gets.  He told me he is often asked for kissing, oral (giving) and anal, but that 98% of the time he lets clients know he doesn't go that far.  He told me that he gets a lot of people asking for those activities without him ever seeing what they look like.  He charges $120.  Personally, I don't know what would be going through someone's head to ask for that type of activity from a massage therapist and never send a pic.  Especially for that low of a rate.  
My guess would be that if he's kissing you, he finds you attractive.  But going beyond that, it could be dicey.  I would try to lose "the feels" and look at it as you getting something that others likely do not.  Massage therapists have to navigate a lot of things with clients that most of us cannot imagine for our jobs.  Any therapist that provides extras that are not overtly advertised should be reasonably tipped as well.   

I have had several masseurs kiss me.  I've never initiated that type of thing, but when it happens I definitely let it happen.  I did have a long conversation with a MT after a session and I asked him about the requests he gets.  He told me he is often asked for kissing, oral (giving) and anal, but that 98% of the time he lets clients know he doesn't go that far.  He told me that he gets a lot of people asking for those activities without him ever seeing what they look like.  He charges $120.  Personally, I don't know what would be going through someone's head to ask for that type of activity from a massage therapist and never send a pic.  Especially for that low of a rate.  
My guess would be that if he's kissing you, he finds you attractive.  But going beyond that, it could be dicey.  I would try to lose "the feels" and look at it as you getting something that others likely do not.  Massage therapists have to navigate a lot of things with clients that most of us cannot imagine for our jobs.  Any therapist that provides extras that are not overtly advertised should be reasonably tipped as well.   

I wonder what Lindsey Graham (aka Lady G) thinks about this.