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I can also confirm. He’s a great guy and solid kisser. 

Bump this subject up -  surely we have more travel stories to hear about now 

You can contact him through RM
I recently met with him and he’s one of the best experiences I’ve ever had 

If you don't ask you don't get.   In this case, if you do ask you probably don't get often, but once a month is plenty.  
 
He is kind of ugly sort of like a Birkin bag, but you may want to be seen with one as your friends will know just how little you care about money and how much you care about showing that you have it.  

Sounds like I’m not the only one fantasizing about this kind of fun. &nbsp
 
Would it work best in a hotel? Does everyone bring their own provider? Trying to get a few logistics down to see if we could really do something. 

I recently met with one provider I have seen periodically for over five years.  He's a well known porn star and I've known his real name all along.  I was surprised when he asked me to use his real name when I last saw him. He said that he uses his profile name to meet with people but once he walks in the door he's just himself.  He did say that if I preferred to use his porn and profile name that was fine with him but he invited me to use his real name in our conversations. I don't know how other providers feel about it.  

If you maintain an ongoing relationship long enough, eventually Instagram will propose the person as someone you may know.

Not sure if the previous post was serious or sarcastic, but Henrietta Hudson is a lesbian bar.
The odds of seeing male dancers/strippers/gogo boys performing are non-existent. 
BuffDaddy's events are usually lots of fun.....
BTC
🤡
 

Depends on what you're looking for, of course.   However, on my last trip, I saw this tall dude (twice) and had a blast both times.
 
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chalk it up as a learning experience & do not contact the provider 
next time you want to spend $3k+ on an extended date, go to Barcelona for a long weekend (it’s doable) and you’ll have your pick of handsome providers from around the world.  There’s no place else that offers relative security/safety and has the variety of providers at reasonable rates. 
as a US domestic alternative- hourly only & anywhere but New York City
I wouldn’t do anything with a provider before sex that may impair his performance - no food, alcohol or anything else.  I save the small-talk for after, even if I know him.  In multi-hour appointments, I look for fireworks in Hour 1.  I don’t like overnights, so 3 hours is my max.  I wouldn’t ever travel for a specific provider bc it’s too much expectation tied up in one person - I’d suggest selecting a destination based on volume of providers & ease of hiring for better opportunities. 
get back in the saddle asap !
 

Great new find - I’m curious. Who’s taking the plunge first?

Someone saying”we don’t do that” in a group setting would be a total turnoff, imo. I would show them the door. Unless of course we’re talking about something way outside the norm. That has to be pretty far for me as I am mostly adventurous in these kinds of activities. 🥳

Sounds like I’m not the only one fantasizing about this kind of fun. &nbsp
 
Would it work best in a hotel? Does everyone bring their own provider? Trying to get a few logistics down to see if we could really do something. 

This sounds fun. I could be game. 

Sounds like I’m not the only one fantasizing about this kind of fun. &nbsp
 
Would it work best in a hotel? Does everyone bring their own provider? Trying to get a few logistics down to see if we could really do something. 

Sounds like I’m not the only one fantasizing about this kind of fun. &nbsp
 
Would it work best in a hotel? Does everyone bring their own provider? Trying to get a few logistics down to see if we could really do something. 

Sounds like I’m not the only one fantasizing about this kind of fun. &nbsp
 
Would it work best in a hotel? Does everyone bring their own provider? Trying to get a few logistics down to see if we could really do something. 

Hey guys, seems like there’s some new men in Austin lately. 
 
Anyone know more about AdamCain?
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Hey guys, seems like there’s some new men in Austin lately. 
 
Anyone know more about AdamCain?
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But Sensodyne does an absolutely amazing job of whitening grout without wearing it away. 

This makes me feel good. He ghosted me twice after setting up appts. He claimed he was tired and fell asleep the 1st time and like a fool.......

My experience was the same as this.  Wouldn't recommend 

I grew up in the Cold War era, so Russian soldiers always held a kind of evil fascination…strong, powerful, butch…right in line with my S&M/leather fantasies. I saw my first Russian soldier when I was 20. I was driving into East Berlin through Checkpoint Charlie. We had to get out of my red Triumph sports car while a soldier went through the interior, the trunk, under the hood…even passing a mirror under the car to see if someone was hiding in the undercarriage. Why someone would be hiding to get into, not out of, East Berlin, of course made no sense at all. But then nothing about war makes sense, does it. While he was getting his jollies looking for spies, I saw his officer’s military hat just sitting on the counter in the Checkpoint. I could have easily grabbed it, and he’d never known until I was gone and in the Eastern Sector. What a fantasy…maybe I couldn’t actually trick with a Russian soldier, but my roommate and I could fuck wearing his hat, maybe even cum all over it. As an indication of what terrible judgement a 20-year old can have, for a moment I actually considered snatching it. Prisoner sex fantasies getting fucked by the guards are hot, but the probable reality of Soviet prison quickly disabused me from pinching the cap. So we drove off into the East, bare-headed. 
 
It would be another 20 years before I had an encounter with another Soviet soldier, when I spent a month on a project in Tashkent, Uzbekistan. This was the traditional land of the Uzbeks, a Turkic Central Asian Stan where the men were swarthy and their visages showed the signs that Marco Polo, Ghengis, and Tamerlane had all spilled their seed. But I digress…this is a Soviet soldier story. The Uzbek boy stories will wait until another day. 
 
This was during Perestroika, when Uzbekistan was a part of the Soviet Union, but as it turned out, not for long. It was also late spring, when it was already blisteringly hot. Most afternoons my coworkers and I would go to a large city park, with a fine tea house located within. I mean a real tea house, a beautiful tourquise domed structure where they served exotic pastries and excellent teas and coffees for just pennies. 
 
Nearby there was a rushing mountain stream, where a whole variety of people would recreate…Russian families, with grandfathers looking like they were pregnant with a cow…in their tiny “speedo-like bathing suits; high school youth, fresh from the Young Pioneers Camp, oozing sex out of every pore; and Soviet soldiers from the local garrison in their unsexy boxers…until they emerged from the water leaving little to the imagination. Sitting under a sycamore tree taking in the sights became a lovely afternoon hobby.
But the real thing was close by…a smoking hot t-room. On my first visit to the park I discovered I wasn’t the only guy up for a blow and go, if not more. When you entered, the stalls were along the back wall, the sinks on the left wall, and the urinals on the right wall. No “splash guards” here…every cock in the row in full view and easy grabbing distance. And this t-room was always busy…not just a bunch of loitering queens too good to play. Eating cum out of uncut Uzbek and Russian cock became an obsession. 
 
And then one day, a door to the end stall opened, and there was a Soviet sergeant, in full uniform, rubbing his crotch. Khaki pants, shirt, and jacket; red and gold epaulets, emblazoned with the Soviet star; tall; and of course wearing the requisite hat I had once so lusted after. And as I went down on my knees, my eyes fixed on the red star on his brass belt buckle…I was about to get cock, not just any cock, but Soviet military cock. Boy would I have a story for the boys at the Eagle back home. 
 
Sarge played the part well…after a long slurping session, he turned me around, tore my pants down, and fucked me mercilessly. 
 
After I eventually caught my breath, I pulled up my pants, and staggered out if the stall, my gut happily filled with the seeds of another generation of Young Pioneers.  
 
I should have asked for his hat.

Any new wisdom on the nice guys? This thread has been so helpful - wanted to bump it back up. 

Wolfman is a great hire...attentive, really into it, at least with me, smart, conversant, not a clock watcher, adventurous, kind, generous with his body, plays really well in groups, AND what a great sense of humor.