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Can I say that clip doesn't even capture the energy in person. He's even hotter... lol I'm basically 100% top but he is the only dude in my life who thoroughly fucked me good and I loved every second of it and wanted more and more and more. That man made me turn into a hungry bottom god damn,.

Talked to him in the past week. He's not actively escorting anymore.

I think the real answers are: 1. It's a good career and you can make more than enough money to support a good lifestyle for yourself and live very comfortably. 2. It's physically taxing. You're going to make the same as a well paid IT/Computer professional who clicks a mouse and reads a screen all day. 3. You can work as much as you want. Two days a week with a ton of clients or seven days a week with one client daily. 4. You have to factor in retirement and the future. You're not paying into Social Security. You don't have a 401(k). How much money are you saving and investing for the future? You're going to get older, become less attractive, and your hands and body won't function as well. What's your "exit" strategy? Just my $0.02. RE: #4. I know an escort who is mid-30s and fucking beautiful. He has a daddy who is 75 and paid for his apartment, travel, and even a house out of the country. That's a good retirement strategy but you have to find the daddy who will enter into that arrangement and that's hard to find actually. lol

The issue will eventually be the damage it does to themselves. They'll walk around in general life with this attitude and life will hand their ass to them at some point and they will have no skills to deal with it. Sad. The universe always wins.

Agreed. But also sometimes people need help and guidance. We all make bad choices and sometimes we we can't help ourselves. Having people in your life who can help you navigate and also be there to pick up the pieces when it all falls apart are what is needed most. Sadly not everyone has that. We are all human and I would like to think what sets the real professional escorts apart from everyone else is the ability to see that and help a fellow human being. Put another way, if I were the provider and I had a client who was a moneymaker for me, but I saw that it was overall unhealthy or destructive to their lives over the course of several meetings, I might start to take the role of therapist for my time rather than engage in their fantasies and back away if that isn't helpful. That's just me.

Well said by you both, thank you. Agreed all around. Lord knows we all have our own kinks and things we are addicted to and get us off (even non-sexually). I can't stop looking on eBay for car parts for example. LOL. As a follow-up, I asked my friend to text me every time he got this urge. It's almost like being a sponsor to someone in AA. I told him I would take all his money and assets and put him on a forced budget if he didn't text me (we have been very good friends for 20 years so it's that type of relationship where we can demand that of the other person). He's been doing that and carefully spending just a little here and there to satisfy the craving when needed. I guess that is "getting help" even though it is not through a professional. You guys are awesome and this is a good healthy discussion. It's why we all keep coming back here.

These are all reasons why I won't see anyone with who doesn't have a 4.9 or 5.0 ratings and a minimum of at least 10-15 reviews and even need to see over 20. We can debate one off experiences all day and the effectiveness of ratings, but there is a reason why Uber, Amazon, and our entire culture these days is influenced by reviews and ratings because they don't lie. Those providers who have 50, 70, or even 100+ reviews and still maintain a perfect 5.0... do you know how hard that actually is to acheive? Those are the magical providers I will chase after every. single. time.

I'm going to chime in here with my experience briefly to add to the discussion. Personally, I was never into it and didn't know about it. My partner is an escort by the way. He doesn't do it or advertise it. However, I have a long time friend who contacted me recently and asked for help and told me he needed to sit and talk to me. He said "I have to tell you something" and I thought he was going to tell me he was dying of cancer or something. Like my heart dropped. Apparently, he was going broke and spending all his money as a Findom sub for this one guy. My friend is successful, owns his own house, and has (well, had, past tense now) savings. He found a guy on X/Twitter and the guy was doing whatever they do and my buddy was sending him more and more and more money. He couldn't control it and it's like an actual addiction like to alcohol or drugs. It's brain chemistry we are talking about here. I have spent months with my friend trying to help him ween off this whole thing. It really was sad to see and I honestly don't have the tools in my toolbox to help in these situations because I don't understand the appeal, just like I don't understand other types of addictions except my own, lol. It's like losing a friend to meth addiction really. Now I look on X and see all these 20 year old "kids" listing it as an easy way to make money because they're hot and I imagine the conversation from one of these kids to their friends goes: "Hey you know faqqots will send you money if you demand it and post hot pics of yourself? Bro... go do it!" and it kind of makes me a little fucking sick. Now whenever I see the term I want to vomit. What I would ask from the professional providers who engage in this space is to make sure your client have the means and aren't in the poor house. A guy with $5M in assets throwing $5k into this is fine if it gets him off... that is okay. But please be the good providers I know you all to be like @BenjaminNicholas @Vin Marco and @Simon Suraci Those kids doing this are horrible.

Great thread. I am addicted to getting my dick sucked (like legit my favorite thing in the world as my profile name says) and just moved to NYC three weeks ago. I have to check this place out and will report back here on my first experience. It's crazy that it is literally on the same street and block as my midtown office on W 37th. I never would have imagined.... shit, I might go every. single. time. which is dangerous. LOL

Check out Revolut, but not available to everyone. https://www.revolut.com/cards/virtual-card/ Have you checked with your credit card company? I know Capital One has this feature where you can create virtual cards for specific merchants/uses. I think Citi has it as well. Privacy.com is the best (I use it) but you're right about "restricted industries" and I guess (but didn't know) that adult is one of them. Cash App will also give you a virtual card and you can fund it from the app.

The message might be the same but the delivery could have been better in some cases.

I think the relationship between the OP and his best friend is pretty damned awesome based on all of the posts. They both want to help the other get what they need, and he has gone to gay bars to help out the OP. No need to pay an escort in this scenario really. He's already your best friend, you don't have to impress him. He loves you for who you are. Now, take that money you would spend and figure something REALLY FUN to do with it.

Thanks for the recommendation! Just talked to Transman and actually offered and sent a deposit up front to make sure they know I am serious, not wasting time, and really want to get together. I almost never do a deposit up front but when you find something rare and unique and there is a match there, you do whatever it takes to secure a commitment/spot/opening -- and I am not even talking just about escorts/sex. All aspects of life. LOL

Looks like this is going to happen in the next two weeks. I'm in NYC. This escort is coming here. Reached out. OMG. I'm like a little kid on Christmas. Transmen - Male Escort, Gay massage - San Juan | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Transmen Gay Escort in San Juan, Puerto Rico, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

He's around. I texted with him recently. Not active though. I have a few videos of him fucking his girl/wife that I consider some of the hottest porn around. Like stuff I have jacked off to. Genuine lovemaking, not "porn".... you can find them online randomly.

I know MaiconMax well. He's in NYC a lot these days but still has roots in Boston (family). Message him as he gets back there often and can make it happen and he's 5.0 one of the best ever.

Like I said before, my partner is an escort who travels. He is in SF right now while I write this for about 7 days. I understand managing bookings while fronting the hotel/expenses/food/etc. and not knowing what the net out will be at the end of a trip. It is a roll of the dice unless you have years long established clients in X or Y city. So yes, totally get it. I'd love it if you made it to NYC though at some point. I'd book and even pre-pay just solely based on your writing here. That's how much respect and earned credit you get for doing this.

That is all really good to know. Thank you. Very helpful.

@Simon Suraci and @Jamie21 Can I be honest here for a sec with you two? I have a ton of experience with escorts (hell, my partner is an escort!) and you probably have seen my posts around here. But I have never in my life had a genuine massage. I think it is a personal space issue but I am literally dying for one and don't know how to pick the correct provider. Sure, I want the hottest guy in the world doing it (based on my type), I'm worried that using that criteria I will wind up with someone inexperienced or just an escort who does "massages" but doesn't know what they're doing. For example, this guy is smoking hot in my book and in NYC. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/45430/ -- but I am hesitant because, well I don't know. I almost feel like it's the same with getting head -- I have found that some of the most unattractive guys give the best fucking head in the world and many hot guys can't suck a dick to save their lives. So with a masseur, it's almost like maybe I don't want someone hot because they aren't good at the actual massage, you know? Based on your replies above and the replies I have seen from you both over the years here on this forum, I would hire either of you in an instant. First, either of you in NYC? Second, if not, how do I genuinely find someone like you. To be honest, I don't even know how I want the massage to "end" -- I really just want a good massage for my first time ever and the rest is just gravy if/when it happens. Does that make sense? Help me.

I've rounded up many times. When they stay extra I also tend to pay a little extra. But in general, no set rule here. Advertised price is advertised price. Tipping in general is right up there with discussing HOAs. People come to the table ready to fight thermonuclear war over their positions. To @HockeyMan's point above, I have advised one or two that were so great that their rate is a little under market and they could/should be charging more.

How did we get to hiring day laborers for sex? lol In many parts of the world, it's a simple math equation: I need a service. You can provide a service. That can be labor with a hammer or labor in bed. Ya'll need to get outside the USA and chill. My mind immediately goes to Rio de Janeiro. It's more normal than you think. Every hot guy, gay or straight, walking around Rio knows they can make money off of an American to do whatever they want just like buying a cup of coffee. But I digress and do not recommend doing that in the Home Depot parking lot.

Zelle is good because it's one of the few that generally can't be disputed or reversed, unlike a Cash App or Venmo or Paypal transaction. The protections for this were built into the Zelle terms and conditions when it was founded by the consortium of banks. It has Congress panties in a twist because of it but it's really safe.

Bitcoin. :) Back in 2017, I paid someone 2 BTC for a trip that was worth about $6k at the time. I specifically told them not to cash it out and just keep it and don't so anything with it and just wait. They didn't listen to me. Today that would have been worth $150k. I'd urge every provider to take all payment methods possible.

I'm literally the CEO of a financial institution regulated by FinCEN. You're partially correct but there are nuances. We can open accounts for someone with a General Delivery address and it is permitted under the USA PATRIOT Act. Until March 2006, at least. Title III, which pertained to money laundering did require specific “tracking” of bank customers which would have likely prohibited using a P.O. Box or a GD address as a permanent address on a bank record. However, as long as it's documented as part of your compliance program's CIP requirements, it is allowed. I know the BSA like the back of my hand.

Not really. General delivery is something that people don't fully understand or realize, but it's actually a thing used by hundreds of thousands daily. JOE SMITH GENERAL DELIVERY NEW YORK, NY 10018 That's a legit postal address and Mr. Smith can walk into the 10018 post office in midtown on west 38th street and pickup his mail any day of the week. Except on Sunday. This goes back to the core values that our country was founded on that, thankfully, we have not lost. You don't need an ID to vote. You don't need a house to get mail. We are a free country. But I digress.... lol