Chancealot

Weird definition of kids to provide cover (don’t be harsh) for not communicating intentions or in this case ghosting 
it’s not acceptable 
the “don’t be harsh” is absurd 

No they’re not “kids” 

If I make an appt and have an issue I always reach out with as much time as possible to apologize and look to reschedule 
I am a client not a provider 
it’s common courtesy period don’t wanna hear about pride or other 
blah blah blah 
it’s not hard 

Don’t think so just dated maybe touched up ?  For me it was a “different” guy 

I think the somewhat polarized opinions are very interesting!   A very good example of to each his own as I do really like him and found him quite consistent with his photos (and for me a beauty!).  

the twuth!

I’m a “look like your pics” guy period no wiggle 
the ad has pics - I select the person in the ad - if I can I ask/get a current pic via text where the individual makes a sign (🤞 or 👍) so I know it’s legit.  

Not gonna give you a % but the guy I met was a less than in shape less ripped less buff version body and face 
I shoulda required a pre right now pic or vid - sometimes I let it go - I didn’t require here - I’d seen his social media and I was gotta have 
Imo it’s a very big issue on RM and one that people I guess accept as a it is what it is thing - I can’t 
its prob a big reason why I’m more of a grindr find guy tbh when I partake 
 
 

Do you know how much time, energy and $$ you have saved us Chancealot?
 
Thank you.
 

I’m a “look like your pics” guy period no wiggle 
the ad has pics - I select the person in the ad - if I can I ask/get a current pic via text where the individual makes a sign (🤞 or 👍) so I know it’s legit.  

Not gonna give you a % but the guy I met was a less than in shape less ripped less buff version body and face 
I shoulda required a pre right now pic or vid - sometimes I let it go - I didn’t require here - I’d seen his social media and I was gotta have 
Imo it’s a very big issue on RM and one that people I guess accept as a it is what it is thing - I can’t 
its prob a big reason why I’m more of a grindr find guy tbh when I partake 
 
 

I met him a few months back also.  The pics are definitely a bit outdated.......not nearly as cut and defined as the pics suggest.  That said, pickings are so slim these days (even in NY) that he is probably one of the better guys that u will find in Manhattan.  PLUS, he doesnt ask for pics, which is a rarity.

That’s sweet of you 🙂
I’ve realized we all have different tastes and a couple here on this thread enjoyed his looks, manner and company so to each his own is a real thing 
 

I’m a “look like your pics” guy period no wiggle 
the ad has pics - I select the person in the ad - if I can I ask/get a current pic via text where the individual makes a sign (🤞 or 👍) so I know it’s legit.  

Not gonna give you a % but the guy I met was a less than in shape less ripped less buff version body and face 
I shoulda required a pre right now pic or vid - sometimes I let it go - I didn’t require here - I’d seen his social media and I was gotta have 
Imo it’s a very big issue on RM and one that people I guess accept as a it is what it is thing - I can’t 
its prob a big reason why I’m more of a grindr find guy tbh when I partake 
 
 

I’m a “look like your pics” guy period no wiggle 
the ad has pics - I select the person in the ad - if I can I ask/get a current pic via text where the individual makes a sign (🤞 or 👍) so I know it’s legit.  

Not gonna give you a % but the guy I met was a less than in shape less ripped less buff version body and face 
I shoulda required a pre right now pic or vid - sometimes I let it go - I didn’t require here - I’d seen his social media and I was gotta have 
Imo it’s a very big issue on RM and one that people I guess accept as a it is what it is thing - I can’t 
its prob a big reason why I’m more of a grindr find guy tbh when I partake 
 
 

I met him while back
he was out of work doing this to pay rent and such - well read educated decent guy - not as masc as I imagined (that’s on me)
I didn’t think he was nearly as fit or handsome as his pics or his social media content - living in the city as a young graduate isn’t easy especially if you’re not working 
I’m super picky so we chatted it wasn’t uncomfortable but I wasn’t into it 
imo he def misrepresented himself with his pics but I didn’t reduce his fee
What I saw (and projected) from his social media (and RM pics) I imagined an amazing experience 
live and learn
 

I met him while back
he was out of work doing this to pay rent and such - well read educated decent guy - not as masc as I imagined (that’s on me)
I didn’t think he was nearly as fit or handsome as his pics or his social media content - living in the city as a young graduate isn’t easy especially if you’re not working 
I’m super picky so we chatted it wasn’t uncomfortable but I wasn’t into it 
imo he def misrepresented himself with his pics but I didn’t reduce his fee
What I saw (and projected) from his social media (and RM pics) I imagined an amazing experience 
live and learn
 

Met him a few months ago......couldn't perform.  Way too expensive.  Not going to repeat. 

A bit of an overreact IMO 
body shaming ?  That’s hyperbole 
In a biz of selling great or even perfection while I wouldn’t have said what the author said ……. the response is worse 
#lightenup

Tried to see him when he was in NY while back 
he’s all bottom FYI not vers 
chatty friendly more of a wants a SD guy vs escort was my take  

He’s in Frederick, MD now. He continues to be responsive. I used to visit Hood College there. He lives close to school. I’ll find a way to meet him.

He told me he’s a bottom 
and “gets to NYC often”
 

Yummm

All this pre-encounter excitement.  Kind of like a shark circling before the strike.

Man this newb is causing a stir lol 

Man this newb is causing a stir lol 

Saw him in NY when he visited 
he’s spectacular