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On 11/21/2022 at 2:28 PM, ChelseaBoy said:

Any reviews of Bert’s technique - both of physical and sensual?

I only wish Bert would be in RM... Back to my hotel room and wanted to share this before passing out, what a hot experience. Sucks to arrive late to a booking, but he was just open the door and receives you with a smile, call me by my name and ask me how I've been? Is nice being called by your alleged name and when apologizing for arriving late, he only he replies if I wanted to use the restroom before the session, that's manners!

Purple light and aromatherapy, the wireless charging station is still there, but now there's crystal quartz which adds to the niceness. I don't love to wait 5 minute on the table, but as many of us will attest, he makes it up by generously offering his nutsack, before he puts on the oil... What can I say about his long arms covering and strong hands reaching me all over... Compared to last time I came to NY so about a month before I left, his routine is different but, I couldn't keep track with what he was doing because the blend sensuality and medium-deep pressure stress-relaxing massage just leave you floating out of the building. If you're a new client, you need to be upfront in what you expect the massage to be, because otherwise it will be a conventional and far more proper than the one I had. Definetively Recommend.

I don’t know, periodically new diseases are coming out, all exaggerated by the news. I’ve taken my precautions for the last 2 years and I haven’t even gotten the common flu. Is not pretend stuff isn’t happening in the world but is also not live in fear either and inform yourself from a lot of different sources to make the best decision, not jump into the wagon.

On 5/14/2022 at 3:48 PM, DrownedBoy said:

That's what happened to me. Despite the fact I'd hired this guy 6 times before,  he just kept playing games and saying he "made a wrong turn" until I cut him off.

Late is one thing; making the provider think you're coming when you're not is another.

Well, everybody is different and you can be as strict or flexible as you want but there is a principle you are forgetting and is that you're the client. You have the money, you call the shots, there is no reason for you to delegate that power to the service provider. The way a service provider responds let you know if they are professionals or just hot guys that need money and put an ad in any of those websites. You don't want to deal with amateurs or if they are (for instance) porn actors who might be partying, because their sense of awareness and time is completely off, and at times, volatile.  Now, if you allow a SP to be late once and then book again and arrive late again, from their point of view nothing wrong is going on therefor no need for him to stick to a schedule. Unfortunately, and I learned this the hard way, being overly nice and accommodating can be exploited by unscrupulous SPs and then the transaction is no longer an even exchange.   

On 6/26/2022 at 12:08 AM, Hathor said:

Alpha update: 
Adrian (Curazao) and Eric (Chinese) quit, right now there's only Royal (Black Trinitarian), Bert (Cuban/German/PR), Rodrigo (who used to be in Shangrila, Brazilian) and Diego (Venezuelan). Diego is new hands but his thick accent, broad shoulders, dark mustache and handsome make up for it. Bert is still the best there, specially for sensual mixed with therapeutic but, is always fun to rotate and see what you've got! 

Wow @Hathor it's been too long, must visit Bert again... miss his big... hands :-D

17 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

The world is so upside down at times. I remember in the 90s bareback was absolutely verboten at all the best sex parties.  Now that these guys take PreP do they not worry about all the other nasty little viruses you pick up at group events ? Why in the world would you tell people who WANT to be responsible to not be ?

If a party advertises as bareback, that’s what you pay cover for not to found yourself having to have odd discussions with other guests. So, that was not the point or point of argument.

1 hour ago, SeahorseRider said:

Every time I go to Manhattan and stay by Penn station I go to Alpha Spa, is a short walk, is clean, smells very nice and from the masseurs I've tried, Bert is by far the best, he mixes relaxing with sensual in a way that's... well. Just thanks. 

Agree, nice facilities, well maintained. @Hathor is right on Bert looks but I also find Adrian attractive but… Bert has sensuality mastery.

18 hours ago, Hathor said:

I apologize in advance if this is not the correct area but I was browsing for a list gay sex parties in NYC and the browser's feedback was disappointed. There are some parties I used to attend they do no longer run, what current parties (private invitation or paying cover) are currently held in NYC AND your experiences in it. BB scene preferred, and no, going to The Eagle or The Cock doesn't count.

Look what I’ve found!

https://wickedgayparties.com/ 

If you join, you’ll have access to all listings. You welcome everyone, enjoy 🍆

2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

We've been meaning to check out the Scum parties. There's one in Brooklyn this Friday. 

Scum is more of younger crowd game, perhaps the one in Brooklyn is more diverse but I don’t commute out of Manhattan for ass 🤣😂🤣

5 hours ago, DMICS said:

I've been to Cumunion a few times at Paddles, mainly in 2019. All the times I went I never got the feeling that BB was strictly enforced, in fact they have condoms available at the main bar/check-in area.

But yeah that's the main party I know about. 

That’s what downgraded the once hot party into a hit or miss one. Anyone can report of a new party?

I went to Cummunion’s party at Paddles once years ago when it was still new (2015) with BB strictly enforced, hot dudes but then the party was being held at the time the venue had their regular clientele and it became awkward when the bottom asked for a condom… I stopped going, wondering if still the same. I don’t know about current parties though but curious too.

22 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

If a client cancels on me last minute it’s my problem. I don’t expect compensation for it and I don’t take deposits (too much of a disincentive to book). If you’re offering compensation as a courtesy that’s fine (and good of you) but if an escort or masseur cancels on you last minute then they wouldn’t offer compensation except perhaps for an alternative time or a discount on a future booking if they want to retain your goodwill. 

So if the client cancelled on you when you had another possible client interested but, you had to decline him because your previous appointment that now just cancelled, is not an issue for you? I mean, I suppose the rate of clients faking on service providers at last minute is low?

On 3/10/2022 at 7:10 PM, Jamie21 said:

I think it’s bad form to do that. Once a time and date is settled and agreed I try my best to stick to it and will very rarely ask to alter it. I cancelled a client a month ago because I’d double booked myself by mistake (caused by confusion over time zones) but would never cancel or reschedule because the time no longer suited me.

I think sometimes what happens is the escort has a better offer or is trying to squeeze in an additional client or activity, so he tries to reschedule to make it all work. 

It isn’t very professional to do that and I think would annoy clients so I don’t do it unless it’s essential. Once an agreement is made then it’s not going to change unless I’m sick.

Unfortunately on the other side you do get clients who book but then cancel last minute or even fail to show. Today I had a client booked for a certain time during the day but he asked to bring it forward by half hour. I was free so I agreed. No problem.

It works both ways…people get delayed or sick so I’m always willing to take these things into consideration. 

 

In this subject, if I as a client book an escort first time or not and I (had to) cancel at last minute (1-3 hours) as a courtesy I am to give some compensation for their lost time but if the escort cancel on me last minute and I have already separated that time from my agenda shouldn’t he return the courtesy of providing a choice of replacements that could take over his session?!

5 hours ago, BeefyDude said:

Haven't read all the comments

But what about being up front and ask if he does mobile service and go from there.  Maybe suggest a way to get more clientele.  Also all the money would be his vs. splitting with spa

Just a thought

Excellently point, those spa masseurs only make money on tips and that’s why they typically avoid to be touched so if you want more you are forced to ask and then they tell you that’s not included in the price because of bad tippers. Makes all sense for Bert and any masseur for that matter to work independently and take 100% of the money 👌🏼

As old as I am still able to sustain an erection and spread my seed 😊

8 hours ago, Hathor said:

Bert came over last night, I don't know know why I was so nervous to ask him for an outcall in the firs place. We did the session in my bedroom, he was more playful which got me to be more verbal, that constant medium pressure, he also tried new new techniques on me and the best the body to body slam. Such satisfying massage, I don't think I'm going to book him at the spa anymore, is much worthy to have him do the sessions at my place. I highly recommend him!!!

Ohh nooo why did I have to read this now, with my graphic imagination… 🍆💦 I’ll PM for his digits.

2 minutes ago, Ritchie21 said:

Anyone has his contact? Thank you!

PM I’ll send you his digits.

I haven’t even contemplated this but 

On 10/29/2020 at 5:32 PM, JoeMendoza said:

You know what, I have never asked a masseur to do it, but now I just might ? .

 

There is one provider where we would shower together during the last 20 minutes of our time so we can still get dirty while cleaning up.

I haven’t consider it before but going back to lovers I’ve had showered with, I see how the act of showering can become a fetish on it’s own.

13 hours ago, TopBunk said:

Bump.

What's all the drama? I haven't met him, but he we texted. He's really into PNP it seems. I don't mind if that's not the focus.

I can not attest to that or not about him but in general, hire escorts that party is a gamble, particularly if you’re trying them the first time. Typically the session turns more about using than actually playing (forget about cumming) and I have paid the very expensive price of learning not to get burned on those unsatisfactory experiences again.

On 1/18/2019 at 12:20 PM, AndyDandy said:

I tried the 4-hands he offers with his partner, Tyler. Both are very nice guys.

This is very vague and no actual info on the masseur or exp.

On 1/23/2021 at 3:13 PM, HK520 said:

many previous comments in other threads under Luka, but TERRIBLE. Among the worst massage experiences I have ever had, though to be fair, it was about five years ago, so perhaps he's improved.

NO, I booked a session with him when his name was Luka or Lukas back in December. What a ripoff! That was a rubdown with a very bad sensual, in his touch I could tell his lack of intention in (fine if he doesn’t do erotic since that was not previously discussed anyway) pleasing me or get me aroused. He is very handsome, hot chiseled chest and strong legs up close you can tell he is in his early 40s even if he pick older pictures when he still looked in his early 30s, just making that clear for those of you who are picky about that. Not a satisfying experience and yet funny enough this trained with 7+ years of experience masseurs are as bad as a rookie but charging premium and you can find an actual masseur working on a spa for a cheaper per hour rate and high satisfaction at the end!

Ahhhhh thank goodness for this community 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 #411 #masseurs #serviceproviders #clients 

So… no one actually can provide info on this service provider or is it at another thread??

On 11/1/2020 at 6:18 PM, JoeMendoza said:

Took the plunge this early afternoon after the exhausting yet fun-filled time the night before. My observations:

 

• His pictures definitely looked better than in person (don't get me wrong, he was still hot AF).
• I did not have a soft experience. I prefer soft-medium pressure, so I said medium, assuming that I would get the soft-medium pressure. But it was more of a medium-deep experience for me. He definitely paid attention to all body parts when I was faced down.
• 90% of the time was mostly therapeutic, not much sensual / erotic elements to the session, so I am led to believe that most sessions just end on a typically expected ending for an erotic session (MT, HE). Let's just say we were both "happy." Any may I add that happiness is sweet

 

Well, true to my word, I asked about joining him in the shower per a different thread (link here, post #11), but I am 0 for 1 in that category. Will try again.

It seems different men has different experiences and to the discretion of the masseur to shift from therapeutic to sensual to erotic. In other words, his willingness to go into one direction or another is if he is attracted or not. Yet again, on my experience, if you offer the right tip $$$ a masseur will be happy to fulfill your wishes to your satisfaction!

On 10/25/2018 at 8:12 AM, N13 said:

 

Soft - gentle touch

Do you mean he offers a rubdown and call it a massage? Being how pretty he is but his rate being low, there’s a good chance he is someone who doesn’t know how to massage. As attractive as he is, I’m not spending money on a rubdown.

54 minutes ago, Client1985 said:

Does the massuer hop in the jacuzzi with the VIP package? 

😂🤣😂🤣 but good question though!