@jadonisany updates on what happened with you and the masseur? I was in a similar predicament but it ended horribly for me, hopefully your experience was much better.
I have at least 4 escorts with whom I have a friendly relationship. One left the business to become a lawyer and we still text regularly it has been about 8 years since I saw him professionally. Another is someone I actually knew casually through a mutual friend who I hired through an agency 15 or more years ago. I still hire him now and then but mostly we just go out to dinner and text or call. Another stopped the business years ago and he and I still have the occasional lunch. He broke his leg and was bed bound for a year. I called him regularly and visited him in the hospital and the rehab center. He will dog sit for me when I go away bringing his own dog to my home. Yet another calls to complain about his girlfriends and the troubles in his life. He does dog rescues and I have adopted three of his dogs along the way. We speak every two months or so. I have not hired him in 10 years though he was one of the first escorts I hired. His body is still amazing even in his 40s. There is an escort I speak or text with almost daily. I hire him several times a year but the relationship extends to personal matters and advice and general caring for one another. I have been asked to be the best man at a former escorts wedding (he and his GF broke up before the wedding) and I was also asked by his mother to speak at the funeral of an escort (same escort).
Now some may look upon this as unusual, and it probably is. But all of these relationships have lasted many years, 8 to 15, and most have extended past the time of their escorting services for me and as a career for them.
It seems to me it is easier to develop a friendship with an escort with whom you have had great, non loving sex than it would be to continue to have a friendship with an ex lover with the emotional baggage that goes with it.
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