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Providers who ask or even require a pic to meet are iffy in my book. I find many of those types are just monetizing their sex lives and want to look for a way to turn someone down who isn't attractive to them. As for sharing a picture of myself, I do so almost always. It's a way to humanize myself to them and at least give them an idea of who will show up at their door or what to expect. I'm not looking for validation or a comment and generally state something along those lines. Taking it another step, I have a 'client' profile on RM that has my stats, a couple of G/PG photos, my "intos", and some text of what I like and get into. It also shows the reviews I have left for other providers. Why? It helps to let them know I am serious and have hired before and I am not a time waster. That's key.

At the moment, they want USD for sure. The USD is stronger and more beneficial for them. Question is are they quoting you in CAD or USD for a rate?

Well, you could TRY to hoard them by buying up all their time 24x7 and having a live-in arrangement, but we all know that is always super successful and works out great. 🤣 (My escort never left and now I joke that I stopped paying and why won't he leave but he keeps hanging around which is a story for another thread, lol)

Hahaha. Reach out. I believe for two weeks next month.

He's coming back next month. Stay tuned.

... a little birdie told me Trev might be back in New York for a bit next month if ya'll are wondering. 👀

Oh wow, I didn't read the whole thread. Glad you found a few others. Like any business or interaction, sometimes it just isn't the right fit and that's okay. Glad you didn't let that first experience turn you off from trying again because as you have found out, they're out there. For me, I had to go through three guys at first before I found that "magic" connection and that changed my world. Years later, I still hire him and engage and we talk about the dumbest stuff (like the Orville episode with Topa, because he's even a bigger Star Trek geek than me). lol.

Think of him as a long lost friend you haven't seen in forever. Ask him about himself a little too -- he is a person with his own struggles, and issues, and family, and work. I find if you take a small interest in knowing them as a person, that puts them at ease because you see them as human. Of course, they won't share details and everything, but just asking is what counts. HAVE FUN!

My #1 provider who I rave about everywhere has 120+ 5.0 reviews and he literally writes a personal reply to each one talking about what he loved about the reviewer. He is the only one I have ever seen do that and part of why he is so good. Also, he doesn't have "people" doing it for him like others have managing their online presence, so it's definitely him writing each one.

Yours too, I am going to send you a private message so we can carry this conversation on without interrupting the thread.

No. Here's just in NYC for a short while (one or two months) and is going back to Boston for a bit, but not sure where after. Just text him and ask, he always replies fairly quick.

Some of us have a lot to lose but we also have our own risk/reward tolerances and vet the escort as much as they're vetting us as clients. I had one bad experience where an escort I hired to my house for the first time saw my full name on a credit card laying on my table in the hallway. He found me on LinkedIn and started a small extortion scheme because I own a couple companies and he was able to find me in the news, etc. Upon researching him more on here, I wasn't the first person he tried that with apparently. It was easily nipped in the bud by "my people" (LOL) but it could have gotten out of hand. I'm much more apprehensive these days based on that experience. I always look for reviews. If you have over a dozen good reviews, that is typically a solid way to vet people. Yes, some reviews can be fake or whatever, but the entire rating (Uber, Amazon, etc.) thing really works. That's why it has proliferated into almost every aspect of our lives. So honestly, if you have 50+ 4.9 reviews, you're fucking awesome. I even know one escort who has 120+ reviews and every single one is 5.0. Maintaining a 5.0 is extremely hard as you can't please everyone, but there are a handful out there who manage to do just that. Those are the experts at their craft and worth every single dollar.

Thanks for the info. I was able to get on the internet a few different ways there but know the drill for sure. I'm fluent in Spanish so that's not a problem. My trips to Cuba have been for adventure, history, culture, etc. I never really tied in sex at all, I suppose I just did a mental block on it. Next time I am there, I am going to remember your post. Just copied and pasted it in my notes app for future reference. It's an incredible country if you dig in and get around. I could talk about Cuba for days with people who have been like yourself. I've been to almost every place on earth (and will do all 193 UN nations before I die) and Cuba ranks up there near #1 for my most favorite of anywhere in the world. So close, so awesome. Thanks again.

Maiconmax -- he is from Boston but is spending a month in NYC. Great guy, nice hard top, really attractive, passionate, etc. Check him out.

Quick question -- I am an American who has been to Cuba four times (which is really rare). Where are you finding the escorts there? There's no internet or sites, so word of mouth or do they advertise somewhere, or how are you doing this? I'm so curious.

Let me know if you need help getting in touch with him -- I have his contact info and can push that along. You seem genuine.

Maiconmax - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - Maiconmax: Muscle top He lives on the South Shore (in Weymouth) and will travel all around. He's currently in NYC but should be back soon. Reach out to him and ask.

Whatever you do, deal lord just don't do it through text. This is something that will naturally come up during in-person conversations if you get to know him more/better.

Alright, I am going to go against my general rule and reply: I've hired him fairly recently. My advice would be to find someone else. He is hot, yes. Great body, handsome face, all of the above. But he's not a great escort. He's only concerned about himself and what he wants. He just doesn't give off the "comfortable" vibe and not for nothing, I can get comfortable with almost anyone in the world. Pass and move on....

Trevor. 😈 You can search for him on here. He's not active at the moment on RM, but is his personality and his all around genuine and good character is even better than that body.

Just be honest. Tell them exactly why you aren't able in that moment: "Thanks for the shout. I had an awesome time with you but money on my side is a little tight and I just can't this time around. But please let me know when you're back." That should work and any escort who is worth it will respond positively.

I told him I just wanted to hire him for a dinner when I was in his neck of the woods at some point and I remain serious. The reason he is worth the $1k is that we all "know" him from his posts and Twitter. There is insight into his personality and way of thinking and approach to life. Personally, I don't have the need to pay for a sexual experience at the moment. I am fulfilled in my life and all my needs are already met in that regard. So the question is, why then, right? Given that, $1k/hr in the "real world" for a "consultant" is absolutely a fair rate on a variety of topics. I know what we would talk about -- and I am 100% confident the conversation would drift into areas or things that I never expected. Hence the worth. He's doing something right.

His profile has not been active in Boston in the past years. I lived there my whole life and never saw his profile and know almost all the Boston escorts at least by profiles. His profile, from 2015, was somewhere else and just recently switched to Boston but RM doesn't show location history. Take that for what it's worth.

In another life, I wish I were able to hire Jon Vincent. His voice.... I jacked off to all his porn when I was younger and coming out. He died though -- drugs. Sad.

+1 on all of the above. He's awesome and hot and comfortable and just generally a great guy.