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I've never had one ask for payment either before or after. I put the cash in an envelope that says 'thank you' on the outside and hand it to him after we finish. A couple of quick kisses I'm out of there. I thought everybody was the same and  paid after. It's never caused a problem that I know of. Needless to say, there's no tip money in their envelope to begin with. I add whatever I think is appropriate after, when I give him the envelope.

I've never had one ask for payment either before or after. I put the cash in an envelope that says 'thank you' on the outside and hand it to him after we finish. A couple of quick kisses I'm out of there. I thought everybody was the same and  paid after. It's never caused a problem that I know of. Needless to say, there's no tip money in their envelope to begin with. I add whatever I think is appropriate after, when I give him the envelope.

I think you are correct.

I believe this is Mickey Hargitay who was married to Jayne Mansfield. 

Are you taking applications for the third position? Where do I sign up? Not that I'm a hottie but I can suck the chrome off of a trailer hitch!

This has been a very informative series of posts.  What I continue to take from the ongoing conversation is that every individual needs to take responsibility for their own health in EVERY situation.  Do not trust that someone is healthy just because they feel like they are healthy - I know two people who felt completely fine and were dead within four weeks from a cancer they didn't realize they had until it was much too late.  There are ways to reduce the risk of contracting an STD/STI but there is no way to eliminate it completely, short of total abstinence.  Everyone has their own level of risk tolerance and comfort, but your partner is not responsible for ensuring or protecting your sexual health.  Only you can do that.

As someone who runs a SaaS (Software/Subscription as a Service) company, I have two pretty huge pieces of advice here for every reader of this thread, both providers and clients alike. They’re a little complicated but this is me 💯% swearing the return on investment is here and anyone who buys stuff online should be doing this already. If not, take time out of your schedule and reorganize over the next few weeks:
First: Always, always, always pay for an entire year up front for sites and software you have already determined you like and already see good value in the service. 
Sure, trial them for a month or two but pay for it yearly after you see the value the site brings.  Almost every single one typically offers at least a two month discount (e.g, $99/year vs. $9.99/month) which comes out to a 17% to 20% discount at minimum (sometimes more!) and let’s be honest… prices never ever decrease. They only increase so you’re locked in for the remainder at an even better discount when that happens. This applies to everything from Netflix to Hulu to Amazon Prime to every site that has monthly subscriptions. You always come out ahead, and the company backing the site itself loves the extra revenue their finance folks can recognize on their balance sheet. Total win-win all around.  
Second: Almost every major bank and credit card company allows this now, so leverage online banking tools from  your bank or payment method’s site to create separate “virtual cards” unique to every merchant or website. Don’t pay with bank debits ever. Don’t use your main VISA/MC/AMEX card number that’s physically in your pocket either. At your financial institution site, in 2023, you can typically issue a new private card number and set a spend limit for each individual site you want to subscribe. 
For example, you can say a company is only allowed to charge $10/month to this virtual card. Sure, it requires a little bit more effort during the initial sign-up but once you’re in the habit, the benefits far, far outweigh the small inconvenience at the time and will make your finances exponentially easier to manage long after the fact. Anytime a site changes terms like Rent.men without notification, their charge is declined. Rent.men goes from $9.95 to $19.95 per change? Automatically declined.  I personally probably have 60-90 virtual cards in regular use for everything at any given time. Pro tip: Label them well and using consistent naming conventions  
Benefit #1: Doing this protects you when your physical card is compromised or lost, something we all know happens regularly these days and can be a royal pain in the ass.  With this model in place, you don’t need to re-enter your card everywhere when it happens. Not only software sites and streaming services, but little league fees for your kids, accounts at bookstores or libraries in town, saved payment methods at PayPal or Airline websites or Amazon or GNC.com or 5,000 other eCommerce sites. Trust me here, generating separate virtual cards for all your online activities —IS— a proven lifesaver not only with time but as a budget control stop gap measure. 
Benefit #2: It prevents sites from charging more without notice. It reverses the roles and puts you in control of the money and debits and you can easily shut off a virtual card where the site doesn’t make it easy to cancel.
“Hold the fuck up! You want me to wait on the phone to call to cancel and listen to someone for ten minutes trying to convince me otherwise??” — in this separate card for each site model, you login to your bank and toggle that specific card tied to that site to the off position and never speak to them again. They automatically close your account after 30 days of declined payments. Win-win all around. 

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That’s all for now typing from my phone at 3:15 AM. I have a half dozen other tips in these scenarios as this type of model is at the core at what my corporation does, but the ones above are mutually beneficial all around.
 
Well, except shutting off virtual cards for individual sites that don’t offer an easy method to cancel recurring charges (think gyms and health/fitness clubs). But that’s on the company for making it harder to cancel. SaaS platforms should be able to flick on and off each month just a light ditch. That’s simply good business in 2023 where you do t have a 12 month or longer contract. 
 
This stuff is kind of my wheelhouse, so if anybody has any questions on the intricacies of how any of this works, feel free to post. My only goal is to educate and help everyone here not only with Rent.men, but the other 20-30 sites we all pay monthly for these days. It also helps you set overall budgets (and stick with them!) on sites like OnlyFans so they don’t get out of hand. 👀😳🤣😎 
I hope this post was helpful to many others in the forum  Upvotes or reactions are very much appreciated to show thanks and let me know if contributing like this is something I should do more.
 
Anyway hope ya’ll got laid this past weekend. multiple times. 😳🍆 
 

That's a gifted neighbor's son - alluring eyes, BJ lips and a luscious cock with that innocent look on his face.  🤩

John Lennon’s “Beautiful Boy” certainly comes to mind😋😁😋😁

It is easy to ignore the drama, and not contribute to it. 
i just stick to reading posts on both sites that are informative and factual about the only subject that matters to me:  “Fantastic Escorts and where to find them”.

SMMSLT
So many men, so little time.

I agree.
Everyone is allowed an opinion. Some people just don't know how to disagree without it turning ugly.
No point in "discussing" any topic if you are subject to GROUP-THINK and expect everyone to agree.
 

This forum has opened my eyes to what clients have to deal with. I feel for you guys. Loss aversion is much more powerful psychologically than many positive and fulfilling sessions.
Some may be scammers, many others are legit. I’m sorry many of you have had bad experiences, but it’s unfair to use language like always, never, or yes/no binaries. You have every right to be cautious and you don’t have to pay deposits if you’re uncomfortable doing so. By all means, move on to providers who do not require a deposit, but I would not expect every provider to risk their scarce resources for every client, every time. 
There will always be a need for popular and busy providers to allocate scarce resources. It’s economics. When demand is high, willingness to take on unvetted and flaky clients is low. When the reverse is true, willingness is high. Deposits, among other strategies, are a means for providers to allocate their scarce resources more efficiently. Better to lose a couple would-be good clients than take on many more would-be bad ones.
On both sides of the discussion, each party is experiencing majority negative of the other. i.e. 9/10 clients are flakes, or 9/10 providers are scammers. All the more reason to rely on recommendations from others you trust.
I’m so glad company of men exists. It helps establish who’s good, who’s reliable, real, and worth your time and money. We focus on the negative so much, on what we have to lose by taking on a client or hiring a provider. If you’re concerned about hiring someone new, seek out providers with a good reputation, either through forums here, or elsewhere online or IRL. Find the good ones and hire them. When you have a positive experience, keep hiring them. It’s win-win. Some of my best clients are regulars. With mutual trust and respect, both parties are very happy.
Variety is nice, I get it. Sometimes reliability and trust is a much more fulfilling route. Treat one another well. 
 

Whether it's the angle of the dangle or the motion of the ocean....😌 everyone seems to agree that time and plenty of lube are  really essential. Just remember, anything over an asshole full or a mouthful is probably wasted anyway. Good luck finding the perfect Goldilocks cock that fits you well. I have a similar problem finding the right size cock; both my throat and my  sphincter are on the small side. but with patience, a gentle top, and plenty of lub, I can usually fit it in.  😫😛😜  I would really appreciate an update from time to time on how you're doing. You can PM me if you wish.
 

I also want to say it's the skill more than the size. I have had small diameter cocks really hurt because the angle was wrong and jam into the sides of rectal canal. Cadence is also important...a little at a time, relax, the ring opens, go in more. I recently took the biggest cock (length and diameter) I've ever taken in fifty years of getting fucked and it was fantastic...a skilled escort who knew exactly what he was doing, went slow, and had me begging for more.

, but why am I suddenly craving a nice cup of tea?

, but why am I suddenly craving a nice cup of tea?

, but why am I suddenly craving a nice cup of tea?

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He fills that egg carton very nicely!