FewBricksShy

You could ask the guy? 

Each situation is different. Every guy is different. 

Each situation is different. Every guy is different. 

Each situation is different. Every guy is different. 

You could ask the guy? 

Each situation is different. Every guy is different. 

I know I don’t write here often, but for the sake of you all, I would simply say stay away from Julianferrer of Boston. I had a bad interaction with him and wouldn’t want any of you to waste your time with him. I don’t want to say more for fear of this becoming a review. Just be warned. It wasn’t good and there are other, much more rewarding options.
I don’t have more to say. Anyone can say whatever they want.
Profile: https://rent.men/Julianferrer

This is why I like to communicate before the meetup. Sadly, that’s seen as a waste of time. Somehow advertising something and no delivering on it though isn’t seen as a waste of money.

The fact that RM removes bad reviews, any of them, at the request of the escort makes them worthless to me. 

That “card” is offputting. It’s like he’s tried thinking of every eventuality so as not to engage in any kind of discussion before meeting. I had him on my list, but now I’m not interested. Next. 

The fact that RM removes bad reviews, any of them, at the request of the escort makes them worthless to me. 

I think some guys enjoy squandering their money on overpriced escorts because it fellates their egos. It’s like having an obscenely expensive car or boat or a house with a movie theater – totally unnecessary and really just about having it to say you can do it.

I get tired of the working assumption here that providers are always the victim of bad behavior from clients. Are there bad clients? Yes. I’m highly doubtful the situation is nearly as bad as we’re led to believe. There are also shitty providers. They deserve to have bad reviews and have them stay posted. That’s just one of the reason why I won’t write a review and consider the reviews worth less than the paper they’re written on.
@KensingtonHomo, even such texts can be met with tepid, unprofessional, seemingly uninterested responses from providers from the get-go. If that happens, I figure this guy’s a waste of MY time. And most definitely my money. 

The fact that RM removes bad reviews, any of them, at the request of the escort makes them worthless to me. 

I’d reiterate that there are no stats to back up this assumption. Just an opinion. An opinion formed from assuming that because you don’t pay for a membership you’re inexperienced in hiring, it would seem to suggest as well, therefore not worth listening to. If you don’t pay RM, your opinion doesn’t matter effectively. 

@Enronnja, when I first started hiring, I was stupid. I trusted an escort before we met. Paid him a lot of money up front and wrote a review on RM before meeting. I’ve since learned, of course. But the point is that the scams are real. And they’re more common than many want to accept. That’s why I still come back to insisting that a minimal exchange of some substance happen between me and any escort. If he thinks it’s time wasting, he’s losing out on my money. Maybe he can get other money easier, but it’s not going to be mine. Just like escorts will hedge bets to not waste their time, I’m heading bets to not waste my money. I was burnt once and it’s not happening to me again. 

We could go to sleep when it’s dark and wake up eight hours later. In today’s world I’m unsure why it’s such a hassle. It’s not like we do use candles and gas lamps anymore.  And for the majority of human history we didn’t fiddle with the clocks and things were really okay. 

@Dante– why the eye roll? Should a client just fork over more cash for nothing in return? Are clients here for the pleasure of escorts? It seems perfectly reasonable that I’d expect something if I’m paying. Don’t you think? Something in return for my money? Enlighten me where there’s a flaw in my logic.

I was telling another friend who hires that I find it disingenuous when a provider says his goal is to make a guy happy. Not really. His goal is to make money. And the most money possible for the least amount of work and time possible. That’s perfectly fine. And acceptable. But let’s cut the crap. My goal is to have the most pleasure possible for the least amount of money possible. If everyone were honest and respectful about our intentions, then things would be better. I saw an ad today that said “There's nothing better than turning strangers into lovers.” Honey – you and I both know we’re never going to be lovers…Stop wasting my time with empty words. George Bailey promised the moon and only delivered on a drafty old house…When he accepted that and the reality of his actual life, he realized he had a wonderful life. He stopped living and wishing for a fantasy. We’re adults here and hopefully respectful. If we can’t accept that escorts want to make money and clients want to have a good time, if we want to think something else is going on, then we’re all delusional.

Long and short is I don’t think guys are honest.

@Dante– why the eye roll? Should a client just fork over more cash for nothing in return? Are clients here for the pleasure of escorts? It seems perfectly reasonable that I’d expect something if I’m paying. Don’t you think? Something in return for my money? Enlighten me where there’s a flaw in my logic.

Communication today…
He doesn’t do videos for free. I can PayPal him for a video but he understands if I don’t want to. It’s like pulling fucking teeth to get him to cooperate. I’m about ready to give up but now it’s become a challenge just to see if I can do it.
Seriously though. Remember when carpet places gave free samples to take home to see how you potentially liked it. This idea that you have to pay to know if you want to pay more is craziness. But moronic guys thinking with their dicks will give it to these guys. Otherwise they wouldn’t think they can get away with it. Satisfying your penis makes a guy do stupid, stupid shit.

Communication today…
He doesn’t do videos for free. I can PayPal him for a video but he understands if I don’t want to. It’s like pulling fucking teeth to get him to cooperate. I’m about ready to give up but now it’s become a challenge just to see if I can do it.
Seriously though. Remember when carpet places gave free samples to take home to see how you potentially liked it. This idea that you have to pay to know if you want to pay more is craziness. But moronic guys thinking with their dicks will give it to these guys. Otherwise they wouldn’t think they can get away with it. Satisfying your penis makes a guy do stupid, stupid shit.

The cost of hiring has increased at a time when a dollar doesn’t go as far. Pleasure goods like escorts are going to see a decrease in demand, even without increased prices for services. With a decrease in demand generally and an increase in price, I can totally understand that the client market is depressed. I know I’m in a saving pattern for my next hire, and it’s been harder to get that play money account to fill up like before. 

This is an important point. I’ve actually asked providers who post pictures of themselves with different hair color what it is right now. I don’t think that’s unfair. We’re cataloging through these guys to find something that potentially pleases us. It’s already a marker, and provider’s should know they’re going to be assessed on things that might be superficial. We’re not looking to become soulmates or life partners here. We’re looking for a business transaction. The business is intimate and personal, but it’s still business. So it’s okay to assess based off likes and dislikes, but there’s definitely a way to do that which is professional and polite. No need to be rude or hateful about it.