Yikes! Disaster that could have been worse, as Wanderoz points out, making you just the latest poster boy for thinking too much with your little head . . . . Glad it wasn't worse. I've often wondered, if my budget ever allowed me the luxury of flying a guy in for a weekend (there are a handful of guys who push all my buttons+ who never make it to NYC), whether I'd do it. Your experience cements in my resolution that only if I could establish that there are multiple guys who have had a good weekend experience with the provider.