General speaking, I ask the same questions to all the providers and keep it short. The body language is the most important to guide with gentle tap and look. A good one knows and anticipate the move. Was in UAE early this year, met an exact type I needed for that moment, the guy could read my mind and we ended up did only one thing.
For a particular service, convenient and the most importantly the type and unique looks. I have no problem with a casual hookup, but for something special I prefer a professional with looks and experience to ensure the quality time.
Been seeing this much older gentleman in the past 4 years. He is a fantastic person, well maintain muscle, nice tool, with great energy and wonderful versatile guy. After two rounds with sweat and acrobatic moved, he wore me out every time.